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      Suryathinker109
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        March 30, 2025 at 3:00 pm
        He lives separately and has provided an accommodation to us. I haven’t even given the exam and he’s harassing me now. Should I complain to the police? He is super rich and is doing such politics to get away from giving us money and my mother alimony. In what way should I build the case so that I can receive financial aid and my mother too for her survival. He is threatening physical violence on me to shut me up. He’s pressuring us to keep our mouth shut and do as he says or he’ll get my admission cancelled mid process in the future. I have downright told him that I will seek legal procedure to end this tyranny. I do not care about getting into any college. I don’t have solid proof against him to accuse him of bypassing the law or of domestic violence since I’m a child. I don’t have any proofs. How to go about it. I’ve googled and there’s something about u/s 125 of CrPC through which I can demand my share of his wealth.

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          March 30, 2025 at 3:17 pm
          ?

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            March 30, 2025 at 3:31 pm
            Who is “he”?

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                March 30, 2025 at 3:32 pm
                My father..sorry my mind is quite scattered I didn’t pay attention to the question that I framed

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                    March 30, 2025 at 3:34 pm
                    Your gender and age?

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                        March 30, 2025 at 3:34 pm
                        F 19y/o

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                            March 30, 2025 at 3:41 pm
                            Lawyer here, based in Delhi.

                            Given the immediate threats, please prioritise your safety. If he is still there and threatening you, you can and should call 112 or approach the nearest police station.

                            You and your mother may seek financial support under Section 144 of the Bharatiya Nagarik Suraksha Sanhita, which replaces the earlier Section 125 CrPC as well as under Domestic Violence Act.

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                                March 30, 2025 at 3:47 pm
                                Thank you so much. He threatens us that all his property will get seized if we try to take any action against him. Money will be wasted and we won’t be able to do anything. And Ive just completed my 12th. I need to get into an mbbs college to complete my education. He can easily afford a pvt college in case I don’t make it past the cutoff but is mentally torturing us into giving away our shelter. How do I go about this?

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                                  March 30, 2025 at 3:49 pm
                                  My life will completely collapse when I take action. I actually don’t have the guts. Is there some reassurance? I can’t take such a big risk since my mom lives with me and we both will be without any financial aid if we go against him

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                                    March 30, 2025 at 3:53 pm
                                    He also blackmails by saying that my sibling will not be able to get married if I do anything against him. My mother has been married to him for around 30 yrs and has become a slave to him having completely surrendered after years of domestic violence and manipulation. I’m completely on my own and this seems a big step

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                                        March 30, 2025 at 3:57 pm
                                        You are in a difficult position, but it is not uncommon. Many people stay silent because they fear retaliation or losing financial security. That fear is exactly what allows this kind of control to continue.

                                        What he is doing through threats, blackmail, and using your future and your mother’s dependence is deliberate. It is meant to isolate you and prevent even basic steps toward independence.

                                        If you choose to act, there are legal routes available. But those steps come with consequences, and you are right to think them through. You do not have to move immediately, but you should start preparing. That means keeping records, documenting what is happening, and understanding your options clearly.

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                                            March 30, 2025 at 4:35 pm
                                            Yes..thank you very much

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