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APlease read this – [link to OG post ](https://www.reddit.com/r/LegalAdviceIndia/comments/1hnz6bc/parents_hacked_my_phone_and_read_all_chats_with/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button)
So it’s been 4 months now and will tell u what’s happening now ! First month was worst 100s cousins came , abused me , insulted me ke khandan and samaj ka naam kharab kardiya hum muh dikhane layak nhi ! I never had good relation with my cousins as all looted my dad but my dad being dad still helping them ! 2 and 3 month parents were abusing me and my GF parents both my sisters were abusing her too I took a stand and left the house and started living in pG for 3-4 days but this desi family drama or what idk dad got hospitalised so emotional blackmailing started so I have to come again as my gf parents said ke kuch bhi hojaye u always had to have respect and help your family ! My dad, mom , cousins threatened me and my gf that they will kill us or do s#cidee and what not ! Now its 4 months dad is discharged from hospital both sisters are married but they are not talking to me from last 4 months as they are saying tu hamaraa nam kharb kar rha ! Im doing business with my GF we have rented out small office and doing good business ! Now in November ill get married to her dates are fixed we are about to buy new home looking for properties ! But my family had no clue about im doing business , we are planning wedding , dates are fixed etc I told them im doing job ! Now ill prolly tell them by this week or next week ke we are planning to get married then boom WW3 new drama , again cousins , death threats etc but this time it will be final ke move out ! But idk man whenever I get out my dad get hospitalised and starts drama ke comeback this that ! I lost a lot of weight , mental health ,happiness and what not but one good thing is my GF is very sweet and her family is supporting us in every possible way!
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Athe problem is related to heart and yeh from last 4 years se chal rha the diagnosis is only operation open heart surgery! thats why my dad is avoiding this they are like mere umar hogyi bas ! but yeh point se muje hamesha manipulate karte ke mai bimar hu bimar hu
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YHope you have a good life
I have just 1 question, **what happened to using proper punctuations and spacing when writing/typing?**
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SYou’re not a teenager, you’re gonna get married in a few months. Why are you not cutting these people off? Your whole family seems really abusive. This reaction wouldn’t have made sense even if you were a teen. cut them off for the safety of yourself and your girlfriend. They have already abused her and you a lot.
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IIt’s a tricky situation tbh. God forbid, if anything goes wrong with your dad, you’ll end up regretting it for the rest of your life.
My suggestion, don’t break all the plans to them in one go. Maybe have a one to one conversation with him again. Not that I have any hopes of it working out, but better to spill the beans slowly than all in one go. If you do that infront of the entire family, everyone will go haywire and situation will go south.
Can’t you blackmail them emotionally too? “Like is the society more important than their son? He’ll marry a random girl, and always live an unhappy life, cursing his family for it. Is that what they want?” Stuff like that.
And either way, don’t tell them you’re doing business with the girl’s family. If you have to, tell them it’s just the 2 of you.
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