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UI (30M) met her online and we started talking. But we never met physically. Due to various reasons, I broke up with her and haven’t spoken a single word to her in the last 5 months.
I saw her Twitter posts a couple of times and she was basically abusing me and calling me names. I let that pass and didn’t escalate.
But now she’s texting on my mom’s number and abusing me. She’s also spreading rumours about me in those texts. This is causing me a lot of stress and worry.
I’m already under a lot of stress due to work and family issues. I wish her no harm. I want her to have a happy life but this relentless harassment is taking a toll on me.
Should I file a complaint with the cyber police? Or should I visit a police station directly?
I don’t want to take this step but if she again tries to contact me or my relatives or my friends, I feel like I should contact the police. My friend, who’s also a lawyer, has advised this.
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LLawyer here. Speed post an NCR to your nearest police station stating all the facts. It will serve as an intimation.
Keep yourself safe. If she threatens or abuse you again, escalate the matter to the police on based on your NCR.-
UGot it thanks. Is speed-posting an NCR better than going directly to the police station?
I don’t want to take this step for now. Hopefully she doesn’t ever contact me or people around me ever again. I just want her to stay safe and take care of herself.
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DGo to your nearest thana, pull out 4 hari patti hand it over to a constable or anyone who seems down with it bas number ghumea do ladki ka, police wala de dega khaane bhar ka. Then you’re home free
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U“I want her to have a happy life but this relentless harassment is taking a toll on me.”
Why are you trying to be a saint? She doesn’t care about you or your reputation, so take legal recourse and let her learn her lesson and face consequences for her actions.
If she’s most probably under the impression of getting a woman pass then it will break he delusion.
Today’s times are different, protect yourself as very few or even no one will come to rescue you or your family’s reputation.
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UI was just being nice because the consequences of involving the legal system in this are huge. And I also don’t mean any harm to her. I want her to stay safe and happy.
But once this matter goes to the police and the lawyers, families will get involved too. This is not good for anyone.
I just hope she stops the harassment. If she continues harassing me through different means, then I’ll be left with no option but to report this harassment to the police.
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PWhen a rabid dog is out to bite you, do you hope or do you take concrete steps? What is this naivete (stupidity)?
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