She cheated and married another guy and still kept contacts with me.

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April 3, 2025 at 2:39 pm

My girlfriend cheated on me and married that guy, later I found out she was using me for his happiness aswell. Take me and buying things for him.
And she was in relationship with him long before me.
I want to take revange that guy watch my WhatsApp story I plan to put her and mine picture taken consensually with
Can she later use those whatsapp stories against me?

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[Urbanranjan8949]

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April 3, 2025 at 2:46 pm

Stupidity at finest.

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[Meenafalcon359]

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April 3, 2025 at 2:54 pm

true, don’t know what’s wrong with people these days

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[Lakshayowl134]

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April 3, 2025 at 3:35 pm

Just products of social media relationships

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April 3, 2025 at 5:48 pm

Not really, I stay clean of social media most of the time.
There was complications. I want to forgive but details are too much.

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April 3, 2025 at 5:52 pm

Leave bro, life is much better then these girls aur partners or boyfriends girlfriends, get ahead it’s over!
Life moves on that’s what it is, blunt truth

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April 3, 2025 at 6:04 pm

I am suicidal, mentally not stable, sleepless life 1.5 year fucked and everything because of her.
And when I look at mirror I see no self worth . I was always most confident guy now I have 0 self esteem.

Read the post I added bit more context.

But she did multiple things and used me at multiple occasions for her happiness and to give him happiness.

See the person she cheated with and her happy pisses me off and even after marriage she was playing with me giving me hopes and all

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April 3, 2025 at 6:27 pm

Dude even my girlfriend is cheating on me rn, I give a 0 fuck 😭 I slammed a door in front of her told her I don’t want drama she got out, now there are millions of female waiting, it’s a big pool dude you grow through these things

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[Desibear2069]

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April 3, 2025 at 2:51 pm

Why would you buy for him? That’s so dumb

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April 3, 2025 at 5:55 pm

I didn’t, she lied I was doing for her. She even got all dressed up at my home and I drove her off 100km with her family. Later I got to know it was for his family wedding.

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April 3, 2025 at 2:51 pm

Jo usne kiya galat tha par crime nhi, but jo tum karne ja rhe ho wo crime hai.

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April 3, 2025 at 5:55 pm

tried moving on, first she didn’t got out of my life.
Draped all the benefit from me, soaked me dry out of all the feeling emotion and with multiple medical issues.

Then she kicked me out like dog, when she felt secured and everything.
Iwas nothing but loyal and honest.
I supported her and everything. Now it’s about my well being.

My brain hurts with everything, inwas nothing but good but got used and thrown fake hopes even I was too precautious about relationship with her she built trust made me meet her family met with mine everything.

I never lied or nothing, fed me with happy family thoughts, kids everything.

I know the right path but knowing she is happy with the person she cheated me, even I tried telling him her family made me request him to marry her by begging me.
Now all this bother me day and night. From last 3 months.

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April 3, 2025 at 5:58 pm

I know I wasn’t vague, but if same was done by boy to girl.
She made false marriage claim everything, used me physically, emotionally and mentally.

And from last 3 months I having mental and sleeping issues, that much she broke me.

So it’s not a crime?. Just because I am a boy?.

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[Supermukul4596]

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April 3, 2025 at 2:52 pm

The best revenge would be to move on and do good in your life

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April 3, 2025 at 5:47 pm

Sir I can’t tell you the details she fucked my brain, life everything.
I am having panic attack, high BP , insomnia and more at age of 23

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April 3, 2025 at 6:32 pm

Bro I feel you i am in the same position and age as you are. The one i thought was mine is a distant memory and the scars still haunt me. I still have panic attacks out of nowhere, even though i thought i moved on from her. But it’s better than thinking about something that’s out of our control and trying to do anything in which you really can’t.

The best course of action is to focus on your NEEDS and interests. Go for a jog daily in the park, do not use your mobile in this period, no distractions, have good sleep and eat healthy. Everything will improve.

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[Meenafalcon359]

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April 3, 2025 at 2:54 pm

just cut off with her, it couldn’t be that hard

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April 3, 2025 at 5:50 pm

I tried, first she didn’t got out of my life.
Draped all the benefit from me, soaked me dry out of all the feeling emotion and with multiple medical issues.

Then she kicked me out like dog, when she felt secured and everything.
Iwas nothing but loyal and honest.
I supported her and everything. Now it’s about my well being.

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April 3, 2025 at 3:21 pm

Legally she is married you will be culprit of her husband get to know. Also she can file Rape case on you to get rid of you.

So just move on

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April 3, 2025 at 5:54 pm

I tried moving on, first she didn’t got out of my life.
Draped all the benefit from me, soaked me dry out of all the feeling emotion and with multiple medical issues.

Then she kicked me out like dog, when she felt secured and everything.
Iwas nothing but loyal and honest.
I supported her and everything. Now it’s about my well being.

My brain hurts with everything, inwas nothing but good but got used and thrown fake hopes even I was too precautious about relationship with her she built trust made me meet her family met with mine everything.

I never lied or nothing, fed me with happy family thoughts, kids everything.

I know the right path but knowing she is happy with the person she cheated me, even I tried telling him her family made me request him to marry her by begging me.
Now all this bother me day and night. From last 3 months.

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[Lakshayowl134]

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April 3, 2025 at 3:35 pm

Avoid drama, men life should be free from revenge ideology, drama and what not. You will live more happily

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April 3, 2025 at 5:54 pm

tried moving on, first she didn’t got out of my life.
Draped all the benefit from me, soaked me dry out of all the feeling emotion and with multiple medical issues.

Then she kicked me out like dog, when she felt secured and everything.
Iwas nothing but loyal and honest.
I supported her and everything. Now it’s about my well being.

My brain hurts with everything, inwas nothing but good but got used and thrown fake hopes even I was too precautious about relationship with her she built trust made me meet her family met with mine everything.

I never lied or nothing, fed me with happy family thoughts, kids everything.

I know the right path but knowing she is happy with the person she cheated me, even I tried telling him her family made me request him to marry her by begging me.
Now all this bother me day and night. From last 3 months.

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April 3, 2025 at 4:43 pm

What were you thinking when you were buying stuff for the boyfriend? Cut them off and build a good life for yourself. Good riddance.

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April 3, 2025 at 5:51 pm

I didn’t knew, she sayed it’s for her happiness. I want helping her not him.
I tried getting out, first she didn’t got out of my life.
Draped all the benefit from me, soaked me dry out of all the feeling emotion and with multiple medical issues.

Then she kicked me out like dog, when she felt secured and everything.
Iwas nothing but loyal and honest.
I supported her and everything. Now it’s about my well being.

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April 3, 2025 at 5:54 pm

Self love is equally important. Without that, we only look stupid. Anyhow, wish you a good life ahead, with the lessons learnt and without such horrible people.

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April 3, 2025 at 6:02 pm

I edited my post and more thing.

I want him to know rest is his choice. Why the person she cheated with and cheater get all goodies.
That’s what she did for her self love she made me suicidal and everything.
If start telling things she did how she played, how much toxic she was.
That would more then 1000-2000 words.

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April 3, 2025 at 6:07 pm

New post.

My girlfriend cheated on me and married that guy, later I found out she was using me for his happiness aswell. Take me and buying things for him, got all dressed up made me take her and family to his sister wedding 100km one way trip and left me alone with even me knowing that it was that guy..

Even after marriage played with emotional, gave me hopes mentally fucked me up and everything.
Now when she got comfortable kicked me like a dog with multiple medical issues, suicidal thoughts and from being most confident to a person with no self esteem

And she was in relationship with him long before me.
I want to take revange that guy watch my WhatsApp story I plan to put her and mine picture taken consensually with
Can she later use those whatsapp stories against me?

Edit:- to add little more context, copy paste of my replies as people were giving advice and all. I did everything before reaching this point. I was many time near doing suicide I am not mentally well because of her

I know I wasn’t vague, but if same was done by boy to girl.
She made false marriage claim everything, used me physically, emotionally and mentally.

And from last 3 months I having mental and sleeping issues, that much she broke me.

So it’s not a crime?. Just because I am a boy?.

tried moving on, first she didn’t got out of my life.
Draped all the benefit from me, soaked me dry out of all the feeling emotion and with multiple medical issues.

Then she kicked me out like dog, when she felt secured and everything.
Iwas nothing but loyal and honest.
I supported her and everything. Now it’s about my well being.

My brain hurts with everything, inwas nothing but good but got used and thrown fake hopes even I was too precautious about relationship with her she built trust made me meet her family met with mine everything.

I never lied or nothing, fed me with happy family thoughts, kids everything.

I know the right path but knowing she is happy with the person she cheated me, even I tried telling him her family made me request him to marry her by begging me.
Now all this bother me day and night. From last 3 months.

She even got all dressed up at my home and I drove her off 100km with her family. Later I got to know it was for his family wedding.

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April 3, 2025 at 5:42 pm

get her gang raped…………

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April 3, 2025 at 5:51 pm

Wtf?

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April 3, 2025 at 6:02 pm

Everyone please report him!!!

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April 3, 2025 at 7:03 pm

What was it?

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April 3, 2025 at 7:04 pm

Your post is generic and does not have a substantial legal issue involved.

If you have questions about this removal, please [contact the moderators](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=/r/LegalAdviceIndia).

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