Want to start an extramarital affair with a maid as a 22M. Is it legal if she consents?

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      Epicguy3709
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        April 3, 2025 at 9:42 am
        She is married for 13 years (2 kids) and I am 22M, unmarried.

        So it starts with me shifting in a new flat, she came to clean the flat’s front porch and she was really pretty, was unable to think that she works as a maid.

        I started talking with her and told her that she is really beautiful and she laughed.
        Our conversations continued and after 3-4 days she asked as to why I said that she was beautiful? I twisted my words and said that it’s unusual for young ladies to do safai work. (Safai was the word I used)
        Then next month I asked her to give me her number because I don’t have any cash (I had), she gave me her number and I gave her monthly fee.
        Now she messages me and calls me on WhatsApp and I talk about her, I praise her about how hardworking she is and how she is handling dual burden. She told me that “tum se baat karke Acha lagta hai”. Asked her about her husband and she tells that he is not interested in talking to her, remains busy everyday.

        Now I want to get physical with her, but I haven’t explicitly mentioned this in chat or in call. I also am refraining to write cheesy lines like ” u are so tired, I wish I can massage your legs etc etc)

        Can you people tell me, what precautions I need to take in order to get physical without getting myself in legal trouble.

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        Superabhinav527
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          April 3, 2025 at 9:47 am
          No amount of explanations will make you understand that if you do what you want to, it will only put you in never ending mess.

          in short one line- DONT DO THIS – maid or not- SHE IS MARRIED-

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              April 3, 2025 at 9:56 am
              I don’t think you’ll understand this if you’re just told not to do it, but here’s a list of things that COULD happen and DO happy regularly:

              – The maid accuses you for sexual assault.
              – The maid says you convinced her to have sex under the pretense of marriage.
              – The maid, potentially coming from a lower caste community, gets the law on her side.

              Etc, etc.

              You, of course, could fight these legally and win, but the lakhs spent on lawyer fees/bribes and bribes for the judge will make this all not worth it.

              You know what’s cheap? A quick fap on pornhub. I recommend this.

              But, alas, you are young, and y’all people only learn from the consequences, but don’t tell us that we didn’t warn you.

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            Fierceprakash8781
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              April 3, 2025 at 9:48 am
              Be careful of husband

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                April 3, 2025 at 9:48 am
                I will order a nice shovel on Amazon for you. When digging your own grave, make sure to go deep as it’s always fun down there.

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                  April 3, 2025 at 9:52 am
                  Brother don’t do this. It’s not right.

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                    April 3, 2025 at 9:53 am
                    Sound like a trap that a mice is setting up for himself. He thinks he is one laying the trap but it’s other way around.
                    RIP to your mental peace in advance Go ahead and enjoy funeral I mean fun

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                      April 3, 2025 at 9:55 am
                      Welcome to 69th edition of fuck around and find out πŸ˜‚

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                          April 3, 2025 at 9:59 am
                          true there is no scenario where this ends positively for the op πŸ˜‚!

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                          April 3, 2025 at 9:56 am
                          U r 22 and she’s being married for 13 yrs dude tf do u think of urself ho to college study and get a life

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                            April 3, 2025 at 9:57 am
                            One Advice, masturbate thrice and then think about it..

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                                April 3, 2025 at 10:07 am
                                Best advice ever

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                                  April 3, 2025 at 10:22 am
                                  The 🐐

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                                  April 3, 2025 at 9:57 am
                                  I don’t think you’ll understand this if you’re just told not to do it, but here’s a list of things that COULD happen and DO happy regularly:

                                  – The maid accuses you for sexual assault.
                                  – The maid says you convinced her to have sex under the pretense of marriage.
                                  – The maid, potentially coming from a lower caste community, gets the law on her side.

                                  Etc, etc.

                                  You, of course, could fight these legally and win, but the lakhs spent on lawyer fees/bribes and bribes for the judge will make this all not worth it.

                                  You know what’s cheap? A quick fap on pornhub. I recommend this.

                                  But, alas, you are young, and y’all people only learn from the consequences, but don’t tell us that we didn’t warn you.

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                                    April 3, 2025 at 9:59 am
                                    Legally, it’s acceptable as long as she provides her consent. However, morally, it’s not right to pursue a relationship with a married woman, especially one who is a maid. If her husband discovers her extramarital relationship, she may face severe consequences, including domestic violence, abandonment, divorce, and physical harm.

                                    Considering her vulnerable position, it’s crucial to think about the potential repercussions. If things go wrong, you may not be willing or able to accept her and her children, leaving her to face the challenges alone. This could lead to significant difficulties in her survival and well-being.

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                                        April 3, 2025 at 10:07 am
                                        Worst case for OP, husband has a temper issue and come to know abt the affair, kills OP, we all read abt it in Times of India, “22-year old student/techie/guy affair with 36 year old woman results in murder”

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                                        April 3, 2025 at 10:07 am
                                        So you basically manipulated a vulnerable married woman into liking you

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                                          April 3, 2025 at 10:21 am
                                          It may end up in

                                          – She accusing you of rape – police complaint, imprisonment, trial, etc

                                          – Money extortion

                                          – May pressurize to marry her

                                          – If her husband gets to know, may come to your building and create a scene

                                          – May end up in murder of maid, you or her husband

                                          – Someone may commit suicide, you being the reason

                                          – her children could become orphans

                                          – and many more probabilities

                                          Stop her from working in your house, if you can’t get your thoughts clean

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                                            April 3, 2025 at 10:22 am
                                            Don’t be a dumbass. Think of those 2 kids she has, if not her or husband. Their life will be ruined if this turns ugly.

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                                              April 3, 2025 at 10:23 am
                                              Better think about this by putting yourself in the shoes of the husband what if same thing happened with your wife someone tryna be physical with her what would you do so don’t do that

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