My friend was attacked by his own family and they blamed him!

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        March 24, 2025 at 8:23 am
        My Friend Was Attacked by His Own Family—And They Blamed Him

        I am absolutely shaken right now. My friend just told me about something horrifying that happened to him at home.

        He was just sitting in his room, minding his own business, texting me, when his sister—who was sitting beside him—started looking at his laptop screen. Naturally, he got upset and told her to stop, reminding her that his privacy should be respected. Instead of backing off, she suddenly grabbed a bottle and threw it at him—not just at him, but at his laptop too. It actually injured him.

        In the heat of the moment, he threw it back at her, and that’s when things spiraled out of control. She attacked him, scratching him so badly that he’s now bleeding. He can barely even type because of the pain.

        Then their father stormed into the room, slamming his phone down in my boyfriend’s direction—but instead of addressing what his sister had just done, he took her side like he always does. And of course, she immediately started crying and playing the victim, making it seem like he was the one who hurt her.

        The worst part? She told him that if she had a knife, she would kill him. Kill him. And when their mom came into the room? She comforted his sister—not him. When he tried to talk to his mom, she just walked away like he didn’t even exist.

        I am beyond disgusted. No one deserves to be treated like this, especially not by their own family.
        Can you please advise us what to do?

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          March 24, 2025 at 8:41 am
          This sounds like a teen fight.

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            March 24, 2025 at 8:41 am
            1. Not a legal issue, but a family issue

            2. In such cases, it doesn’t matter who started it, the situation has to be brought under control. His mother was completely correct to calm the sister down rather than the brother, of the sister was unstable with the knife.

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              March 24, 2025 at 8:43 am
              It seems you have healthy functioning family and have never experienced this. This is very common.

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                  March 24, 2025 at 8:54 am
                  More common then you think op

                  Favorite child is always right

                  I am a single child and cousins usually got together in summer break in grandparents house

                  And in that group i was the least favourite so everybody blamed me for everything

                  One day similar incident happened ( almost same as your story) and my cousin started crying after hurting me and i didn’t even touch him

                  Now i knew everyone will take his side ( coz he was most favoured among all)

                  What i did next was before everyone gathering i beat the shit out of him literally ( man it felt soooooo good and satisfying)

                  Sometimes u have to take a stand for yourself

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                      March 24, 2025 at 1:24 pm
                      Liked the part- I beat the shit out of him

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                          March 24, 2025 at 1:28 pm
                          Man i was like ab gali bhi pade gi aur thodi maar bhi

                          To kaam kre hi kyu nahi dete

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                          March 24, 2025 at 1:27 pm
                          felt very relieved when I read this 😭😂

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                        March 24, 2025 at 9:13 am
                        How old is she? my cousin sis used to fight like this with her brother

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                          March 24, 2025 at 9:55 am
                          The post explains who the golden child is. Your friend needs better family.

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                            March 24, 2025 at 9:57 am
                            Oh yes he definitely need a lawyer to get through a sibling fight.

                            Is the new generation too soft or I’m too old to think it was just a Tuesday in a random Indian household?

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                              March 24, 2025 at 11:45 am
                              Sounds like your boyfriend is spoilled brat. There is no privacy when you are living in someone else’s house and eating free food.

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                                  March 24, 2025 at 1:29 pm
                                  I feel like people like you grow up and abuse their child.

                                  From your words I feel like you don’t deserve children.

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                                    March 24, 2025 at 4:36 pm
                                    It’s their responsibility to provide food, shelter and needs when teeje m they’re the ones who decided to bring you into this planet.

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                                    March 24, 2025 at 11:56 am
                                    🤌us hisab se meri didi ke upr attempt to murder lagna cahiye 😂🤷‍♀️

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                                      March 24, 2025 at 1:31 pm
                                      Similar incident happened with me, my younger cousin cousin started verbally abusing me because I drank water first, and he was giving bad words like- MC,BC, MKC- I kept my cool and just gave him a smirk, after that smirk, he couldn’t hold off and he started a fight with me, and I beat the shit out of him, I turned his White cheek to Red, and I loved how his white eyes got all Watery and stains of tears on his cheeks and neck, and not only that, he didn’t even bothered me atleast for a week, and as always I got beating from my Mum with Jhadoo and charging Cable, but that didn’t hurt at all. (Cause I was happy)

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                                        March 24, 2025 at 2:18 pm
                                        Ask your friend to start hitting the gym or start a new martial arts training, so in the future if it happens again he can “defend” himself even if its 1vs3.

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                                          March 24, 2025 at 2:24 pm
                                          How old are they?

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                                            March 24, 2025 at 6:35 pm
                                            Same happens with me till this day, i would advice ur frnd not to involve in any actions with ur sis i am avoiding her for more 2-3 yrs and my life awesome after that tbh.

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                                              March 24, 2025 at 7:02 pm
                                              Aahhh normal life! I even started ignoring these fights do whatever you want I don’t fall for it. Op take a chill pill. You can’t help in this case cause of various reasons. Its good for you to take care of him or just avoid these situations by ignoring simple. (⁠ʘ⁠ᴗ⁠ʘ⁠✿⁠)

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                                                March 25, 2025 at 2:30 am
                                                I guess it would have been better if the ages would have been specified although I would still not be the best person to advise….

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                                                  March 25, 2025 at 6:43 am
                                                  What’s with the nonsense clickbait title.. Sensationalising a shitty brother – sister fight

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                                                    March 25, 2025 at 11:13 am
                                                    As his parents are complete failure at parenting nothing much can be done. Tell him to steer clear of his sister. Keep minimal contact. If she comes sit next to him, just stand up and go sit somewhere. She asks or says something unless it’s necessary question keep mum. Keep it distant but cordial with family. Be patient until he is old enough to get job and be independent. Then get the fuck out of there. If he can go to hostel for studies even better. Outside bullies can be fought but inside are hard.

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