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SSo i got married in December last year and my wife is also working professional. I got to know about his affair with a colleague in February and confronted her. She started giving abuses to my family members and i slapped her few times(Admits its my mistake) That got recorded in cctv of hall . Unfortunately they did not record voice and her abuses remained unrecorded. She directly reported to SP city. Police called me . Inquired me and slapped me few times then asked me to bend down and gave few strokes of stick on my back. Then made me write an apology letter and let me go. As slapping was my fault. I let it go and moved on as i did not want to tell this to my family. She did not stop her affair and told this police beating incident to her lover with lots of mirch masala on whatsapp. I again slapped her few times. Now police has called me. What to do? shall i hire a lawyer? or i vll get same treatment again and let go. Pls help. Will they file FIR as it is second time.
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MYou made the same mistake twice. You should have filed for divorce instead of slapping her. Hire a lawyer and file for divorce. Given the Indian judiciary system, the police won’t be on your side unless you pay them. Take the SS of chats, if possible or be ready to pay the alimony.
Whose house is it?
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UBroda choosed war over peace 😂😂😂😂
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Ego rules , above everything 😂
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Please don’t do a third time , and if there’s evidence you are screwed
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Take all your money and run to madagascar ASAP
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HAlways remember dude make sure your emotions don’t overtake your brain. The winner is always the one who remains calm in emotional situations and decides the next steps accordingly. Never make any decision when you are angry , happy, sad . Go for some walk , eat some chilled things , take some rest then decide what your next step will be.
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SA sensible post finally. Pls bro suggest me do i hv to go to police or a lawyer may help me in this case
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AFail to understand this repeated resort to physical violence. Once you discovered the affair, there were only two reasonable courses of action.. either she ended the affair voluntarily if she wished to continue the marriage, or you both proceeded toward separation. In neither scenario is violence justified. Unfortunately, not only did you resort to it once which got captured in cctv, but you repeated the mistake, which only worsens your position.
That said, the police had no legal right to subject you to physical punishment. Their role is to investigate and uphold the law, not to act as judge, jury, and executioner.
The best course of action for both of you is to settle the matter amicably. Involving the police and lawyers will only lead to unnecessary financial and emotional strain. However, if your wife is unwilling to resolve things peacefully and is determined to pursue legal action, you should immediately hire a competent advocate.
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