Wouldn’t Indian men start taking law into their own hands?

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        January 25, 2025 at 6:03 am
        Thanks to our Indian judiciary,
        and their mysoginistic belief that women are always below men. Hindu marriage laws have been designed in such a way that women are always prioritised. Our lords who are so disconnected from society believes that women are incapable of cruelty and violence the same way men are capable of and hence considers gender when dishing out verdicts too. Word of mouth is more than enough to put any innocent guy, his siblings, their parents into jail and automatically rewarding custody of their children to the same evil in-laws and evil wife as a result with all their earnings too….
        So what are the odds that Indian men start
        taking law into their own hands instead of the
        current trend of unaliving themselves? The indian legal system has put them in such a state that
        wouldn’t they start considering unaliving the wife and in-laws and then unaliving themselves. Isn’t that a
        better alternative than the current biased laws. The men wouldn’t lose their hard earned money, the parents wont be tortured by judges like atul subash case, the kid won’t be raised to hate their dad by the evil in-laws who supported their evil daughter in all the fake allegations… How many non-sharia men
        would start considering that alternative and wouldn’t that be problematic for our society in the long run?

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          January 25, 2025 at 6:16 am
          To answer your question: no. Those men have much more to lose if they take law in their own hands than settling the matter out of court and just get rid of the problem by paying her off.

          To give you some sense of optimism, the times are changing, slowly but surely. Back in the day police used to arrest you immediately the wife files the complaint, nowadays they don’t. Judges have also become more aware of the plethora of fake cases being filed by women so they too analyze the case more carefully than just take her word for it.

          Everyone knows that the laws need to be changed, but whenever their is even an attempt the women organizations start protesting against it. And no one wants to take the heat for it. Politicians risk losing their voters, judges risk losing that spotlessness of their career, etc.

          Hopefully with time, the voice will be loud enough that the authorities have to listen to it.

          Forget matrimonial cases, SC rejects PIL to make rape gender neutral (and it’s not just for men, it’s for the non binary community too) but they always give the excuse that it is upto the government to make laws not us. Maybe we need another large scale protests with the men and lgbtq+ community to make all our laws gender neutral.

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            January 25, 2025 at 6:28 am
            I have actually long thought about this. I agree that going the violent route will be a lot better, because usually the lawyers on the wife’s side would add them to the charge anyway. This way, there won’t be anyone to hire a lawyer. Husband won’t be harassed by the law, because harassment is actually getting shit from the law without doing anything wrong.

            Disclaimer: This is all hypothetical and satire.

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                January 25, 2025 at 7:06 am
                All satirically i would totally agree…
                No reason to leave the evil girl whom i loved and tried to start a life with and her in-laws to enjoy my hardwork and raise my kid if at all i get married in future….

            • #67087 Reply
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                January 25, 2025 at 6:34 am
                If they take laws in their hand then court will start denying bail and anticipatory bail so it will harm men only in long term. Its not a practical solution. Better for men to make a brotherhood and make this an election issue

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                    January 25, 2025 at 6:54 am
                    >Better for men to make a brotherhood and make this an election issue

                    It’s a good long term solution.

                    However, anyone who finds themselves in that situation **right now** will most likely off their partner.

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                        January 25, 2025 at 7:02 am
                        then spend entire life in jail? Indian jails are hell on earth for anyone who grew up with basic amenties of life like sanitation, decent food etc. True that Fake cases can ruin your life but still there are many men who survive and build their life again. Better to fight the case, burn money and suffer instead of suffering after going to jail.

                        • #67101 Reply
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                            January 25, 2025 at 7:10 am
                            Even better than ending one’s life knowing that the evil girl and in-laws will enjoy the fruits of your labour, your parents will be tortured even more by judiciary and the system and your kids will be raised by the same evil in-laws and your wife into hating you with zero connection to your parents as they grow up

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                              January 25, 2025 at 7:27 am
                              agar lifetime pain de de aur suicide kar le toh, like atul ne suicide kar liya bina kuch kare waste kar diya life. voh kush rhe aur dukhi yeh konsa law hai.

                              Yeh example nhi bnega ki agar law kuch nhi karega toh hum karenge.

                              Aur fake case bhi kam ho jayenge. Chahiye voh girl/boy ho.

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                              January 25, 2025 at 7:10 am
                              Sounds better than the current options an Indian guy has

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                              January 25, 2025 at 7:27 am
                              agar lifetime pain de de aur suicide kar le toh, like atul ne suicide kar liya bina kuch kare waste kar diya life. voh kush rhe aur dukhi yeh konsa law hai.

                              Yeh example nhi bnega ki agar law kuch nhi karega toh hum karenge.

                              Aur fake case bhi kam ho jayenge. Chahiye voh girl/boy ho.

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                                  January 25, 2025 at 7:38 am
                                  jab koi mard fake case ki wjh se aurat ke saath aisa karta hai to media usko is tarike se dikhaata hai ki logo ko aurat se hi sahunibhooti ho. Tab koi nhi bolta uske sang bura hua kyuki pure tathya nhi bataate aur agar ye baat bolo to lof boldete hai ki tum ek kaatil ko support karhe ho aur agar wo katl kar sakta hai to ho sakta hai apni biwi ko marta bhi ho ya balatkaari ho. Isse darr nhi banega log aur zyada sochenge ki bechaari aurato pe kitna zulm hota hai.

                                  Atul subhas ki aatmhatya ki wjh se hi ab log thoda nind se jaage hai chaahe uska khud ka fayda na hua ho par bhartiya mardo pe upkaar kar gya

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                                      January 25, 2025 at 8:03 am
                                      yeh mods kitne ajeeb log hai yeh post delete kar di

                                      Media bhi same karti, jesa yaha post delete kar di vaha news hi nhi dikhta

                                      life is soo weird if i think logical everyone going to vanish same day , we are dust compare to our universe .

                                      Suicide kar nhi skta because of parents varna mei kar chuka hota ab tak ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ.

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                                          January 25, 2025 at 8:35 am
                                          aap pe bhi false case ho rakhe hai kya?

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                                              January 25, 2025 at 8:43 am
                                              nah bhai i am not married

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                                                  January 25, 2025 at 8:47 am
                                                  to mat socho suicide ka. seva krro mata pita ki

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                                          January 25, 2025 at 7:52 am
                                          The number of ppl that commit crimes while on bail is already laughable. If laws were changed and adjusted based on crimes committed, you wouldn’t be in this situation in the first place!

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                                          January 25, 2025 at 6:34 am
                                          Yes, number of such cases is bound to go up. Even in discussions online, many men have expressed the same thing – if it happens to them and they have decided to take their own life, they will kill those who are responsible before they kill themselves. Once someone has decided to kill themselves, there is no fear of law or jail. This is the exact same situation that suicidal terrorists have. The lack of fear for your own life can make you do crazy things.

                                          This is a f*cked up situation and not how a well-functioning society is supposed to operate. Even more than the lop-sided laws, it is the corrupt police and judges who are the problem. Irrespective of the gender, they tend to side with the party that pays them, not the one that is innocent.

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                                              January 25, 2025 at 7:08 am
                                              What to do when feminist judges run the court and the system.

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                                                  January 25, 2025 at 7:37 am
                                                  They should be in the list.

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                                                January 25, 2025 at 6:44 am
                                                Yes and No ….There is a threshold point soon it will break and people who have nothing to lose and mentally tortured will do what you said and people and has something to lose will think

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                                                  January 25, 2025 at 7:03 am
                                                  Our judiciary wants to smack moral sense into live in relationships without working on fixing what current marriages have become, an extortion racket.

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                                                    January 25, 2025 at 7:36 am
                                                    You know domestic violence is still a thing in poor or middle class households

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                                                      January 25, 2025 at 7:45 am
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