My Friends’s GF got married off in Feb but they are still seeing each other

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      Kushbro272
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        March 28, 2025 at 1:32 am
        My friend was in a relationship with a girl and she got married off in feb 2025, but they didn’t lose contact and are still seeing each other, Girl’s family is rich and powerful and there’s caste difference too but her mom and sister knows about my friend but her father and brother married her off.

        Now she’s pregnant with my friend’s kid and they are looking to run-away. How can they do it, they are also thinking of divorce but with the girl’s conservative family, they would make her life living hell and probably beat the shit out of my friend or possibly kill them both.

        We tried talking sense to my friend but they both don’t want to listen and they are adamant on being with each other.

        What are their options from here?

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          March 28, 2025 at 1:36 am
          The future looks bleak for the girl and her husband whilst for your guy friend given how the girls family is rich and powerful the future is absolute dog shit with jail/death/beatdown everything a possibility in a worst case scenario. 

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            Kushbro272
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              March 28, 2025 at 1:45 am
              Agreed, Can they run off to some other country like canada, UAE or Nepal

              Two of our close friends in Canada are suggesting them to come to Canada

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              March 28, 2025 at 1:37 am
              What are you going to do in this case, babysitting? 

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                  March 28, 2025 at 1:41 am
                  I tried talking sense to him, but he doesn’t want to listen, girl’s mother, sister are pushing them to runaway

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                      March 28, 2025 at 2:05 am
                      Be more sensible now and cut contact lest the shit rain on you when it hits the fan.

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                    March 28, 2025 at 1:56 am
                    Honestly both deserve to be beaten up badly ,cause before Feb it’s called now ,now it’s affair it involves another man’s family and she is pregnant with your friends child is extreme , if I would have been there I would walk and stay as far away from them , and actions have consequences.

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                      March 28, 2025 at 1:56 am
                      Keep updating,

                      I would love to see them face consequences of their actions. If the husband is smart and powerful, he will figure it out.
                      It will be funny to see what happens to the girl and bf.

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                          March 28, 2025 at 2:08 am
                          Bro wants to see the world burn !!

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                              March 28, 2025 at 2:10 am
                              Not the world but people like her/him.

                              It satisfies somewhere inside me.

                              But it doesn’t always happen, some people get chances they don’t deserve.

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                                  March 28, 2025 at 2:35 am
                                  Rightly put brother. If only the roles were reversed, the spouse doing the affair, op wouldn’t be asking for advice like this.

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                              March 28, 2025 at 2:06 am
                              Stay away for your own safety.

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                                March 28, 2025 at 2:07 am
                                I think happy days are numbered for your friend on this planet. Keep your distance or else you would end up in a photo frame.

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                                  March 28, 2025 at 2:09 am
                                  Hope they boil in hell for destroying an innocent person’s life.

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                                    March 28, 2025 at 2:15 am
                                    Somehow it feels it’s not gonna end well

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                                      March 28, 2025 at 2:36 am
                                      If they will kill them, please do not run away. If they had to they could have eloped before marriage. If family is goon like , you know what will happen. DO NOT RUN AWAY. BETTER FORGET EACH OTHER. Divorce is not easy either. If anyone will be in trouble,that will be your friend. 

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                                        March 28, 2025 at 2:38 am
                                        Let me tell you something i have heard of from lawyers. The husband can file a civil case against your friend for alienating his wife’s affection from him.

                                        Adultery is no longer a crime but it is a ground for divorce.

                                        And sadly (for the husband), the courts will say the husband is the legal father of the baby. And he will bear the responsibility of the baby.

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                                          March 28, 2025 at 2:41 am
                                          Glad to see such loyal friendships still exist!

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                                            March 28, 2025 at 2:43 am
                                            Can you do me a favor and ask the friend what were both of them thinking/ doing when the girl’s parents decided married her off to someone else?

                                            Marriages don’t happen overnight. I suspect your friend and her gf planned for it. If they did, they’re the worst.

                                            And even if they didn’t, they certainly knew the gravity of the situation, of what they were doing. How difficult was it to separate from the husband first and then continue their relationship?

                                            If one can decide to ruin someone’s life like this. Truly for your own good, you should cut your ties with them.

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                                                March 28, 2025 at 2:50 am
                                                Nah they didn’t have time to act on, we all came to know 5 days prior to her marriage, she was also unaware about this, my friend was crying in front of us when she break the news

                                                I know this sounds stupid but it is what it is

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                                                    March 28, 2025 at 2:51 am
                                                    I see. Even then, it doesn’t justify cheating.

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                                                        March 28, 2025 at 2:57 am
                                                        It doesn’t, but they are aware of their actions and consequences.

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                                                            March 28, 2025 at 3:01 am
                                                            I’m sorry I don’t follow. They are aware they have ruined someone else’s life and want to continue doing that. Wow.

                                                            Anyway, I’m not sure but there’s i think a provision that if the spouse deserts you, you can get the marriage void or something.

                                                            As for these couple, if they can just silently change states, who’s gonna catch hold of them? They surely don’t have a citizenship of another country to run off there.

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                                                                March 28, 2025 at 3:35 am
                                                                All of us on the outside see it that way but people who are in the situation are often blinded, girl knows she will never be happy with that husband, so she wants out of that marriage as early as possible

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                                                                March 28, 2025 at 6:00 am
                                                                believe me they are not aware of consequences. he is not aware that his parents have to live in hell like life for his romantic act of being salman khan of tere naam.

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                                                              March 28, 2025 at 5:57 am
                                                              next time you’ll have his parents crying to even find their son’s body if he run with her

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                                                            March 28, 2025 at 3:00 am
                                                            Soon He’ll be in that blue drum, a person who can’t control on his sinful desires invites wrath upon himself sooner or later.

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                                                              March 28, 2025 at 12:22 pm
                                                              Escape to another company..

                                                              That’s the only option.

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