Would i ever get my money back?

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      Superranbir3682
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        May 6, 2025 at 11:22 am
        **Background:**

        In 2020, during COVID, I lent a friend ₹60–70k due to his mother’s medical issues. He promised to repay within 6 months, and I agreed.

        Fast forward 2 years—I had to beg him to return my money. He gave countless excuses and even fake screenshots. Eventually, I got tired and decided to go the legal route.

        **2022:**

        In December, I searched for lawyers and found a friend who was working under a reputed lawyer. She offered to handle the case for ₹10,000. I agreed because I just wanted my money back.

        **2023:**

        * Around March 2, she filed the case in Delhi.
        * She asked for:
        * ₹1,000 for drafting and filing
        * ₹3,000 for court fees
        * ₹4,500 as part of her fees
        * ₹700 for some process form

        I paid everything. I even asked if I could claim these legal costs from the person I’m suing—she said yes.

        Later that year, after some hearings, the judge instructed us to publish a notice in the newspaper (to show the defendant had been informed).

        She asked:

        * ₹4,000 for a local newspaper
        * ₹7,000 for a national one

        She said it had to be done via the **Nazrat Branch** (which handles legal publication). I agreed and paid ₹11,000 in total.

        I asked for receipts **but never received any.**

        **2024:**

        The judge was replaced. The new judge often missed hearings due to medical leave or half-days. As a result, **the entire year was wasted**.

        **2025 (Now):**

        Today I received a call saying the hearing finally happened—but the **Nazrat Branch lost some slip/document** and the responsible person has been suspended. Apparently, **no publication was ever done**, meaning I lost ₹11,000.

        She now says we must redo the publication or the case can’t proceed. If it costs the same again, I’ll have spent ₹31,200 in total, broken down as:

        * ₹1,000 (drafting)
        * ₹3,000 (court fees)
        * ₹4,500 (lawyer fees so far)
        * ₹700 (process form)
        * ₹4,000 (local paper)
        * ₹7,000 (national paper)
        * ₹11,000 (Might have to pay this again for publications)
        * Totals comes to 31.2K

        I still owe her ₹5,500 of the ₹10,000 fee she initially quoted. But I’m unsure whether to trust her anymore since I’ve never received a single receipt (apart from the case filing slip). I don’t know what to do next. Neither any publications/ newspaper clips.

        Lastly, she said you will receive interest like of last 2 years and the other guy has to pay me around 90k!

        Please layout your opinions am I being paranoid or this is legit? Also, guide me next what will happen?

         

      • #1409 Reply
        Cleverfalcon3655
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          May 6, 2025 at 11:32 am
          Stop paying you are loosing more than you will recover if you recover and time mental health everything including.

          • #1414 Reply
            Superranbir3682
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              May 6, 2025 at 11:49 am
              Are you a lawyer?

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                Cleverfalcon3655
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                  May 6, 2025 at 11:57 am
                  I’m not a lawyer but a citizen with reality of Indian justice system is so much slow that when you will recover your money you will be thinking that you shouldn’t have gone so much deep in this with court

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              Ruchikafalcon879
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                May 6, 2025 at 11:34 am
                Beauty of Indian courts!

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                Paribro315
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                  May 6, 2025 at 12:00 pm
                  Hire another lawyer and sue the old lawyer + newspaper publication.

                  • #1413 Reply
                    Superranbir3682
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                      May 6, 2025 at 12:02 pm
                      Lmao, you think adding more stress and spending more would help situation 😭

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                          May 6, 2025 at 12:11 pm
                          While yu are at it also sue the above person and than sue me too.

                          Mate just consider it a lesson and let it go.. No use use wasting good money over bad money.. Don’t fall into the sunk cost fallacy.

                    • #1406 Reply
                      Wisepanda660
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                        May 6, 2025 at 12:09 pm
                        You said the lawyer was a “friend”?

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                          Superranbir3682
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                            May 6, 2025 at 12:21 pm
                            Like in school, not that close just know we existed.

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                            May 6, 2025 at 12:14 pm
                            Do one thing : tell her you will give her money once you get back money from him .

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                              May 6, 2025 at 1:21 pm
                              With lawyer friends like this who needs enemies.

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                                May 6, 2025 at 1:41 pm
                                I’m a lawyer here. No one files a suit for recovery of such a small amount as the out of pocket expenses until the suit is pending are recurring and inevitable.

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                                  Superranbir3682
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                                    May 6, 2025 at 2:27 pm
                                    Can you tell me are all these charges like for publication justified? And do i have to pay again for someone else incompetence?

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                                        May 6, 2025 at 2:31 pm
                                        Honestly, I wouldn’t want to validate your suspicion when I am not aware of what really transpired. But you’re surely at free will to ask for acknowledgment/receipts so that you don’t feel cheated.

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                                          Superranbir3682
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                                            May 6, 2025 at 4:50 pm
                                            How can i make you believe that i am not lying?

                                            • #1419 Reply
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                                                May 6, 2025 at 4:52 pm
                                                I never meant to say so. All I’m saying is that I have no clue under what circumstances you had to pay those amounts and whether they were legit or no, so I shouldn’t comment on it.

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                                          May 6, 2025 at 1:43 pm
                                          Never ever go to court for money related issues, property/tenant issues…when you go to court for these issues the defendants of the case get strong and get security…I’m talking from a personal experience…you’ll never get your money or get your property tenant free if you go to court…but use muscle power ,police power…if you would have given some SI rank officer of a police station ₹5000 he would have harrassed that mf and would have got your money back…

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                                            May 6, 2025 at 2:09 pm
                                            As a friend she should have warned you about the expected cost and advised you not to proceed.

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                                              May 6, 2025 at 2:53 pm
                                              A friend borrowed money and never returned, while the other one filed a court case and drained you more. Probably you are a good person but others are taking advantage. Be careful in future please.

                                              As for the situation, others already suggested better.

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                                              Anishshark139
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                                                May 6, 2025 at 3:10 pm
                                                NAL

                                                You don’t lend to friends. You give them money which you can forego and forget about it.

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                                                    May 7, 2025 at 5:08 am
                                                    This. Always follow this rule with friends and family

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                                                    May 6, 2025 at 3:57 pm
                                                    Cut your losses. Withdraw the case. Get on with life.

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                                                      May 6, 2025 at 4:20 pm
                                                      You’re ch or what that you filed a case for 60-70k ₹?

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                                                      Shivanieagle175
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                                                        May 6, 2025 at 6:26 pm
                                                        1. Withdraw the case, it will eat up a lot of money and mental peace. Not worth it.
                                                        2. Never lend money to anyone with whom you want to keep a good relationship.
                                                        3. Have a thumb rule, lend only that much money what you can let go.
                                                        4. Meet the friend sometime later and give him your peace of mind, not on call or text. It will help you get closure and move on.

                                                        Take care.

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                                                          May 6, 2025 at 7:19 pm
                                                          First things first!
                                                          Stop calling him your friend!!

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                                                            May 6, 2025 at 7:27 pm
                                                            I am so sad. Yoy went to seek justice , now you are draining.

                                                            Please stop this legal costs. It is not worth.

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