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QMy brother(second marriage) got married to this lady(also second marriage). In the start everything was fine until a few kids later (3 kids total) their relationship became very toxic. He would hit her and she would hit him as well. Both would abuse each other’s lineage.
Upon several counselling sessions which included people from both families, it was decided that it would be best for them to live a life away from my parents, i.e they would live in a separate house away from my parents. My brother is jobless and hence my father started giving 60,000 INR a month for their expenses. My brother would give all this cash to her.
They have been living separately since 4 years and nothing has changed. They both abuse each other. Beat each other. Compete with each other on whose family side is more loyal. But one thing that is to be noted here is my I agree my brother is no saint. He boasts unnecessarily and is super lazy to work. Whereas my sister in law does not fulfil any of her household needs such as providing her husband with food or respect. She spends 20 days a month in her mother’s house and provides zero accountability of the 60,000 rupees my brother gives her. My brother too stopped asking her to avoid fighting.
Yesterday she had a brutal fight with him and now she came to my parents house and started abusing them verbally and threatened that her 60,000 a month stipend should not stop ever. And that my brother should not live with her and she demanded separation. Not divorce, separation. According to her both husband and wife can live separately and still stay married. I can provide a few examples of her screenshots where she is openly threatening my brother.
My parents are old and frail people. My mother had a heart surgery whereas my father suffers from neural damage. She threatens to torture them verbally everyday if my brother does not meet her demands. She says she does not mind their death cuz of her.
Please advise me what I can do in this situation. I stay in Canada but my family is located in Hyderabad, India .
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QYes. I have recording of her abusing my parents. Her WhatsApp texts to my brother in which she is threatening to kill him and my parents and demands money on time
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IToh tere maa baap, tere bachho ki koi value nahi? Wo toh nahi sochegi…jab tum teeno jail me rhoge, tumhare bachho k anathalay wale sochenge…agar ye tere liye sahi hai toh bhai tu ye teen chhotey bachhe, teen chhotey bachhe le kar rota reh…mai to nhi rota…mere liye apne bachhe, apne maa bap ki value zyada hai kisi k bachhe se…
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MMay be file an fir against your SIL !! Also make it clear that it’s btw your sil & brother you guys have nothing to do with it.
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QAn FIR can truly help? Will police actually put efforts in solving this issue or just half ass it and help woman being portrayed here as a victim? Most importantly the kids need a mother. 😭. They are innocent and too young to deal with any of this
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IThey don’t need such a witch as their mother. You need to file an FIR first before your SIL files a fake harassment case on you guys.
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QAgreed brother. But ye batao FIR wakhaye me help karegi? Aise mamlo me police aurath ki hi sunti hai suna maine. Ya phir bohoth paise mangti hai kuch bhi karne
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IToh isliye tumhe ye phle batana ki utpidan tum par ho rha hai, ye zaroori…ho phle jayega sunwai uski hogi… Aur tere pas evidence bhi hai….paise toh any case kharche honge….but tumhe apni bat rkhne k mauka milega….usne rakh diya, toh tumhari kuchh aur rakhi jayegi….ek achhe lawyer ko retain kar, aur fir karwa jaldi….
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