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UPosting again,
My dad recently passed away and he did 2 marriages (we are hindu)
No kids from the other wife and they were married for 16 years but she has a kid from the first husband and she is divorced
She was always a gold digger and was only after my dad for money
Now she has created a fake profile by my fathers name and she is posting their old photos and trying to gain sympathy
We are trying to avoid it but we can’t because my family is well known in my areaPlease advise what should I do in this case
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Uif the other woman is the second wife she wont receive any property as her marriage is void under the hindu marriage act. If your father has not left a will then mutate the property (updating who the property belongs to). You will know the process if you look online
it is better to go to a property lawyer for all of this as this might get messy
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Ureport her account on facebook and post on your account explaining what she is doing. ask a lawyer to send her a legal notice asking her to cease impersonating your father as it is ruining the goodwill and face of your family. If she continues, maybe approach a family member who you both like to mediate the matter. Obviously do all this if you have proof that she is impersonating you.
Unless she sends death threats and threats of harm through the account, I don’t think you have a legal case to go to court.
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UBrother if ur father is a hindu and his first marriage was with ur mother his 2nd marriage is illegal due to hindu marriage code hence the second marriage itself is nullified if his first wife is living and has not divorced ur father and she cant legally get split from ur money,rn just contact a lawyer ask him what u should do incase any court case she files
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UAppreciate the quick response
We are on it but what about the photos she is posting on social media -
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HAs mentioned by others, 2nd marriage without divorce with the 1st wife would be void and she will not be a legal heir to the estate of the deceased.
If the woman has made fake id of your father and using it to post photos online, you can file a complaint for impersonation (under Section 66D of IT Act) and defamation.
Apart from this you can file civil suit for damages for mental harassment and ask court for injunction against her.
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Easiest way to resolve it & hide it is to pay her off. Get a lawyer, arrange a settlement, add all your conditions, no contact, no social media etc & have it signed and concluded.
If you want to go to trial, it’s a little tricky because there’s some grey area there. Under Hindu law multiple marriages aren’t recognised but the court will also not leave an unemployed old lady on the streets. You’d still win this case with a good lawyer, but it may aggravate her to publicise her relations with your father
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UThen she should ask for money from his first husband and also her son is in the UK and earning well
Also my dad bought her a house a car lots of gold and she has good amount of savings as well.
My main concern is her tarnishing my family image in our area
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PBy tarnish if you mean she’s telling everyone the truth, then I don’t think there’s any legal way to hide it. As per your post the only wrong thing she’s doing is a fake fb account
1. You can file a defamation case if she’s lying.
2. You can report her Facebook shenanigans, Facebook will act faster than the court. May be an FIR. -
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UThe only asshole in this situation is your dad. Everyone else is a victim including the “gold digger”
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UIt is helping the community know your dad is a shitbag and she deserves sympathy too. It’s her “husband” after all.
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UEither way still you’re not making any sense my g
Take a chill pill and relaxIf she deserves sympathy she can go back to her first husband or go and live with her parents rather than posting on ig 🤗
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UWhy? Your dad is her partner and she is mourning his loss. You need to chill and stop upholding “honor” he never had.
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UBro looks like you’re more triggered than my dads second wife
We’re also mourning the loss but we’re not making a drama on social media after all
Plus if he didn’t had any honor 10k people wouldn’t have visited his funeralI’ll say it again you’re not giving me any advise on the original post but you’re just picking up points which I don’t need your advise on.
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UIn that case 70-80% of mens are chutpaglu as most men’s cheat even after marriage
Check on your dad too my friend 🤣 -
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Deveryone posting here, OP isnt worried about the property or legitness of the second marriage.
OP just wants the second wife to stop putting pics online
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UJudicial discretion will apply, since we have no set rights and duties for the second wife while the marriage will be considered null and void she was still subjected to what married couples do. She’s making a profile and posting stuff on social media to solidify her position to gain some money. Most probably she will get that money, sorry for what happened to you but your father is a grade A what they say in Hindi tharkey
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SFuck moral judgements.
(1) did your father leave a will?
(2) are you aware of his assets and liabilities? This is super important specially if he was in business.
(3) while living did he eave any FDs or other financial instruments in the name of an offspring or wife (current or ex)
(4) sympathy brings nothing. If she is staking any claim on assets then those need to be backed by some inheritance laws. Consult a lawyer. Pay for a consult and understand what the law says and it’s practise in reality.
(5) you can arguably discourage her online posting by sending a legal notice or some police complaints but please understand that will make you look worse.
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