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UMy childhood friend texted me yesterday. She is going through hell. She is on the verge of comitting sucide, pls help me save her.
Her mother died when she was 2yrs, doesn’t have any relatives, lives with her father only. Her father has been abusing her since past 6 years, She does all the housework (food, cleaning etc). He got her into Allen Ujjain. Wants her to get into IIT only for that 2cr Package. She scored 87%ile in mains 1
And usko bohot maar rahe hai, I mean she used to physical abuse since last 6 years. But last 3 days mai. Its too brutal She sent me pics and Its scary, usko head me rod se wagare mara hai. She is bleeding and all, 2 days se khana nahi diya. She accidentally slept yesterday while studying, to usko raat me 3 hrs tk bohot mara, and ghar ke bahar rakha.
She hasn’t slept in past 2 weeks (bas 1-2 hrs).
I just don’t know how to help her, Either kill her father or run away Run away like kaise (female hai wo)
Usse ghar se bahar jaane bhi nahi dete (11the me ek baar uske papa ne usko bajar me dekha tha, to public ke samne mara tha bohot) Uske uncle ne uska rape kiya tha,… But she is just way too depnded and powerless
She has way too many bruises,… She is scared as hell, usne ab tk 17 attempts kiye hai sucide ke, but she is scared and wayy too weak.
Uska iss world me papa ke alawa koi nahi hai, 11th 12th me koi friends bhi nahi bane.
She lives in Madhya Pradesh Ujjain
Contact this guy(He originally made the post):-u/Electronic-month-945
Original thread :-https://www.reddit.com/r/JEENEETards/s/NJvbeEvRC7
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AShe should but I think she must be thinking that he is his father after all. And this is what happens in most of the domestic violence cases. Victim thinks that other person will be fine after sometime but in highly possible condition they won’t.
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UIdk.. i might be cold hearted.. I’ve snapped when my stepfather raised his hand against my stepsis … and called the cops on him
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UThis is an incredibly serious situation, and your friend needs immediate help. It’s understandable that you’re feeling overwhelmed, but it’s important to act quickly and strategically. Everything will be alright, you can help her get through this.
Here’s what you can do:
1. Immediate Safety:
Call for Help: Call the police immediately. Explain the situation clearly, emphasizing the physical abuse, confinement, and suicide attempts. Request immediate intervention and medical assistance.
Document Everything: Encourage your friend to document everything – take photos of her injuries, save abusive messages, and write down details of the abuse. This will be crucial evidence.
2. Legal Options:
File a Police Complaint: You or your friend (if she can) needs to file a police complaint against her father for domestic violence, assault, and potentially attempted murder. Given the history of abuse, you can also cite Section 376 of the Indian Penal Code if the uncle is involved.
Protection Order: Apply for a protection order through the police or a local court. This order can legally prevent her father from approaching or contacting her.
Child Welfare Services: Since she has been abused since she was 12, contact the Child Welfare Committee or the District Child Protection Unit in Ujjain. They have a duty to protect and rehabilitate children in distress.
3. Support and Resources:
Shelter: Find a safe shelter for her. There are NGOs in India that offer safe homes and support for women facing domestic violence.
Counseling: She needs professional counseling to deal with the trauma and suicidal thoughts. Connect her with a mental health professional or a helpline also be in contact with her.
Legal Aid: Help her find a lawyer who specializes in domestic violence cases. Many NGOs provide free legal aid to women in need.
National Commission for Women (NCW): Contact the NCW for assistance. They can provide guidance, support, and intervention in cases of domestic violence.
4. Practical Steps:
Contact a Trusted Adult: Reach out to a teacher, counselor, or any other adult you trust for guidance and support.
Gather Evidence: If possible, collect any evidence of the abuse, such as photos, messages, or medical records.
Plan an Escape: If she feels safe enough to do so, help her plan an escape route. This could involve identifying a safe place to go, packing a bag with essential items, and arranging transportation.
It is crucial that she gets out of that house as soon as possible. With help from the authorities, she can be safe.
**Important Helpline Numbers:**
* **National Domestic Violence Helpline:** 181
* **Aasra (Suicide Prevention Helpline):** +91-9820466726
* **Childline India Helpline:** 1098Remember: You are not alone. There are people who want to help. Stay calm, focus on taking one step at a time, and don’t give up.
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