Sister’s husband harrassing for property. I’m scared he can do anything for this

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March 24, 2025 at 7:38 am

Iwe are 2 siblings only me(F) and my sister. For context my sister is mentally not smart undiagnosed autistic maybe not sure but all n all not strong mentally. Her husband is farmer in UP he has been harrassing me and my mother who is very sick 68 years old lady. My sister usually does what he says this time she came at our place usually and said that he is asking again for property ( we have 1 house) where we are living he wants that we should get it transfer in name of my sister and me though my family thinks he will harass after this even more so. Currently it’s under my mother name we don’t want to get it transferred hence we lied to my sister and told her just say that it’s already now in my name. Now he is asking my sister to have no relations with us either or come back we are scared if he’ll do something to her once she’ll go back to him. She doesn’t want divorce him also. What’s the best recourse we have here? Please if any one can help here. We are very stressed.

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[Mightysaachi4286]

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March 24, 2025 at 7:42 am

Totally depends on what she wants ! There are laws which can help her but she would need to take some hard decisions, as u said she is not so much mentally strong so it can be tough !

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March 24, 2025 at 7:46 am

Understood basically her husband is asking either property else most probably he will ask for divorce should we go ahead with it will she get any monthly allowance or let’s say alimony because else she’ll be totally dependent on me and I’ve just started working I don’t have a good salary I’m the only one who is earning

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[Desishivansh558]

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Desishivansh558
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March 24, 2025 at 7:50 am

she will most probably get maintenance and alimony.

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[Mightyhero6608]

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March 24, 2025 at 8:19 am

Ok but I guess it will be a time taking process where we also have to invest in terms of lawyer fees and everything.

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[Mightysaachi4286]

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March 24, 2025 at 7:59 am

Assuming he is farmer from Up : getting the alimony is a time taking process and you would be needing a good lawyer and its a time taking process

Most of the cases get disposed initially because they do compromises at their level. ( its my experience only)

I can say just save the property first as he cant directly demand it and if he harasses her again then you can take help from the police or something

Because divorce ke baad ki life bhi easy to nahi hi hai

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[Mightyhero6608]

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March 24, 2025 at 8:18 am

Hn vohi toh dikkat hai aage bhi dikkat ho hogi feeling very stuck in this situation.

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[Mightysaachi4286]

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March 24, 2025 at 8:20 am

House apka kiske naam pe hai ?

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[Mightyhero6608]

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March 24, 2025 at 8:29 am

Mother but humne unhe ese jhooth bol diya tha ki mere naam transfer krdiya hai though nhi kiya hai

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[Mightysaachi4286]

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March 24, 2025 at 8:31 am

What you want to save ? Property ? Your sisters life, or her marriage life ? Because sab to save nahi ho paega

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March 24, 2025 at 8:51 am

Property and sisters life

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[Primeguru8155]

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March 24, 2025 at 3:23 pm

He is a farmer. Farmers don’t get salary slips. It’ll be an uphill battle for alimony/maintenance.

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[Mightyhero6608]

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March 24, 2025 at 5:07 pm

Yes I know we are trying ki compromise ho jaye but for my sister safety we are thinking ki kahin ese FIR types krvade ki aage chal ke agr vo use pareshan krte hain mentally ya physically toh unpe case hoga bas kahan se kre samjh nhi aa rha

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