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UI need to share something horrifying that happened to my friend. It’s not just about the crime he went through, but also about how the system is treating him. He’s still fighting for justice, and the way the police are handling it is just disgusting.
How It Started
My friend recently moved to Delhi for work and was living in a rented place while job hunting. A couple of months ago, he met a guy (let’s call him A) at a jewelry showroom while looking for a job. They exchanged contacts and became friendly over time.
On January 26, A called my friend in the evening, sounding desperate to meet up. My friend was sleeping but agreed and shared his location. When A arrived, my friend was in the shower, and when he came out, he was shocked to see two strangers (B and C) with him.
A was already drunk and said, “You’re about to get a job, let’s celebrate.” He brought whiskey and convinced my friend to drink with them. After just two pegs, the bottle broke. A insisted on getting more alcohol, which they ordered from a local vendor.
The Nightmare Begins
After another glass, my friend suddenly felt sick and started vomiting uncontrollably. He now believes they spiked his drink. Things got blurry after that.
At one point, A sent him a WhatsApp message telling him to ask C to leave, which he did. But after that, he blacked out completely.
When he briefly stirred awake, the lights were off, and he saw the flash of a smartphone camera. He wasn’t fully conscious, but he suspects A was recording while B was sexually assaulting him.
The next morning, he woke up disoriented. His gold chain (16g, 22k) and pendant (2g) were missing. He also saw random OTP messages for UPI transactions. Checking his history, he realized A had made him transfer ₹1 to his account earlier—probably to verify if his UPI was active so they could later attempt fraud.
Going to the Police – and Getting Harassed Instead
Shaken, my friend immediately went to the police to report the theft and assault. But instead of helping, the police completely dismissed his complaint. They filed a General Diary (GD No. 69A, dated 27.01.2025) for the theft but took no real action.
When he tried to follow up, A called him and offered to return the chain—only if he told the police that the matter was settled. Of course, that never happened. He even visited the DCP’s office on January 31, but still, nothing was done.
Today, He Went Alone to the Police Station – and This Happened
He was alone, scared, and trying to get justice, but the police treated him like a criminal. Meanwhile, the actual culprits were treated like babies.
The police mocked him. They told the accused,
“Bathroom waha hai. Khana kha lo. Have some tea.” (Bathroom is there, have some food, drink tea.)But when it came to my friend, the victim, they threatened him:
“Tujhe nachwa denge.” (We’ll make you dance.)Basically, they were treating the culprits with kindness while harassing and intimidating the victim.
The Worst Part? He’s Queer – and This Makes It Even Harder
My friend is queer but hasn’t fully come out to the community yet. This entire experience has been even more traumatizing for him because of that. He’s terrified that if the video really exists, it could be used to blackmail or out him against his will.
He was already scared to go to the police, and now they’ve made him feel even more unsafe.
He’s Trying to Get an FIR Registered – But the System is Against Him
Even after everything, he’s still trying to get an FIR registered, but the police are doing everything they can to delay and discourage him.
This whole situation is terrifying. A person gets drugged, assaulted, robbed—and instead of justice, they are treated like a nuisance. Meanwhile, the culprits get tea and sympathy from the cops.
I’m sharing this here because I don’t know what else to do. If anyone knows how to push the police to take this seriously, please share.
And please, be careful who you trust—especially when alcohol is involved. The people you think are friends can turn out to be the biggest threats.
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BYour friend is lying partially.
There are lot of gangs active on grinder app where they call men and assault them, rob them off.
Your friend likely met accused on dating app. They decided to spend night together that’s when accused brought his two friends, drugged your friend. Assaulted and robbed your friend. Your friend out of shame span the story.
I am sorry what happened to your friend. Take help of NGO or post on Twitter and tag some journalist. If it gets viral. Cops will take cognizance
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QIt seems the culprits are locals who bribed the police and Police think your friend has no support or money to get vjustice maybe if you can find the queer community and seek their help or he can approach and ngo for help
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UYes, you are right. They have bribed the police with jewelry worth 3 lakh. Even if they give 1 lakh as a bribe, it won’t make much difference.
By the way, she got a good lawyer through an NGO, but still, she went alone today. This is routine work for the police—they know exactly when to intimidate and threaten someone and how to close a case.
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SCan ur friend get a recording in phone of this A by any chance , trend it in Twitter , tag all the officials make them work
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UThat guy made a ₹1 transaction to her at night, saying his bank wasn’t working—probably to see her PIN.
When she woke up in the morning and saw that everything had been looted, she also noticed that they had tried multiple times to unlock her phone, but luckily, they failed. Later, she reset her PIN using OTP.
You can see how easily people can rob you. Delhi is no longer safe.
Should I post my Twitter link here?
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UThat guy made a ₹1 transaction to her at night, saying his bank wasn’t working—probably to see her PIN.
When she woke up in the morning and saw that everything had been looted, she also noticed that they had tried multiple times to unlock her phone, but luckily, they failed. Later, she reset her PIN using OTP.
You can see how easily people can rob you. Delhi is no longer safe.
Should I post my Twitter link here?
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SIf the police are refusing to register an FIR, then hire a lawyer and approach the magistrate and file an application to register the FIR. The court will go through your complaint and will direct the police to do so. Make sure you have all the evidence ready.
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MWait, in the post OP refers to the friend as “he” and in the comment section it’s suddenly “she” ? Feels like something is really fishy with the whole situation.
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UBro, he used to be our guy, but now we refer to him as “she” because she is queer and hasn’t fully come out to the community yet. My bad, brother, if I used “he” by mistake.
By the way, your comment on the post is getting a huge response!
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MVery fundamentally wrong. You are seeking legal advice. You should get the elementary things like gender right. It doesn’t matter what you call him amongst your acquaintances but when you are seeking legal advice, you should always mention the person’s gender as their birth assigned gender. Otherwise it’ll just be a confusing mess and people will back off from lending you a helping hand.
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UOkay, sir, I will take care of this. Your response is detailed enough for us. However, things are not going well with her.
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MYou should consult a lawyer and try to get a magistrate order to file the FIR. And unfortunately, sexual harassment on males is not taken seriously by the police. It’ll be a long and hard battle both mentally and financially but I wish you guys and your friend find the strength to get through this.
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