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USo I (21 M ) was in a relationship with a girl (21 F ) until yesterday night when her father called me and said that not to talk to her ever. He was speaking in haryanvi and I was speaking in punjabi and he said things like baat ni karni iss se wrna naash hojaega tera bhi aur mera bhi . I said in punjabi that I am not gonna talk to her but if she contacts me then it’s not my fault . He said that just let me know if she contacts you I will kill her at that very same moment.
So I am afraid of some things like will this thing be cooled down after some time and what if they manipulate the girl into making some fake case on me . Earlier also her parents got to know about us and at that time she ran away for home and if that happens again then what if they put the blame on me .
What all things can I do in my prevention and should I go to a police station regarding this ?
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Udar gya kya? Apne aap ko boyfrien bolta hai aur darr ke bhag rha h? Bhai thoda gym jaa, confidence increase kr. He is taking your test ki tu kitna strong h, this is Alpha test
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Uऑनर किलिंग या सम्मान हत्या, हत्या का एक पारंपरिक रूप है. इसमें किसी व्यक्ति को उसके परिवार के सदस्यों या साथी के कहने पर मार दिया जाता है. यह हत्या इस धारणा पर आधारित होती है कि अगर किसी व्यक्ति के किसी काम की वजह से उसके परिवार या समुदाय का अपमान होता है, तो उस व्यक्ति की हत्या करना उस समुदाय के सम्मान की रक्षा के लिए ज़रूरी है.
ऑनर किलिंग से जुड़ी कुछ और बातें:
संयुक्त राष्ट्र जनसंख्या कोष (यूएनएफ़पीए) के मुताबिक, दुनिया भर में हर साल करीब 5,000 ऑनर किलिंग होती हैं.
ऑनर किलिंग को शेम किलिंग भी कहा जाता है.
ऑनर किलिंग के मामले में अंतरराष्ट्रीय समुदाय दबाव बनाता है.
ऑनर किलिंग के मामलों में सामूहिक शर्मिंदगी पैदा की जाती है.
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CBut, it seems you are ready to continue the relationship if she contacts you. And you have mentioned that to her father as well !
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UAgar koi neta ya judge, police wala h ghr me toh Tu aram se baate kar vrna bhaj ja 100km door ladki se
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UNa koi neta kuch krta na koi judge kuch krta or na koi police wala, 8-10 saal phle jaisi baat nhi hai ki power ki position me koi hai to tum automatic immune ho.
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UBhai, I think he is taking your test. Sachha pyar kiya h toh dar kyu raha hai? Arrey Pyar kiya toh darna kya, please watch Laila Majnu/DDLJ movie and try to internalize the idea.
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U>he just wants to save himself from future fake cases.
Same advice, best thing for OP to do is visit police station, tell them his situation and draft a letter for his own future safety, They’ll guide him.
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UDo you think mere police protection will keep them protected for life?
The father of the girl is pissed. The guy should stay away from her or just have some guts to continue the relation keeping in mind the probable consequences if he truly loves her. The consequences could be anything, and after that he should take your advice of informing the police.
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EDo you have any concern for her welfare? You did say you were in a “relationship” but all I see is you worrying about yourself. She’s in way more danger than you are bub
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SAbhee seedhe bol diya kee I won’t talk to her and if she contacts then what ? Jab G mein naheen gooda to relationship mein kyun kooda ?
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UIs sub ke mods bohot hi zyaada bakwaas hain. Kaisi ghatiya non law comments hain. Please hop on to the US, UK, Canada ones for a glimpse on how to run this Sub.
To OP, please submit a written, non cognisable complaint to your local PS detailing these events. Have another copy of this letter on you. Once you submit your complaint, get one of the policemen to sign a receiving (acknowledgement that they have received and recorded your complaint) on the second copy of this letter, which you’ll take home with you. Keep the letter on you for the next decade, even if nothing happens. Just to be on the safe side.
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