What should I do if my ex-boyfriend took out loans in my name without my knowledge?

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      Fiercestar2315
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        March 23, 2025 at 11:51 am
        Hi everyone,
        I’m in a really tough situation and I need some advice. My ex-boyfriend and I were living together in a coliving situation in Hyderabad and we broke up and I moved out 4 months back due to his online gambling/rummy and horse riding betting addictions and recently I found out that he took out several loans in my name without my knowledge. These include home loans(56 lakhs), personal loans(15 lakhs), and even credit loans(5 lakhs) from different banks.
        I found these due to the alternate number(my brothers number) he added in one of the loans and bank people called my brother for missing payment and I checked the cibil report and found out about these loans.
        I’m feeling completely lost about what my next steps should be.

        Has anyone been through something like this? What steps should I take to protect myself and fix this situation? Any advice on how to approach the banks, what legal actions I can take, or how to repair my credit would be really helpful.
        And I don’t know how to prove these are fraudulent loans without my consent.

        I appreciate any insights or experiences you can share. Thank you in advance! This is my first post. Please let me know if you need more details.

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        Coolking4544
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          March 23, 2025 at 12:00 pm
          NAL.

          I don’t understand how’s that possible. I get personal loans and loans on credit cards can easily be taken out via app, but a massive home loan without your knowledge?? Odd. Did he put you as the co applicant or something like that?

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              March 23, 2025 at 12:04 pm
              Even I don’t know myself how we was able to take such huge loan and I believe banks do lot of verifications while giving home loans. I believe he might have done some fraudulent actions by making some other women impersonating me.

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                  March 23, 2025 at 7:46 pm
                  Then report all these loans as fraud and file a police complaint. You won’t have to pay any of it back.

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                    March 24, 2025 at 12:57 am
                    He would have needed to submit your details and your signature?

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                    March 23, 2025 at 12:05 pm
                    another thing could be she herself was an applicant and the relationship turned sour now blaming her ex on purpose.

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                    March 23, 2025 at 12:03 pm
                    it’s not possible to take loan on some random person’s name.

                    Make sure it’s not scam because recovery agent call everyone in contact list of loan taker and lie them that loan taker has give their name as guranteeer.

                    Such big loan on your brother name is not possible without brother knowing

                    Check cibil report of your brother and yours again.
                    Visit bank brach again and confirm.

                    • #29218 Reply
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                        March 23, 2025 at 12:09 pm
                        It’s not on my brothers name.it was taken on my name but he added my brothers number as alternate

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                            March 23, 2025 at 12:12 pm
                            Your brother is lot liable for anything.

                            How did he take loan on your name?

                            Did you sign any papers?
                            Did you give any documents?

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                                March 23, 2025 at 3:04 pm
                                I didn’t sign anything but just a probability, he could have forged my signature.
                                He must have taken my documents when we lived together.

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                                    March 23, 2025 at 3:33 pm
                                    Not possible to take such huge loan by using someone’s documents.

                                    We took loan recently and they did long verification process.

                                    Who told you you have loan?

                                    Did you check your cibil report?

                                    Don’t believe those calls.

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                                        March 23, 2025 at 3:42 pm
                                        I checked my cibil report and saw all these loans.
                                        I don’t how he got all these. One stupid thing I did was my sim which linked to aadhar and bank were with him.

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                                            March 23, 2025 at 4:40 pm
                                            Weird. Please post in r/personalfinanceIndia

                                            for more responses. I don’t think it should be possible.

                                            what’s the lender’s name in cibil?

                                            You must be hiding some information.

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                                  March 23, 2025 at 12:04 pm
                                  Consult a local lawyer dealing with loan recovery cases (generally before the Debt Recovery Tribunal).
                                  You will need to file a FIR against him, and then apply to get your name struck off all loans on the basis that these were fraudulent transactions made without your signature or consent. You’ll need copies of all loan documents as well, and a lawyer can help you through this process.

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                                      April 1, 2025 at 5:58 pm
                                      Hi my ex took a loan of 13 lakhs promising to pay he paid for 3 years now he is refusing to pay 2 more years saying he will not pay the bank interest and also lying saying that he had given my cash in hand and gold which is a lie he is a fraud what to do ?

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                                          April 2, 2025 at 12:38 pm
                                          Would need some additional information.

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                                        March 23, 2025 at 12:07 pm
                                        Go to the police station and file an FIR for fraud. Also add the bank manager and loan officials in the complaint. They shouldn’t have approved the loan in your name without your permission.

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                                          March 23, 2025 at 12:12 pm
                                          Check CIBIL site, to see if your PAN is linked. Income tax department also has a page to show large transactions for your PAN.

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                                            March 23, 2025 at 12:21 pm
                                            Not a lawyer

                                            Visit a nearby lawyer for proper guidance on this issue.

                                            The loan amount is very huge and you should actually promptly

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                                              March 23, 2025 at 12:30 pm
                                              NAL.

                                              Is it chatgpt ragebait?

                                              In kyc they ask for aadhar and to verify aadhar you would need to give your biometrics.

                                              Additionally, you need to provide your income details ( ITR ) to get loans. That may include your work record, your employment status etc. Also, details of collateral and/OR guarantor.

                                              If it isn’t rage bait, First get the details for loans and respective KYC officers at bank.

                                              Hire a lawyer and file An FIR ASAP for fraud, impersonation and identity theft.

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                                                  March 23, 2025 at 12:51 pm
                                                  I took chatgpt help to frame sentence better not to ragebait. But thanks for the suggestion

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                                                      March 23, 2025 at 12:54 pm
                                                      Please update if you find out how they hoodwinked the aadhar system and all the points I mentioned.

                                                      Name the KYC officers as accomplices.

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                                                          March 23, 2025 at 3:06 pm
                                                          How can I get kyc officers details ?

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                                                      March 23, 2025 at 2:18 pm
                                                      Report fraud at appropriate authority

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                                                        March 23, 2025 at 3:25 pm
                                                        Have a few questions if you answer them you will fix most of the things
                                                        1) Where are the emis getting deducted from ?? .
                                                        2) If the loans were taken on your name and your creds (Aadhar n PAN and phone number) didn’t you get any messages (SMS) or email.
                                                        3) Did you ever get any call from any recovery agents for missed EMI ??
                                                        4) Where is the home for which the home loan was taken ??
                                                        5) What are the Bank names which are involved in all this mess.

                                                        Anwer above questions , approach the police and file an FIR

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                                                            March 23, 2025 at 3:40 pm
                                                            So the dumbest thing I did was due to the fights we had I left him and with the luggage whatever I can get.
                                                            At that time I forgot my sim with which was linked to aadhar due to the mental torture I had and i didn’t want to connect with him again.

                                                            1. I had two accounts out of one which was kotak bank which is connected with that number and I believe he was able to login with the bank details when we were together.
                                                            2. As I mentioned mobile sim was left with him which is the dumbest thing i did
                                                            3. I haven’t since I didn’t have the number but my brothers alternate number
                                                            4. I don’t this, I ended up finding all this information yesterday only after looking at paytm cibil score and loans info.
                                                            5. Kotak home loan, yes bank and icici personal loans and HDFC credit loan.

                                                            I can file FIR but I am scared of these things leaked to my parents.

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                                                                March 23, 2025 at 3:52 pm
                                                                Oh Damn ….
                                                                Better keep paying EMI , then you will get married and to hide it from your spouse continue to pay and later to hide it from your offspring continue to pay the EMI.

                                                                Or the alternate is to file FIR n stop the cycle.

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                                                                    March 23, 2025 at 4:05 pm
                                                                    I know I know I will have to file FIR, I am just scared since I never faced this situation

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                                                                  March 23, 2025 at 3:48 pm
                                                                  I forgot one thing I checked the loan open date in paytm cibil section the dates were the time when I was about to left him so he did all those when I was with him and just left

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                                                                  March 23, 2025 at 8:11 pm
                                                                  Approach each lender and ask them to share copies of the loan applications. Notify that you are a victim of ID theft and need the copies to start legal proceedings.

                                                                  Review the copies to check that you were not a party in any manner. Post that, you should initiate a criminal and civil case against your ex.

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                                                                    March 24, 2025 at 3:47 am
                                                                    File Fraud case

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