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URecently my dad side of family including my parents went to a restaurant for my uncles anniversary celebration. The restaurant and club is opposite to eachother under same management. My aunt spotted my fiancee getting out of the club so she waved at her to invite her but she was on phone with someone and went back inside . At that moment she sent my cousin sister to get her she came out in a panic that my fiance was sitting in some guys lap and chugging drinks . Then my aunt and mother went in to their surprise she was completely wasted and smoking sheesha. Gladly they didn’t make a scene and left quietly not to disrupt the anniversary dinner and later my mother called me to told me so and so . I tried calling her but her phone was switched off then my parents tried calling her parents and they didn’t answer either. After two days her mother calls my mother and ask her to forgive my fiancee as it was her first time going to club and friends tricked her into drinking and currently she’s undergoing treatment at some hospital. The same evening she texts me makes same excuse and we can meet to clear it out etc etc . My cousin sister went through her friends list to identify the guy who’s lap she was sitting and it turned out it was her ex so we called it off privately. After few days she started threatening me that her parents went into depression and it’s because of me that her father’s political carrer would be over . Now she threatens with rape case on failure of promise to marry is it possible? We didn’t had any physical intimacy
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UShe’s a cunt- let’s get that straight first and her family is garbage just like her.
Seek legal advice immediately, use any contacts that can help in this situation, and as most people said- make sure to keep ALL records of your communications etc.
Keep text communication and screenshot the chats for proofs. Bitch needs to learn the lesson hard way legally. -
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USerious question: Isn’t India a democracy? Doesn’t that mean that anyone can do anything they want, provided it’s not against the law?
Now my point: If this girl is out partying, it’s not against the law. If she’s drinking, it’s not against the law. If she’s flirting, it’s not against the law.
Leave her alone. She is just doing what many people do in the west. Doesn’t India idolize the west? If she’s not marriage material, just break it off and that’s that.
As for the allegations, if there was no intimacy, there is no case.
One thing I would recommend – don’t destroy the girl’s father’s reputation. It has nothing to do with him.
On the flip side – if you want to maintain the proper Indian culture and live in a society that has existed for thousands of years, DON’T IDOLIZE THE WEST. Teach your kids that India has it’s own culture and traditions that you must abide by them. I’m just playing devil’s advocate.
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AOP clearly wants to leave her alone & break it off – it’s the girl who is trying to force OP not to break it off 🤷♂️
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MWhy is him calling the marriage off then against the law? Where does democracy go?
If the girl has a choice to do whatever she wants, which I also think is okay because she’s a grown up independent individual but doesn’t the same applies for the guy here?
He doesn’t want to get financially and emotionally ra**ed by a “promiscuous” girl. Isn’t his choice valid?
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QDude she knows that she is screwed here hence playing the only card she could. Also judiciary is also waking up to realise these type of women.
Club wale area ke station se GD karwalo aur cctv screenshots save krlo conversations ke.
Uski family ko bolo, chup chaap stak le beta,jab mauka mil rha hai, nahi to 7 din baad poore khaandaan ki ijjat ka janaaza nikaal denge.
India me jisko jaisi bhasha samjh me ati hai usko wahi bhasha me samjhana chahie guru. Nanga krke peetna agar wapis se chaud dikhae.
2 bar pite ge fr teesri baar court ka notice bhejne ki himmat nahi kre ge cause deep down they know they are wrong.
If they were not knowing that they are wrong here, then this type of strategy won’t work. -
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UBreak it off. Ask for legal India sub support . You can break off an engagement. If there was money spent , please do the needful .. rest you can also record the threats and use them as proof .
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PCall it off. Block her off. Threaten back indirectly via someone else if she acts stupid or creepy.
Your luck or if you call it god’s mercy is upon you that such a huge blow to your family was averted.
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WNAL She can file a case but it won’t stick in court. If you haven’t had physical intimacy and she is stupid enough to file a case on you then you can counter file a case of Defamation, melodious prosecution, and Perjury.
Get a good lawyer like right now. Get someone who knows the law and has actually become a lawyer cause he wanted to not be one, not someone who became just cause their dad wanted them to or under quota.
Gather evidence. CCTV footage of the club, details of the ex . Save every text. Record every conversation. Receipts of resturants where you met. Screenshot of every conversation you all have had so far.
Lastly, thank god for blessing you that you found out before it was too late and develop a strong will power cause an average case in India takes 5 years to reach a conclusion.
One last addition. Do not understand any circumstances give in. Don’t be afraid if she mentions the case.
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RI see this so much, majority of the people who opt for arrange marriage are quite promiscuous. They always have multiple relationships in the past and then they settle for arrange marriage from the family. Like you had the ability to find multiple partners on your own then why are you asking your parents for arrange marriage? I don’t understand these people.
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UWhy do people delete these posts SMH. There’s no personally identifiable info
> Recently my dad side of family including my parents went to a restaurant for my uncles anniversary celebration. The restaurant and club is opposite to eachother under same management. My aunt spotted my fiancee getting out of the club so she waved at her to invite her but she was on phone with someone and went back inside . After some time she sent my cousin sister to get her she came out in a panic that my fiance was sitting in some guys lap and chugging drinks . Then my aunt and mother went in to their surprise she was completely wasted and smoking sheesha. Gladly they didn’t make a scene and left quietly not to disrupt the anniversary dinner and later my mother called me to told me so and so . I tried calling her but her phone was switched off then my parents tried calling her parents and they didn’t answer either. After two days her mother calls my mother and ask her to forgive my fiancee as it was her first time going to club and friends tricked her into drinking and currently she’s undergoing treatment at some hospital. The same evening she texts me makes same excuse and we can meet to clear it out etc etc . My cousin sister went through her friends list to identify the guy who’s lap she was sitting and it turned out it was her ex so we called it off privately. After few days she started threatening me that her parents went into depression and it’s because of me that her father’s political carrer would be over . Now she threatens with rape case on failure of promise to marry is it possible? We didn’t had any physical intimacy
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