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      Bravepanda5309
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        April 18, 2025 at 9:26 am
        **Hello everyone,**

        I’m seeking legal advice regarding a challenging situation involving my Syrian girlfriend, who has been residing in India for over five years. She initially came here to pursue her BTech and is currently completing her MTech. Her student visa is set to expire in June 2025.

        The main concern is that renewing her visa requires her to return to Syriaโ€”a move that poses serious risks to her safety due to:

        * Ongoing instability and violence in Syria
        * The possibility that she may not be permitted to return to India once she leaves
        * Her belonging to a minority community, which makes her particularly vulnerable both in Syria.

        This situation is causing her considerable emotional distress. We are in a committed relationship, and I am fully prepared to take responsibility for her safety and well-being here in India. While we do intend to get married in the future, certain personal and family circumstances prevent us from doing so immediately.

        Any guidance or support on how to navigate this legal and immigration issue would be deeply appreciated

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          April 18, 2025 at 9:33 am
          not a lawyer (law graduate tho) and not a legal opinion but if your affection towards your partner is really something, than try to convince your folks, if necessary fight for it. I can understand how precarious situation would be for her if she is compelled to return back in golani’s banana republic. I am pretty sure you know how dire situation is there, especially now. You can provide her legal asylum, another shot at life. even if your affections fall short soon after marriage (I hope not) she could still be in a stable environment to continue make an attempt at ‘life’.

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            April 18, 2025 at 9:40 am
            Why not just marry her? Wouldnโ€™t that make her eligible for OCI status or naturalization?

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              April 18, 2025 at 9:59 am
              Just a common sense type of suggestion…
              Can’t she book a return flight on the same day and land there, get the stamp on the passport and stay in the airport or a hotel nearby and then return on the same day or next day? I am not sure if just landing there itself too risky…in that case this may not be a good idea….

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                  April 18, 2025 at 10:09 am
                  If it was that easy

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                    April 18, 2025 at 11:56 am
                    Or alternatively fly to Jordan (by getting travel visa to Jordan) , cross the border and get the passport stamped and return back to Jordan right away….it depends on the ground situation though…. Can the Syrian embassy in Jordan itself might be able to stamp the passport? just a guess …

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                    April 18, 2025 at 10:02 am
                    Is there a compulsion that she must exit and go to her home country only ?
                    Canโ€™t she just exit and go to a country where her passport is eligible for on arrival visa ?

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                        April 18, 2025 at 10:11 am
                        A few years back student Visa and long term Visas could be renewed only from the country. I guess it’s the same now

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                          April 18, 2025 at 8:44 pm
                          Is there even a country that will provide visa on arrival to Syrians, that too a non tourist one.

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                          April 18, 2025 at 10:03 am
                          Hire an immigration lawyer. Worth the investment.

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                            April 18, 2025 at 10:15 am
                            NAL. But I love Reddit

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                              April 18, 2025 at 10:42 am
                              I don’t know much about India’s immigration law, but she can contact UNHCR’s India office if she wants help getting asylum.

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                                  April 18, 2025 at 3:31 pm
                                  Asylum has lots of disadvantages if she chose to be with this

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                                      April 18, 2025 at 8:42 pm
                                      What disadvantages

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                                        April 18, 2025 at 9:16 pm
                                        What other option does she have given the facts that were stated ?

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                                          April 19, 2025 at 12:43 am
                                          At least it can help buy time while the situation stabilizes in her home country or they can get the marriage settled.

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                                        April 18, 2025 at 10:55 am
                                        Syria is a very peaceful country. If your friend still follows peaceful faith then she should go back to Syria.

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                                            April 18, 2025 at 4:50 pm
                                            I doubt that ๐Ÿคฃ

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                                            April 18, 2025 at 11:23 am
                                            Which city are you based out of?

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                                              April 18, 2025 at 11:32 am
                                              Look at sachin seema case, marry her asap.

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                                                  April 18, 2025 at 1:44 pm
                                                  Bad Idea, he might not be mentally prepared for marriage, we need something else legally.

                                                  Marriage won’t solve anything here.

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                                                      April 21, 2025 at 4:25 am
                                                      Youโ€™re right. I do have a well-paid job thatโ€™s more than enough for both of us, but jumping into marriage right now just feels off. Itโ€™s not that Iโ€™m against itโ€”itโ€™s just not the right solution for the situation at hand. Maybe we could consider it as a last resort, but ideally, weโ€™d prefer something else that makes more sense legally and emotionally. Sheโ€™s also really talented and earns her own pocket money through Instagram and some other influencing work, so itโ€™s not like sheโ€™s entirely dependent either.

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                                                          April 21, 2025 at 5:31 am
                                                          Oh, good to know that.

                                                          OP an advice, I hear that instagram influencers have quite a bad reputation in the world of reputation, I ain’t saying she is bad, but be careful, the world isn’t on your side in anyway.

                                                          I hope you guys marry when the time comes, be sure to invite me.

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                                                      April 18, 2025 at 11:39 am
                                                      Just get married right away . A court marriage will also do. Donโ€™t be an idiot to send her there. Families will get around

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                                                        April 18, 2025 at 11:56 am
                                                        Can’t she fly to Turkey and then just cross the border to Syria to get her passport stamped? Maybe she can apply for the Indian visa from Turkey? Might be worth it for her to hire a immigration lawyer or reach out to the Indian consulate in Syria.

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                                                          April 18, 2025 at 12:27 pm
                                                          I am just a teen but I have an idea , just marry her on paper

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                                                              April 18, 2025 at 4:50 pm
                                                              Thatโ€™s why you are still a TEEN

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                                                              April 18, 2025 at 12:49 pm
                                                              Advocate based in delhi. Contact me for legal help

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                                                                April 18, 2025 at 12:55 pm
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                                                                  April 18, 2025 at 1:03 pm
                                                                  Ngl i saw a thread some days earlier on X maybe where someone said theyโ€™re going to their home country syria because they want to break up with their commited partner but they wont let them go back because of safety issuesโ€ฆ.

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                                                                          April 21, 2025 at 4:27 am
                                                                          Been with her for over 3 years now, and honestly, Iโ€™ve never felt more sure about someone

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                                                                          April 18, 2025 at 1:05 pm
                                                                          This looks like a job for a lawyer bro. I wish you all the best. Do keep us updated. This is such a thriller.

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                                                                            April 18, 2025 at 1:06 pm
                                                                            Do Court Marriage to get her citizenship.
                                                                            Don’t have to inform ur parents but for future scenarios get a prenup ready.

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                                                                                April 18, 2025 at 2:06 pm
                                                                                Prenup is not valid in India.

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                                                                                  April 18, 2025 at 4:50 pm
                                                                                  What kind of legal knowledge and basic common sense one requires to write something of this sort?

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                                                                                  April 18, 2025 at 1:09 pm
                                                                                  NAL.
                                                                                  Can’t you get the same renewed/extended from FRRO from being in India only? The site and letters say you can.

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                                                                                    April 18, 2025 at 1:13 pm
                                                                                    Seek legal advice and apply for asylum.

                                                                                    Get a aadhar card done through duplicate documents as being done by Bangladeshi and Rohingyas.

                                                                                    But only issue here is she has her immigration entry with officials.

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                                                                                        April 21, 2025 at 4:31 am
                                                                                        Don’t know about this route and don’t wann be in illegal shit ๐Ÿ˜‰

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                                                                                        April 18, 2025 at 1:21 pm
                                                                                        Not an expert but my cousin studies in another country and she has this student visa given by the college, she doesn’t have any other visa

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                                                                                          April 18, 2025 at 1:35 pm
                                                                                          Arey leave the family get restrain order against your parents if you earn them they can’t decide whom you should marry

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                                                                                            April 18, 2025 at 4:27 pm
                                                                                            Have you tried the Syrian embassy? They could be able to advise you.

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                                                                                              April 18, 2025 at 4:33 pm
                                                                                              You need to approach the court to seek protectionfrom deportation. Speak to a lawyer or you can reach out to me for help

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                                                                                                April 18, 2025 at 4:39 pm
                                                                                                The safest route is getting married and starting the process for her OCI (or citizenship if possible). Every other route is definitely complicated.

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                                                                                                    April 18, 2025 at 9:48 pm
                                                                                                    The marriage route is very complicated that court will consider marriage as forcefully way of contract for the Visa. For marriage certificate she need her visa and passport legal.

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                                                                                                    April 18, 2025 at 5:29 pm
                                                                                                    hi, id highly recommend you to get in touch with ngos that deal with asylum. syrian women doing masters in another country would qualify. i would also recommend getting in touch with funding ngos if she needs funding. iโ€™ll not share names publicly for safety reasons.

                                                                                                    id also like to speculate, given the fact that she is muslim, and a refugee, it would be difficult to get her asylum in india. but if any European country takes her, the visa issue will be solved without any risk to her.

                                                                                                    do talk with an immigration lawyer. ngos also often provide lawyers with experiences like this. especially international ones. but shopping around for immigration lawyers would be a good investment.

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                                                                                                        April 19, 2025 at 4:17 am
                                                                                                        I think you may have misread his post, he said she will face problems there because she belongs to a minority community (and not a muslim). In Syria, the minorities are Christians, Druzes, Jews etc .. they are treated badly there…no safety for them.

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                                                                                                        India does not have a proper organised Asylum Law. Everything is case-by-case basis. Iโ€™d suggest consult a good lawyer for this.

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                                                                                                          April 18, 2025 at 6:58 pm
                                                                                                          Heck No let her be with her people if you like to help you go with her and make a positive change there don’t bring them here you should go there that will be better.

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                                                                                                              Seriously..!!!!
                                                                                                              What was happening in your brain while typing this nonsense brother๐Ÿคท๐Ÿซ 

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                                                                                                                  Pardon me for decreasing the Indian Population by few points and ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ helping other country by sending good samaritan there.

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                                                                                                                I donโ€™t she needs to be in Syria. Try and see if she can apply from embassy outside of India. Maybe Middle East?

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                                                                                                                  April 18, 2025 at 9:42 pm
                                                                                                                  Contact Syria embacy and explain everything book the visa slot in syria and look for some connecting flight or direct flight if available. Go there complete the visa process and fly back. Asylum is not the good idea it has its own complication in a way that she can’t go to syria or neighbouring countries even everything become stable there.

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                                                                                                                      April 18, 2025 at 9:44 pm
                                                                                                                      If asalym is your option then Immigration law will take you into troulble.

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                                                                                                                      April 18, 2025 at 10:28 pm
                                                                                                                      U r asking for immigration issue in a country where u can obtain fake adhar card , ration card, n passport lol if u have money u already have solution

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                                                                                                                        April 19, 2025 at 3:26 am
                                                                                                                        The one best option is court marriage with you.

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                                                                                                                          Via an immigration lawyer, she needs to apply for political asylum in India.

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                                                                                                                            NAL – check if she can seek asylum

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                                                                                                                              Bhai us se shaadi kr lo saara jhanjhat khTam

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                                                                                                                                1. Send a notice to relevant government agencies who regulate the Visa and stay of foreign citizens in India.
                                                                                                                                2. In the notice cite all your concerns and plead them to extend her Visa under these extraordinary circumstances by implementing principles of Natural Justice.
                                                                                                                                3. If they don’t agree or faip to reply, file a Writ Petition in your state’s High Court immediately under Art 226 and Art 21 of the Constitution.
                                                                                                                                4. The High Courts will be much more empathetic and your gf may get her Visa extended.
                                                                                                                                5. Show relevant character record of your gf and the threat to her life if she goes back to Syria.

                                                                                                                                Let me know what happens.

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