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U1. A guy at my school made fun of my mom, even though she is no longer with me.
2. At first, i ignored him, but when he crossed the limit, i asked why he was doing it.
3. He replied, “Mera mann krra tha” (I felt like it).
4. I informed my class teacher, but they did nothing and told me to ignore it.
5. This guy is known for picking fights for no reason (chapri behavior).
6. After school, i informed 3-4 people about what happened.
7. Later, he came near my house and demanded you say that everything you said was a mistake.
8. When i refused, he started beating me.
9. I didn’t fight back because it would escalate, and he might bring more people.
10. I informed my class and subject teachers, but they again told me to ignore it and focus on studies.
11. I’m now wondering if this is normal or if i’m overreacting.
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No, this is not normal and schools are infamous for ignoring bullies.
I lost my mother at a very young age. The other kids had their mothers to come to school and complain if they were being bullied and not listened to. Whereas, my father was a meek man who used too be busy to come to school except for scheduled PTAs and results.
Knowing this, teachers didn’t take my complaints seriously. A couple of them even targeted me.**Here’s what to do:**
* Take it up with your father and write a strongly worded letter(via. e-mail) addressing the principal of your school. Make them know they shall be legally responsible if this behavior continues and the bully isn’t seriously disciplined. Mention all the relevant details. (This is necessary to maintain paper trail.)
* Make a complaint to the police. They’ll simply register an NC (Non-cognizable). If they don’t register an NC: Submit a written complaint to the police and get an “inward stamp” on a copy of that complaint as proof of complaint. Also, mention your teachers asked you to ignore it and didn’t do anything.
* Tell these things to all your friends.If he hits you again, use your right to self defense. And complain to the police and school again. (No need to mention you retaliated.)
Bullies don’t usually back down unless you put a good fight and the more you let them hurt you, the more they do it.
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UFirst step is to write a strongly worded email to principal, copying the teachers in cc, explaining the situation, all the events and mention that due to inaction faced so far, your next step is to go to the police. If that doesn’t work, then you can think of the next step.
In the meantime, if he tries to hurt you, pepper spray his stupid face.
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SBhai I feel bad for you in class 10 I lost my dad this was 13 years ago and similar thing happened with me where a guy said you are not the son of your dad fuck off and then they bullied me , worst part of that if my best friend from school his name was Umesh even he supported that bloody bully and told me he is saying correct,it was a very difficult phase in my life ,I’m sorry I have no advice for you I hope you can get out of this with your mental health intact,I’m so sorry for your loss bhai may your mom rest in peace
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U“I didn’t fight back because it would escalate.”
No offense, but you didn’t fight back because you couldn’t. You were weak, simple as that. No man would stand there, take insults about his dead mother, get beaten up, and do nothing. And this is coming from someone who hates violence and avoids fights.
But hey, congrats on being the ‘bigger man’ and letting yourself be disrespected, I guess.
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UBhai mere saath hua tha. Same.
Maine to koot diya tha puri class ke saamne. Baad me daant padi teachers and principal se but the message was sent
I actually put my fingers in his eyes and my leg in the stomach against the wall of the classroom
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Udude, idk aajkl ke bacche ya laws kya hai
Mere sath hota aisa to i swear lunch break me usko itna marta ki koi pass aane ki koshish nahi krta mere..
School wale complain krte
5-10 din ke liye detain ya suspend krdete.
Lekin pure school me fail jaata ki bhai ki maa ka mazak udaoge to mar khane ko tayar rehna. -
AI would beat you too
what kind of son refuse to fight back when someone make fun of their mom?
Listen here no adult at school will bother with students fight unless a girl is involved.
You are alone here.
Either Beat the guy yourself or bring your friends to beat him up.
Think about consequences later.IF ANYONE MAKE FUN OF YOUR MOM, SISTER OR WIFE!
CREATE CHAOS -
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UI’d say put up a good fight , I’ve been on the receiving end of bullying they don’t stop untill and unless they’re overpowered, I don’t think informing school authorities is going to do anything, they behave as if they’re listening or care about you but they don’t..
The only solution I see to this is.You need to fight him back , and beat him up pretty good , so that he never spews anything ill about your parents, and make sure you make a spectacle out of it and be sure to have a fight in school grounds and not outside the school premises.
Fighting in school would involve the school authorities and calling up the parents of both the boy and your father in school where you can , put your case in front of them , and the matter would be taken much seriously than before
Fighting outside the school premises won’t be beneficial because you’re peers won’t know you took a stand for yourself, they should know that you can take a stand for yourself so that they can respect you and be wary of their words and don’t make a mockery out of you in the future.
If the guy brings people with him outside the school premises just click a picture of them and send it to your father , and he would know how to handle the rest , after that you can probably go to the authorities and police and make a formal complaint of bullying and criminal intimidation. The guy would get a good lesson for sure.
Hope this helps.
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ULike fuck , i have my parents and all but a thing happened during my college i beat him and put him in toilet and flushed to his face , like he brought some guys and beat me then i got some guys and beat him and all those who cam with him to beat me. No one cares unless a girl is involved or get killed
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UThis happened to me when i changed schools. A main bully and his gang tried to start a fight with me. I did not do anything because they were so many.
But what they didn’t know was that my home was very near to the school. So my local brothers waited for him infront of the school gate. The bullies started to befriend me since.So if you have big brothers or know any seniors, get their help.
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