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CWhile I don’t have any exp in this situation, why don’t you try to do something where she will break up with you instead. Like if she likes your Beard, shave it completely and show her your baby face. If she hate it then constantly fart in her presence.
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UNot a legal advice but one of my trick which i used to get out of it
My ex was also kinda toxic and i m scared of all these legal problems so what i did was be the worst/boring bf to her i ignore/seened all her text and dont said a word when i was with her eventually she left me and i was the happiest person at that time.
If she didn’t leave after all this. You have to kinda destroy your self image in front of her friends follow all her friends flirt with all of them eventually she will accused you of cheating or leave you so you can do this
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UIs she that stupid? I mean, threatening to kill herself for a guy? How old are you guys? Are you effing kidding me? I toh feel like beating the cr@p out of this guy I was seeing recently because he stalked my social media to connect with me & I have never felt more cheated. Bhai usko bol kickboxing ke classes join karle, how pathetic does a person have to be to be saying sh!t like that.
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UStart planning your break up and start drifting away slowly.
Only talk once in a day and she will definitely get angry and will say something stupid.
Start recording your calls or have proof on chat.Very important – Do not say anything that can be leading and control yourself don’t meet her and for sure don’t touch her in any intimate way.
This may take a few weeks but you will get out of it safely.
Remember: toxicity is addictive, so don’t loose your control.
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UI don’t understand why India cares so much about charging partners in suicide cases. It’s suicide. The person did that to themselves.
You’re supposed to encourage a society that builds mental health on an individual basis. If you have suicidal ideations, then YOU are not healthy. Not the person around you. You should be removing yourself from ang situation that is detrimental to your own mental health.
If you are suicidal, seek help. If you know someone who is suicidal, refer them for help. I don’t see any use in bringing the village or the book after the partner of someone who committed suicide.
You know what that does? Well, that’s how yoh get another person to commit suicide. So then how? Charge society for mental trauma?
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UMy homie was in the same situation as you few months ago .his gf would do the same things ,and send him pics to guilt trip him .it was very toxic and that relationship only got worse with time because he was very desperate to leave her so it was just a big mess .
Sadly for your case , you can actually get in trouble if that happens , don’t shoot in the dark . I would say let the relationship dry out , be cold and stop putting efforts , eventually she’ll lose interest and that’s ur time .
Don’t make it sudden for her to take an extreme step . If you do it out of nowhere she’s gonna take it to her heart and you might be cooked .
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UYou can file complaint or do a pre diary info to the police stating about this and you will be safe.
Before taking any crucial step, contact any good lawyer and take advices to be on safe ground.If you are able to record her in any way she’s trying to threaten you about all of this, it can be also a solid backup proof.
See shit Happens. Life happens but we gotta act smart so it’s best to get in touch with some family lawyer or something.
And please inform her parents about all of this and also have a proof that they clearly know about all things that their daughter is doing.
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PAnyone a dead person spoke to is a suspect. Parents, teachers, lovers, colleagues. Keep good evidences, texts, recordings etc for your own sake. Additionally if she threatens, simply tell her parents. Saving your own ass etc is obvious. But leaving someone to die under any circumstances isn’t the right choice. If she threatens, tell her parents (assuming you’re a teen). If she’s over 21, telling the parents won’t be enough, file a police complaint or wellfares, they’ll follow up with her mental health and well being and you don’t have to do anything. Just make sure you’ve 0 contact with her after doing all this
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ULeave and leave as soon as you can. You’re not her parent, so as long as you were a good boyfriend during the relationship, what she does afterwards is not on you. Besides, I’ve found that people who truly are prone to self harm like that, often don’t exhibit signs.
My ex boyfriend tried to emotionally blackmail me into staying with him too, after he cheated might I add. Just leave man.
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UBro lemme help u with this it’s very easy just make her lose interest in you just make it as boaring as possible just keep ignoring and do your work if she asks why u ignoring just tell her you’re not and just keep repeating the same thing soon she’ll lose interest in you i advised many of my friends the same thing it really woked for them good luck man it’s the best way possible 👍😀
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UHad a girl do this to me once. I was scared shitless and always worried she might actually do something.
She regularly pulled stunts like kerosene, all out, grabbing knives etc. I always had to stop her because I was convinced she might end up doing something in the spur of the moment.
When covid happened, I had no choice but to leave. Got the same threats again. Only this time I had no choice, so I told her I cant do anything and left. Initially she kept threatening me with the same stuff, but its now been 5 years and I am not even in touch with her anymore.
It was scary at first, but I have to say. Leaving was the best decision I ever made. It is never okay to stay with someone toxic who keeps you tied using threats.
Life is too short. You’re not a side character in someone elses life.
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UKeep recordings and screenshot of her threatening to sucide.. If she does or even attempts, then don’t waste time and go to ur local court with those evidences for “anticipatory bail” and then relax.. Even if police comes u just show them the bail order and later hand over recordings and screenshots..
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UBreakup and then call the number given here and tell them her details..
https://pib.gov.in/PressReleasePage.aspx?PRID=1652240#:~:text=24×7%20Toll%2DFree%20Mental%20Health,0019)%20launched%20in%2013%20Languages
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UI don’t know if this will scare you or help you but I know someone whose ex girlfriend committed suicide (she was apparently depressed and on some medication). Her father came with some local boys and beat him a lot to a point where he was unconscious. He was eventually arrested by the cops who took a huge bribe and did not file a case and told him to go back home town which he did.
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UBhai nhi maregi wo….Maan meri baat ..nhi maregi
Isi dar me ki khana nhi khayegi, soyegi nhi, khud ko harm kar legi, zindagi barbaad kar legi apni …4 Saal nikal gye mere …
Agr realize karu to wo waisi ki waisi hi hai …mein Badal gya ..gussa badh gya hai …pehle jaisa nhi rha ….
Get out of this ASAP …theka leke dekha hua hai maine …sirf tu apna time waster kar rha hai …nhi maregi …Maan meri baat
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UHappened to me in my previous relationship. She brought sleeping pills, threatened to come in front of a train. The thing is, and I am sorry if I sound insensitive, but those who threaten, won’t commit. Just get a backup of all the messages, call recordings, and make sure you are clear that why you are breaking up. If possible, get her to confess that she is toxic and does not deserve you.
And no matter how she tries to convince you, or provoke you, don’t abuse her or be rude.
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