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UIn the past, we’ve tried reasoning with him, but he’s so stubborn and egotistical that it’s pointless. Now, I’m genuinely concerned for my parents safety if things escalate further.
To make matters worse, my uncle’s kids are accusing my parents of enabling the abuse, when in reality, all we’ve done is intervene and stand up for them as best as we can. Honestly, it feels like they just need someone to blame, and since my parents are reliable and trustworthy, they’re taking out all their frustration on them because it’s convenient. I can’t even begin to comprehend the level of absurdity in these accusations, and frankly, it’s infuriating. But what frustrates me even more is that I’m scared for their safety.
We don’t know what legal steps to take here. My parents have made it clear that if my aunt decides to leave, we’ll support her with whatever we can. She’s financially independent, so there’s no excuse for not getting out of that toxic situation. However, she has made it clear that she has no intention of leaving my uncle but hopes he will change. She keeps blaming my father for not doing enough to make my uncle understand his behaviour is unreasonable.
What are our options to ensure her safety and protect ourselves legally? Should we report him, and if so, how? The reality is, my uncle has connections and is far wealthier than my parents. I’ve nearly called the cops on him twice, but I’ve held back because he’s genuinely dangerous. The people he associates with wouldn’t hesitate to harm me or my family, even though I’m his niece.
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CUnless the primary victim (your aunt) approaches the police with a complaint, your report on his behaviour relating to her will not be taken seriously. Worse, if you complain and she refures your claims, police will scold you for interfering.
Distance yourself as much as you can from their household, and complain only if his behaviour directly impacts or is threatening to you directly.
Generally, from my experience, no one has changed because another person asked them to – the same would apply to your uncle. -
PYour Aunt has to take a call on this. Suggest her to go to the police and report whenever he physically hurts or threatens to do so. Make her understand that your parents cannot take law into their hands. Ask your parents not to intervene unless and until she is ready step forward. even if you give a complaint, she will not hold onto your version. She may need some encouragement to come out of her shell. Introduce her to local women’s group or NGO who works in this area. She may get motivated to fight for her rights.
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