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UUser_5eaa0dbf
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January 14, 2025 at 8:58 amMy gf forcing me to marry her , now a days she is blackmailing more often . Anybody pls help mee how to overcome this Whether to contact their parents ir not -
EExperttarun6146
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January 14, 2025 at 11:56 amFirst of all, why are you a virgin?-
SSwiftbro1162
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MMightyanshu8910
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January 14, 2025 at 11:56 amWhy don’t you want to marry her?-
UUser_383d30e6
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January 14, 2025 at 8:24 pmBecause sheβs a blackmailer? I.e. a criminal?
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UUser_818e244a
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January 14, 2025 at 12:02 pmtry to bring a conversation where u guys are discussing your 1st night or sex with her and record that as a proof. in case she decides to file false case on the basis of that u had sex with her you use the recording as proof.also while taking screenshots of her chats, 1st delete her contact name so that while taking screenshot her number is visible.
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RRapidansh1159
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January 14, 2025 at 8:10 pmyee deleting the contact name wala mast advice hai π
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AAryanpanda887
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January 14, 2025 at 12:08 pmTell her your relative died and you can’t marry for one year as per Hindu tradition, and then repeat next year-
UUser_62c4034f
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January 14, 2025 at 4:09 pmBro will turn into the Indian harbour butcherπ€£π€£ -
UUnnatipanda609
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January 15, 2025 at 8:05 amπππππππ€·π€·
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UUser_c5848ed1
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January 14, 2025 at 12:39 pmBecome a desperate man, behave like a woman and cry 1-2 times in front of her. Put all your insecurities in front of her. Also get yourself beaten in a fake fight, she would lose interest and leave you. Make yourself as unattractive as possible and let her break up with you.-
MMightyshailesh1251
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January 14, 2025 at 3:07 pmThis might actually work. But OP doesn’t seem to be such a competent guy (no offense) to pull this off. Also she might be forcing him to marry just because she’s looking to settle with a guy she can control and boss around.-
UUser_c5848ed1
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January 14, 2025 at 3:11 pmOp just needs to tell her he is getting fired from his job. Ask her money and do the above things. When a woman knows that she cannot get benefit out of a man she leaves such men. Op just needs to prove that he is useless and good for nothing.-
MMightyshailesh1251
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January 14, 2025 at 3:14 pmYeah exactly he needs to actually become undesirable and a bad long term investment for that girl.
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UUser_c59c9936
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January 14, 2025 at 12:47 pmWhy did u date her if u had no intention of marrying her?If u have any intention of marrying her. what is stopping u from marrying her?
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UUser_7079e758
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January 14, 2025 at 4:13 pmhave you ever been into a relationship noone knows if they will marry the person they are dating from the moment they met them, most folks pretend to be good or trustworthy in their first meet it’s only after significant amount of time is passed ppl show their true colours-
UUser_c59c9936
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January 14, 2025 at 6:36 pmI have been in relationships, i am just 20, So both me and my partner have talked about marriage, where we said we dont think about marriage rn.By OP’s post, he is definetly at a marriageable age unlike me. my question is, if u dont see an end game with them for whatever reason ( caste, financial condition, age or whatever) why continue anything?
If OP doesnt wanna marry he has a valid reason. But didn’t he know the reason before??? did the reason arise just when she brought up marriage???
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UUser_383d30e6
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January 14, 2025 at 8:24 pmItβs really not that black and white. You are 20.-
UUser_c59c9936
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January 15, 2025 at 4:20 amI shall take ur word for it
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HHappylion1810
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January 14, 2025 at 1:06 pmif you marry this girl, she will surely threaten you lifelong with false cases. Dont submit and fall for her and please handle her with all seriousness dont screw up your life or react emotionally. Think and act on each step and keep a distance slowly slowly she will go away. -
VVedantpanther618
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January 14, 2025 at 2:00 pmDude your life is in serious trouble. She can falsely accuse you of rape and she’ll likely win. It wont be possible to prove otherwise for you. -
UUser_53a30184
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January 14, 2025 at 2:41 pmCase hone hi waala hai kuch bhi kar le, sex kar le bhai. Koi toh baat ki khushi hogi.-
MMightyshailesh1251
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January 14, 2025 at 3:04 pmNhi bhai aisi ladki k sath pehli baar sex na hi kare wo toh achha hai. Sex k baad ladkiya aur bhi emotionally attached ho jati hai.
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NNancybro646
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January 14, 2025 at 2:44 pmWish my gf would do the same.. -
UUser_f37ccd8e
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January 14, 2025 at 2:50 pmUnless you made some kind of promise, you are in the green BUT if you are feeling dangerous just tell her you are gay or some some disease-
MMightyshailesh1251
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January 14, 2025 at 3:03 pmYeah sadly this looks like a good solution-
UUser_f37ccd8e
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January 14, 2025 at 3:45 pmItβs also hilarious
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RRapidansh1159
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January 14, 2025 at 8:13 pmyeah, and go to Thailand with male friend and show her some good made-up romantic photos-
UUser_f37ccd8e
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January 14, 2025 at 8:32 pmFantastic! A vacation and bro love, win win
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UUser_7e6af08a
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January 14, 2025 at 3:22 pmIf there no verbal or written evidence and you haven’t slept with her then forget it. If you get your parents on tour side and have money don’t worry about it -
UUser_994077ab
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January 14, 2025 at 4:02 pmConsider running away. -
UUser_0969b947
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January 14, 2025 at 4:08 pmπ²π²π₯Ί -
QQuickruchika6441
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January 14, 2025 at 4:17 pmAny proofs you keep won’t be considered in court. If she files a case get ready to face it. Get connected with a lawyer from now and ask them for advice. Last case, a fake death scenario is the only way to get out of any women related issue in India is to die and live with a different identity. -
LLuckyshekhar144
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January 14, 2025 at 4:21 pmIf not been physical then you can relax as she could not do much legally. Just inform someone near her if she is being suicidal. For your and her safety. -
UUser_9eb202b8
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January 14, 2025 at 4:21 pmGo to near by police where she will be reporting the case. Discuss with the SI regarding this. Take his number give him around 20k to inform when she files the case. Now block her from every place. Shift to pg for few days so no one knows your location. If she files for the cases, probably si will inform you and give you time to escape from the immediate arrest.apply for anticipatory bail. Abscond till then. After you have bail file for quashing in high court and then you will be free-
LLuckyravindra637
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January 15, 2025 at 4:37 amThe moment he steps into the PS and blurts the case out the OC will smell money like a hound. He will take money from the boy, register the case against the boy, summon him to PS for counselling, again take money from the boy in name of light charges or NCR Or Closure report. If he doesn’t know the OC he shouldn’t go in there without a lawyer or a person who has experience of handling the police.-
UUser_9eb202b8
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January 15, 2025 at 4:40 amYaa forget to mention to take lawyer with you while going. And regarding money in all possible way he has to spend more than 2 lakhs here. Only the process of applying for anticipatory bail will cost him more than one lakh
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SShravyaowl724
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January 14, 2025 at 5:43 pmYou’re safe! Do as you please! I say get rid of her. -
UUser_a9cbba0c
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January 14, 2025 at 6:00 pmAsk your gf if she honestly wants to marry someone by force or coercion. She’s spoiling her own life and future happiness. -
SSilenthawk7266
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January 14, 2025 at 8:02 pmBe irresponsible and get a very ugly and bad expensive debt, she’ll walk away before the 3rd month emi hits π―Source : myself.
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UUser_487b1166
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January 14, 2025 at 9:19 pmFile FIR with proof before breaking up β¦ make sure to add a text saying on the lines that you havenβt slept together yetProtect yourself and your family asap
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UUser_70e86f18
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January 14, 2025 at 9:52 pmIt doesnβt matter brother β it is on mutual consent, so if you donβt want to marry her, just change the mobile number and get out of thr city for a while. -
UUser_5e66b10d
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January 14, 2025 at 10:35 pmOP , Do not marry this woman. The worst case scenario is that you might be jailed briefly and will have to fight a long drawn legal battle.However, should you marry this woman, she will send your whole family to jail under dowry laws, she will get your property and future income and you will be left fighting many cases, instead of just one.
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UUser_c92cf4cc
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January 14, 2025 at 11:12 pmStay away from her if u saw her nearby u RUN -
UUser_ebbc6497
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January 15, 2025 at 1:01 amDump her⦠-
UUser_b6b05beb
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January 15, 2025 at 4:17 amRecord blackmailing and get a lawyer. Deploy Chatgpt to list 200 reasons on how to make girlfriend run away. Stick to one idea only -
UUser_524c8377
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January 15, 2025 at 5:48 amHomie didn’t even hit πππ© -
UUser_bc5ea43a
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January 15, 2025 at 6:34 amTake it slow.
1. Start treating her as an acquittance. Send typical “Good Morning” messages, some Sai Baba image kind of cringe and so on and on.2. Tell her how glad you are that you have such a sibling kind of vibes, tell her that your mother would love to invite you during Rakhi and Bhaiduj.
3. Keep SS of all of this chat.
4. Tell her that your parents are very toxic and your to be wife has to deal with so many stuffs, you always wanted a Mahindra XUV 700 and a Chrome themed CONTINENTAL GT 650 but your parents wont buy you and you won’t buy such stuffs with your own money because you want it in the form of Gifts/Lottery.
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UUser_5fe2f160
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January 15, 2025 at 6:36 amRelax and go to your nearest lawyer.
Don’t succumb to manipulation and abuse. -
UUser_9b998a94
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January 15, 2025 at 6:45 amBlackmail her to divorce you niw -
UUser_806d9d6b
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January 15, 2025 at 6:50 amthis might be ridiculous but try getting caught in an act with a DUDE. -
BBravelion1257
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January 15, 2025 at 7:11 amBrother. If u have never had sex with her there is no way she can prosecute u for false promise of marriage. U r completely safe.Also whatever happens DONOT MARRY HER. If she is blackmailing now she has the audacity to implicate u in false dowry harrasment, DV cases, etc after marriage.
DONOT MARRY HER.
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UUser_3eeb1daf
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January 15, 2025 at 10:58 amWhat kind of gf do you have who is blackmailing to marry? The incident is enough for you to run ππ¨. Be calm and just say NO. -
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