My Mother (State Govt Employee) Lost 55 Lakhs in Bribes—What Can We Do Now?

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        March 8, 2025 at 4:13 pm
        My 59-year-old mother, a state government employee, made a mistake that led to a tragic loss of life. As a consequence, she was denied promotion, which impacts her final salary, pension, and settlement.

        A corrupt colleague misguided her, convincing her that bribing officials would get the case dismissed. She ended up paying 55 lakhs, giving 3 lakhs at each stage, believing she had no choice but to continue. All payments were made through bank transactions.

        She hid this from me, and I recently found out. There’s still no final verdict, and she is devastated, even talking about suicide. I feel lost and helpless.

        If the outcome isn’t favorable, can we take legal action to expose the government officials who accepted bribes and demand the money back? What are our options? Please guide me.

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          March 8, 2025 at 4:19 pm
          You will not be able to get the money back legally. You can report the corruption though. But please note that while accepting a bribe is a crime, so is paying one.

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              March 8, 2025 at 5:03 pm
              But the intention is to get the money back😒

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                  March 8, 2025 at 6:15 pm
                  Money spent on an illegal purpose cannot be recovered legally.

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                    March 8, 2025 at 6:15 pm
                    Bribe is a bribe, it’s a choice

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                      March 8, 2025 at 11:36 pm
                      Impact matters more than intention (i know the corruption scenario and not saying u r wrong but evaluation is done on the basis of law)

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                    March 8, 2025 at 4:32 pm
                    Where did she get the 55 lakh from? Was she taking bribes herself? That amount of money is something people don’t just have lying around.

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                        March 8, 2025 at 4:38 pm
                        She is 59 years old. People accumulate 55 lac over a lifetime. Not a big amount.

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                            March 8, 2025 at 4:41 pm
                            Big for a clean government servant. Even today the salaries of absolutely the highest officers are 3-4 lpm. And OPs mom was a state officer, where it maxes out at 2-2.5lpm. Must have been around 50k-79k most of her career. People won’t spend all their life’s savings in bribes.

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                                March 8, 2025 at 5:03 pm
                                She has sold a land property for this.I didn’t even knew this.

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                                    March 8, 2025 at 6:35 pm
                                    Get your story straight, either it’s from your father’s savings and retirement fund or it’s from selling property. And stop disclosing all the details here and it can come bite u in actual leagal proceeding, first of all lawyer up and file an fir followed by reaching out to CBI. It’s going to very challenging and political swamp of nastiness

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                                    March 8, 2025 at 5:18 pm
                                    Your arguments are quite nonsensical. Yes she has made a mistake now but that doesn’t mean her wealth was ill gotten in the first place. 

                                    She very likely has a lot more saved up. People end up with crores of Rs in their GPF. If they are saving even half as much in FDs, that adds up to a lot.

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                                        March 8, 2025 at 5:20 pm
                                        Okay. That’s doesn’t change the fact they spent 55L
                                        Liquidating family assets. Not very smart unless they were expecting 2-3cr at a minimum.

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                                            March 8, 2025 at 6:08 pm
                                            Err if you hadn’t noticed, there is a disciplinary action going on against her and she could lose her entire pension, or a significant enough chunk. I’m not sure you realise what is at stake here.

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                                        March 9, 2025 at 12:52 am
                                        Never you can accumulate this much, and paying 55 lakh as bribes , than think how much big the amount has to be then

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                                            My mother worked in a nationalized bank for 22 years. By the time she took voluntary retirement at the age of 55, she personally had > 3 crores in assets, most of them due to 30x appreciation in the Indian stock market from early 1990s to 2020 as well as 20x increase in Mumbai and Pune real estate prices in the same period.

                                            Anyone who entered in a well paying job in late 80s and invested wisely in stock markets and real estate is a multiple-time crorepati by now. In may areas, homes you bought for 1.5 lacs back in 1990 are now worth 1.5 crores easily.

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                                          March 8, 2025 at 5:02 pm
                                          My father gave from his retirement amount and savings😒

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                                              March 8, 2025 at 5:06 pm
                                              Must say that wasn’t very smart. How much was the return they were expecting? Unless it was 3-4cr, it made no sense to spend 55L by liquidating family assets. It

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                                                  March 8, 2025 at 6:10 pm
                                                  Thank you for your judgements but this is r/LegalAdviceIndia, not r/FinancialAdviceIndia

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                                                March 8, 2025 at 5:13 pm
                                                A clean employee can very easily save up a lot more than that. Corrupt ones could have properties worth tens of crores.

                                                Govt employees (atleast upto mid level) tend to live simpler lives while being on decent salaries, they live in govt colonies and get support for childrens education and healthcare, and also some travelling, there is none of that partying and money burning that happens in the case of young IT employees. There’s a lot of savings. Once they buy a house or two, the rest goes into FDs or other liquid instruments.

                                                How the hell does one go through 30-40 years of service in a decent position, earning a good salary and not save up that much? Those in the 50s today have enjoyed a golden run in particular. Joined service in the 90s, got benefits of the 5th, 6th and 7th CPCs and could get the 8th now.

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                                                    March 8, 2025 at 5:18 pm
                                                    The real changes started happening only in the late 2000s and early 2010s. State employees have been paid lesser vs central employees. Unless you are a gazetted officer grade, you were taking less than 1.5 lpm till very recently.

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                                                        March 8, 2025 at 5:29 pm
                                                        Until very recently, Rs.1.5 lpm was an absolutely humoungous amount of money too. Growing up in the 2000s we used to think 50k a month was huge. 
                                                        There wasn’t any of that lifestyle creep that we have today. Holidays meant going to hometown or somewhere in India on LTC. The family car (if any) was a Wagon R/Alto.

                                                        To add to it, this is a woman employee. It is likely her husband was working in a similar or higher paying govt/private job. Atleast from my experience, women employees from that era tended to save almost all of their salaries. FDs were the intstrument of choice but the more adveturous ones put some in mutual funds and got even more gains.

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                                                      March 8, 2025 at 5:16 pm
                                                      Obviously

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                                                        March 8, 2025 at 7:30 pm
                                                        Great question

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                                                          March 8, 2025 at 8:48 pm
                                                          Its probably from bribes otherwise it is pretty stupid to sink that much money into bribes. She was either taking bribes before this and intended to continue or she intended to start taking bribes to recover this money.
                                                          This is like a thief crying that someone stole the money that they stole.

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                                                          March 8, 2025 at 5:09 pm
                                                          Is she a doctor? or was she involved in Road Accident?

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                                                              March 8, 2025 at 5:40 pm
                                                              Medical department in south india

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                                                                  March 8, 2025 at 5:56 pm
                                                                  Thanks for responding. Are those proceedings criminal or departmental?

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                                                                      March 8, 2025 at 6:06 pm
                                                                      Departmental

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                                                                          March 8, 2025 at 6:25 pm
                                                                          Good!, Why didn’t your mother consult a lawyer specialist in service issue? If those proceeding were criminal, she would be right to fear a jail sentence. One could even rationalise bribery in exchange of freedom. In departmental proceedings in the extreme circumstances she would dismissed without pension , gratuity and leave pay but would eligible for provident savings. Even this dismissal can challenged in court. One final point, Has department provided your mother with chargesheet detailing her issues for which she is being investigated? If not they are not even conducting departmental proceedings and are just extorting your fearful mother. Tell your mother her situation is manageable. She can win.

                                                                          Are you from Tamil Nadu?

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                                                                    March 8, 2025 at 5:29 pm
                                                                    You didnt told us what case?

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                                                                        March 8, 2025 at 5:41 pm
                                                                        Since it is a public forum i could not explain explicitly. Its from medical department case

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                                                                        March 8, 2025 at 5:46 pm
                                                                        Hang on, who is accepting bribes digitally?

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                                                                            March 8, 2025 at 7:27 pm
                                                                            Asking the real questions😂

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                                                                            March 8, 2025 at 5:51 pm
                                                                            NAL.

                                                                            Taking bribe and offering bribe both are crimes.

                                                                            [https://www.drishtijudiciary.com/editorial/offence-of-offering-bribe-to-public-servant#:~:text=Direct%20Criminalization%20After%202018%3A,7%20years%20and%20a%20fine](https://www.drishtijudiciary.com/editorial/offence-of-offering-bribe-to-public-servant#:~:text=Direct%20Criminalization%20After%202018%3A,7%20years%20and%20a%20fine)

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                                                                                March 8, 2025 at 5:53 pm
                                                                                There are many people who get scammed by agents under pretext of getting gov job but only agents are arrested.

                                                                                OP’s mom has nothing to worry

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                                                                                    March 8, 2025 at 5:58 pm
                                                                                    govt job aspirant and govt employees are two different things.

                                                                                    offering bribe to a public official is a crime.

                                                                                    even after sharing direct Supreme court ruling in my comment, you still cant comprehend, then nothing can be done. you can live in your delusion.

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                                                                                      March 8, 2025 at 6:11 pm
                                                                                      Very different situation here. Trying to bribe in the middle of a departmental proceeding won’t go well.

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                                                                                          March 8, 2025 at 7:51 pm
                                                                                          Not different situation. Getting government job by paying bribe should also get victim arrested. Do you see them getting arrested?

                                                                                          There are people who get extorted by fake happy ending services. Do you see them getting arrested? since it involves prostitution

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                                                                                              March 8, 2025 at 8:44 pm
                                                                                              Even I don’t think she would get arrested but she most probably will be in a worse situation than she is in now

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                                                                                        March 8, 2025 at 5:52 pm
                                                                                        please visit CBI office in your state and file complaint against people who took bribe from mom

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                                                                                          March 8, 2025 at 6:08 pm
                                                                                          Wrong forum boss most folks have no idea how corruption works in government. Your problem made people ask you more questions.

                                                                                          Also if your mom was officially on leave why she is paying bribe. The person who is incharge should be held accountable. There is something fishy about it

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                                                                                            March 8, 2025 at 6:27 pm
                                                                                            Mother has been working all her life in the that department.

                                                                                            There is a corrupt colleageue who misguided.

                                                                                            Mother is totally innocent and does not understand bribes.

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                                                                                              Many governments employees make calls that result in tragic loss. Train drivers, signal engineers regularly make mistakes. Many people die. Police men accidentally kill people. Nothing ever happens. What kind of a death would get someone who was on leave get in trouble?

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                                                                                                Fuck around and find out.

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                                                                                                  File a complaint with the vigilance commission

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                                                                                                    March 8, 2025 at 8:46 pm
                                                                                                    If your mother was willing to pay 55L of bribe for a promotion then she was willing to use the power which comes with promotion to accept bribes.
                                                                                                    She is a criminal and should be in jail alongwith everyone who accepted her bribes.
                                                                                                    The balls on these people to come and ask what can be done after willingly offering and promoting bribes is crazy. Have some shame on yourself.

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                                                                                                      March 8, 2025 at 11:11 pm
                                                                                                      Good riddance, giving bribes means she also accepts them.

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                                                                                                        lmfao ur mom needs to be in jail for offering bribes as well as the ones who took it, what crass people

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