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MMy uncle took approximately 7 lakhs from my mother in cash and won’t return it and is denying that he ever took one. I have no proof whatsoever. He does not care about my mother or anyone even though he is his elder brother . She gave her money as his family’s financial condition was very poor couldn’t even afford his child’s fees and is now acting like a king now. He definitely has no intention of returning the money and everyone i talked only said one thing that you can’t do anything without proof. Please tell me what to do otherwise have no option to just let it go
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DLegally no proof of lending
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MMy first thought was the same but my mother still said let him go how many days will he live with this someday he would have to face it, maybe I’ll talk with him personally and try but i know he talks good to face and did this whole thing with planning.
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ILegally, no option for you. But your advantage(disadvantage till now) is that you are FAMILY. Your mother should start playing the victim that she is in front of all the relatives in each and every function in your family circles. Name and shame them. Warn about their nature. Build up additional stories as to how they conned you and took jewellery from your mother saying they will return with a week and escaped with it(eg). Nothing will irritate and shame them more than this.
Not saying this will definitely work but has its chances.
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ASupreme Court advocate here:
Without proof, it is virtually impossible to get this money back legally.
It is time to cut him off.
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SDo you have any chats or recording of his call? Check your mother’s whatsapp conversation with him
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MCall recording is there but he denies even accepting that he took money, he is very smart and doesn’t really use chats and because of his condition my mother gave money without thinking this would happen and he did this with her trust .
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SNo chat not even family group chat where the loan amount is mentioned? Also he denied taking money on call? There must be some calls and chats prior to your mother giving that fcker money
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MNo family group and as for calls they live very near so he came to the house everyday and already came before you can call him because of money he had pre planned this and no family group because they are the only two children of my grandparents. He never really cared even when my father passed away instead of helping my mother he asked for help and because of his condition my mother helped him
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SFck! Your mother shouldn’t have trusted him. There must be some people who are aware of this situation like some family members or neighbours, you can use them as witness
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MMy neighbour is an old friend of uncle and they also worked together in a company he won’t testify and others can testify but it simply won’t be enough as still documents are needed as proof and we simply don’t have one and when we ever tried to do online payments he always said cash is needed as online payments have 50k limit, we really really regret it if only could’ve used the online mode this would be avoided.
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BLet this be a learning for you and your mom to never trust anyone with your hard earned money specially your relatives.
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UCan’t move on from 7 lakhs.
People earn money by spending their life and giving up their comfort. That’s why we call it ‘khoon paseene ki kamai’.
If I was in your place, I would’ve taken the not-giving-up route.
Remember, if you take help from some goon, they can be easily bought by your uncle as he holds the cash, not you. Whatever you give to the goon, your uncle can give more because it’s free money for him.
Do a few things first:
1. Talk to him personally with 3-4 recording devices on. Let there be anger and all. Let him spit all the truth out on recording.
2. If he collected that money recently from your house or shared household, maybe you’ll be able to file an FIR of theft against him. Remember, police also takes a cut.
3. Or maybe with the recording, you can go to magistrate court with a lawyer, and request for an FIR and monitoring of investigation. Mother’s victim card can be played there.
4. If some trusted goon is there, the better. Otherwise you or your friends with a car and good planning, may be able to pull something off to get your money back.Note: I’m not a lawyer. Everything I say here is fictional. It’s not any advice or suggestion.
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UCan’t move on from 7 lakhs.
People earn money by spending their life and giving up their comfort. That’s why we call it ‘khoon paseene ki kamai’.
If I was in your place, I would’ve taken the not-giving-up route.
Remember, if you take help from some goon, they can be easily bought by your uncle as he holds the cash, not you. Whatever you give to the goon, your uncle can give more because it’s free money for him.
Someone in such a situation could do something like this:
1. Talk to the uncle personally with 3-4 recording devices on. Let there be anger and all. Let him spit all the truth out on recording.
2. If he collected that money recently from your house or shared household, maybe you’ll be able to file an FIR of theft against him. Remember, police also takes a cut.
3. Or maybe with the recording, you can go to magistrate court with a lawyer, and request for an FIR and monitoring of investigation. Mother’s victim card can be played there.
4. If some trusted goon is there, the better. Otherwise you or your friends with a car and good planning, may be able to pull something off to get your money back.Note: I’m not a lawyer. Everything I say here is fictional. It’s not any advice or suggestion.
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MYes I know for us middle class 7 lakhs is a huge amount .I will first try to sort out the matter by talking but if he resists might have to take another route but can’t go illegal as you can get severe charges and will try to record everything and will update this post after 1 month.
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UIf someone does something illegal to someone else and the other person doesn’t have any proof of it, then I don’t know how the other person gets justice.
Also, if a person can do something illegal to the other person and sees that there isn’t any action from the other side, then he may do something illegal again, and again.
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MSame with me… my uncle took 32 lacs and didnt return anything for about a year….
since we were pestering him he said he doesnt have because usne market me udaa diye…
but can settle for a lower amount ..
We settled for a one time 18 lacs but usme se bhi unhone bas 7 lacs diya hai…
Now thing is out of the 32..20 was in white and 12 was cash…
Ab saala its been the 2nd year and all he’s giving are dates.
Due to being related,havent taken any action of going to the cops or filing a case..-
MThat’s a huge amount really sad that even people who should support you are betraying you like this. Once a person gets a habit of this free money he won’t look back.
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MAbsolutely….
And when you need it.. you know someone has your money or taken money, but still difficult to get it back.
I had so many plans, everything has gone for a toss.Lesson learnt,
Unless it’s money that i can forget or even if gone, i can get a good night’s sleep, I’m not going to be lending anymore than that. And
2nd, always going to keep a collateral henceforth,if giving anyone -
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