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UOriginal post :
https://www.reddit.com/r/LegalAdviceIndia/s/PM1AMoLmpM
https://www.reddit.com/r/bangalore/s/ERmEZRIctoUpdate from swiggy
– they have blacklisted the delivery person from both swiggy and rapido.
– the initial call operator is going through re-training to better handle such cases.Just wanted to say one more thing that people saying this isn’t harassment or take this as a compliment and just move on. Fuck y’all :). This is proper harassment and no this should never ever be taken as a compliment.
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UYeah man, like i also saw some comments like.
“You can’t do anything”
“He just asked and you said no”
Like wtf, it’s a harrasment!! And it needs to be addressed. -
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QYou are not friends. You have a job. You do it.
Customers don’t want to be asked sexual questions. It’s harassment.
You don’t go up to any random person and say let’s have sex. It’s creepy. It’s sexual harassment.
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Sbut why? because you and other people say so?
customers also don’t wana be bombarded with advertisements and promotions.
its like we forgot who we are and how to think
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QYES, BECAUSE WE SAY SO.
If someone abuses me on the street, I have full right to complain against him.
Just do your fucking job and leave if you aren’t capable of having an normal conversation . No need to ask for sex.
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UOk I’ll ask this just once. How old are you? And no sex isn’t a taboo (at least for me). I didn’t give a fuck that he was gay/bisexual or whatever. Even if it was a woman saying that I would have had gone forward with the same steps. The issue at hand is you don’t randomly show up at someone’s house and say if u can do some stuff to them. And that’s definitely not how you ask for it. It’s very concerning that someone has to tell you this.
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Sim aware im in the minority. just wana explore the difference a lil bit.
he was at the doorstep to do his job. would you be appalled if the person asked to use your washroom or asked for a glass of water ? think about this. he just asked. he can ask anything. how he responds after your decision is what should be judged in the manner you are judging him now
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UDo you not see the difference between asking for a glass of water and asking if he can suck my cock? Please get some professional help and I actually mean it. If someone asks if he can kill you and you say no and he goes away. Will you be like ehhh it’s alright he didn’t kill me?? He’s a good guy who respects boundaries?
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UOkay so how to approach someone for sex 101. First things first, at least talk to them once??? This isn’t fucking porn where you show up at the doorstep and ask if u can give head to that person and then you have sex.
Stop learning how to approach someone from porn ffs.-
Si think the issue is sex being a taboo. we ask strangers for time, water, space, help etc, who decides where to draw the line ?
did the delivery person do something wrong after you said no?
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UAhhhh it’s very concerning dude that I’ve to explain this to someone. So sex is something which is very personal and not taboo at least for me. If you’re in a situation where it’s expected that you could be asked for sex it’s totally different scenario. Here someone randomly is at your doorstep because you booked a service. You don’t expect that person to offer you anything other than that service which in this case was delivery of something. If that person is like can I offer you a fellatio??? Wtf does that even mean right.
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Sit means he WANA blow you. WANA. not did.
im as frustrated by your replies as you are by mine. i dont think there is an end to this.
just wanted to share my perspective. feelings are not right or wrong. you felt disgusted, that is okay. i just want you to think about why you felt disgusted
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Show does one decide whats appropriate and what isn’t ? dont read me wrong, im genuinely curious.
what happened in your vs my life that we consider different things to be appropriate/inappropriate
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EI had this happen to me back in 2016. I used to work at a bank then, and the dude was a regular customer. Late one night the dude sends me a few 🌽 videos. I thought he had accidentally done that, so I replied with a bunch of question marks. So he just straight up asked me if I wanted to engage in some coital action lmao. I refused, he apologised; saw him 2-3 days later at the bank and he apologised again and that was it. I saw him once or twice every week from then till 2018 when I moved to another branch. It wasn’t a big deal to me. We just went back to casual conversations while I would process his cheques.
So I know exactly what you mean. He asked, he got denied, he moved on. But we’re not yet… let’s say evolved for lack of a better word, for this to be a casual question. Right now, as it exists, our society has a whole bunch of rules. Especially for sexual things. We need to follow those in order to keep it functioning smoothly. Most people as well would be weirded out by such a question, despite their protestations to the contrary.
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UMan, Please be cautious for the next couple of weeks since your actions cost him a job loss.
He knows the address of your home so just be vigilant as nowadays anything can happen.
Stay safe
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LGlad they actually took some action, however little. Usually they just brush you off and offer a half hearted apology. They should vet delivery agents so such things don’t happen in the first place. Sorry you had to face this situation in the first place. And it’s definitely not a compliment, it’s creepy.
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