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EI have a brother is in 9th now and one student of his school had a little argument and now is threatening my brother that he will beat my brother and he have 5 brother and many friends to fight i don’t know what to do now as im also in 11th class in other school and we can’t tel our parents please suggest what to do?
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USchool fights are stupid. You could handle this two ways: legal way (tell school authorities or police) or through shatranj (chess).
1) legal way should be straight forward. Tell an adult, tell the adult to talk to school principal, or the police.
2) You could form an alliance with the guy’s enemy. “The enemy of my enemy, is my friend.” Kind of a thing. Look for the 9th class student’s enemies either inside the school or outside. Sometimes bullies just need to see that there are bigger predators than them around. Show them that you’re allied with a bigger predator and they will back off.
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Ubuddy take a metal bat and go with your brother or take your friends in that boys class in 9th thats more than enough they are children they will back off
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UNo, giving teenagers metal rods is a recipe for disaster.
OP, don’t get violent. Tell your brother to make alliances in school that will make him untouchable.
Enemy of my enemy, is my friend.
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SA classmate slapped a younger kid in my school when I was in 10th. The next day there was a car outside with two two beefy sardarjis, family members of the kid who was slapped, waiting. He hid behind us and ran back and took the school bus to his area. That kid wasn’t bothered again.
Tell an adult. Get help.
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UKids these days… 0 courage but all the fake swag. Earlier we used to play, fight, smile without the worry of world… But now, who has more likes, love relationships which can put shame kirchhoff’s law, someone threatens asks for legal advice.
Idk how these humans will survive the 50° c temperature and brutal world once they are out of their home.
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EThat’s not the case my brother only have 2 – 3 friend but that guys have big gang because he stay near school they all come in a big group of 15-20 people
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UFirst, your brother has to learn about risk tolerance. If he doesn’t have friends to back him up then there’s no point of fighting… compromise is the solution.
If issue is beyond friendly banter, you both should consider involving your parents.
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SDon’t listen to the folks telling you to ‘mAn uP aNd fIgHt’, they’ve seen too many bollywood movies in life. They have no real life fight experience.
You must tell your parents and need to tell the school principal. Any police involvement would also automatically involve the school principal as well. So get to your parents and complain to the principal
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EI can involve my parents into this but my parents have goes to job and they are working really hard for us and don’t want to tell my parents that we do fights in school
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SI appreciate the concern you have. You inform your parents and let them decide how they want to handle it. Not necessary to meet the principal, it can also be a phone call to the principal or a letter to the principal.
But it’s important you inform them. As a minor, if you go to the police they will speak to your parents.
If the bully does do any harm tomorrow, you will regret not informing parents
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UNo need to fight unlit you’re 100% sure that you’ll beat there ass off , and you have more friends who can fight ,tell your parents and now there are 2 ways
1. Just go and tell them , most probably they’ll say don’t fight and ignore them
2. Ask your brother to do some acting on the school morning or at night to ask your parents to change his school, they’ll ask why you want to do this , so then tell them that you’re scared to go to school because some guys are threatening you , you can fake some tears also and act like you’re so scared to go out of too,
Then they’ll handle this situation, they’ll complain to school authorities, and ask them to threaten for police complaint, after that they’ll do nothing to your brother
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UInvolve ur parents before anything bad happens to ur brother…. Tell them to directly talk to school principal or director in the school and with that boy or his parents too tomorrow ….
If ur brother is not the culprits then u should not worry about the disturbance of ur parents…. They should be ready for their kids … It’s their responsibility… If anything bad happens they will blame both of you becuz you did not tell them anything…good luck 🤞 … Fighting with them like a movie is a crazy thing to do in real life who know what is going to happen … -
SMeri salah maan chup chap school principal ke paas jaa aur saari baate bata de. And say this
‘My brother is very small. If something happens to him, I’ll file a FIR in PS’
School fights are stupid and unnecessary. Don’t escalate by bringing more peps. Try solving this issue amicably.
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Uthis is the best thing op can do and i think its the only option left , threaten or atleast inform the principal . kids these days have no concept of consequence cause all they see on the internet is people being celebrated for exercising power without bearing any consequence for the immature action, and the kids take it quite literally . Take it seriously cause kids are kids and they are immature , so stop them before they do something foolish
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