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      April 3, 2025 at 8:38 pm
      But if doesn’t mean we get used every time.
      Even lord Krishna killed his cousin even after forgiving her more then 100+ times.
      Forgiveness is a thing but not on expense for you life and well being.
      When that same person is the one who after forgiving her multiple time, took me out like an dump after she got comfortable Nd knowing she will be happy at his house after marriage.

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        April 3, 2025 at 8:31 pm
        I know and I appreciate what you told me.
        But cheating is different thing, after getting cheated and when I told him 6month before they got married her family made me beg that guy and lie they I lied about everything.
        And even after that she stayed in contact and made promises and all I took pitty.
        But after marriage when she saw everything is going great for her.
        She played with my mental again, started playing game etc.

        I have been rejected, heart broken this was different and once in a life time thing. From the 1st I was precautious but she deliberately made me trust her like she will never leave me and marry me.
        And made me mentally to much clinged to her.

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          April 3, 2025 at 8:27 pm
          No people don’t reap.what they, I loved, cared, trust, pampered everything and more what I got?

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            April 3, 2025 at 8:26 pm
            You don’t know whole details, sir and everyone react differently to different situations.
            For someone needle is a stuff and for other sword is just basic.

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              April 3, 2025 at 7:11 pm
              She married that guy, she was in relationship with him for 10yr and even while I was with her.
              Married her in love marriage with everyone knowing about it and I got fucked.

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                April 3, 2025 at 7:10 pm
                Guess what I am(kind of was rn) studying for upsc as well part of it was to marry her as well.

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                  April 3, 2025 at 7:08 pm
                  Sorry it’s just copy of my multiple reply,i wasn’t in the mental capacity to write whole thing.

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                    April 3, 2025 at 6:07 pm
                    New post.

                    My girlfriend cheated on me and married that guy, later I found out she was using me for his happiness aswell. Take me and buying things for him, got all dressed up made me take her and family to his sister wedding 100km one way trip and left me alone with even me knowing that it was that guy..

                    Even after marriage played with emotional, gave me hopes mentally fucked me up and everything.
                    Now when she got comfortable kicked me like a dog with multiple medical issues, suicidal thoughts and from being most confident to a person with no self esteem

                    And she was in relationship with him long before me.
                    I want to take revange that guy watch my WhatsApp story I plan to put her and mine picture taken consensually with
                    Can she later use those whatsapp stories against me?

                    Edit:- to add little more context, copy paste of my replies as people were giving advice and all. I did everything before reaching this point. I was many time near doing suicide I am not mentally well because of her

                    I know I wasn’t vague, but if same was done by boy to girl.
                    She made false marriage claim everything, used me physically, emotionally and mentally.

                    And from last 3 months I having mental and sleeping issues, that much she broke me.

                    So it’s not a crime?. Just because I am a boy?.

                    tried moving on, first she didn’t got out of my life.
                    Draped all the benefit from me, soaked me dry out of all the feeling emotion and with multiple medical issues.

                    Then she kicked me out like dog, when she felt secured and everything.
                    Iwas nothing but loyal and honest.
                    I supported her and everything. Now it’s about my well being.

                    My brain hurts with everything, inwas nothing but good but got used and thrown fake hopes even I was too precautious about relationship with her she built trust made me meet her family met with mine everything.

                    I never lied or nothing, fed me with happy family thoughts, kids everything.

                    I know the right path but knowing she is happy with the person she cheated me, even I tried telling him her family made me request him to marry her by begging me.
                    Now all this bother me day and night. From last 3 months.

                    She even got all dressed up at my home and I drove her off 100km with her family. Later I got to know it was for his family wedding.

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                      April 3, 2025 at 6:04 pm
                      I am suicidal, mentally not stable, sleepless life 1.5 year fucked and everything because of her.
                      And when I look at mirror I see no self worth . I was always most confident guy now I have 0 self esteem.

                      Read the post I added bit more context.

                      But she did multiple things and used me at multiple occasions for her happiness and to give him happiness.

                      See the person she cheated with and her happy pisses me off and even after marriage she was playing with me giving me hopes and all

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                        April 3, 2025 at 6:02 pm
                        I edited my post and more thing.

                        I want him to know rest is his choice. Why the person she cheated with and cheater get all goodies.
                        That’s what she did for her self love she made me suicidal and everything.
                        If start telling things she did how she played, how much toxic she was.
                        That would more then 1000-2000 words.

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                          April 3, 2025 at 5:58 pm
                          I know I wasn’t vague, but if same was done by boy to girl.
                          She made false marriage claim everything, used me physically, emotionally and mentally.

                          And from last 3 months I having mental and sleeping issues, that much she broke me.

                          So it’s not a crime?. Just because I am a boy?.

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                            April 3, 2025 at 5:55 pm
                            tried moving on, first she didn’t got out of my life.
                            Draped all the benefit from me, soaked me dry out of all the feeling emotion and with multiple medical issues.

                            Then she kicked me out like dog, when she felt secured and everything.
                            Iwas nothing but loyal and honest.
                            I supported her and everything. Now it’s about my well being.

                            My brain hurts with everything, inwas nothing but good but got used and thrown fake hopes even I was too precautious about relationship with her she built trust made me meet her family met with mine everything.

                            I never lied or nothing, fed me with happy family thoughts, kids everything.

                            I know the right path but knowing she is happy with the person she cheated me, even I tried telling him her family made me request him to marry her by begging me.
                            Now all this bother me day and night. From last 3 months.

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                              April 3, 2025 at 5:55 pm
                              I didn’t, she lied I was doing for her. She even got all dressed up at my home and I drove her off 100km with her family. Later I got to know it was for his family wedding.

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                                April 3, 2025 at 5:54 pm
                                tried moving on, first she didn’t got out of my life.
                                Draped all the benefit from me, soaked me dry out of all the feeling emotion and with multiple medical issues.

                                Then she kicked me out like dog, when she felt secured and everything.
                                Iwas nothing but loyal and honest.
                                I supported her and everything. Now it’s about my well being.

                                My brain hurts with everything, inwas nothing but good but got used and thrown fake hopes even I was too precautious about relationship with her she built trust made me meet her family met with mine everything.

                                I never lied or nothing, fed me with happy family thoughts, kids everything.

                                I know the right path but knowing she is happy with the person she cheated me, even I tried telling him her family made me request him to marry her by begging me.
                                Now all this bother me day and night. From last 3 months.

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                                  April 3, 2025 at 5:54 pm
                                  I tried moving on, first she didn’t got out of my life.
                                  Draped all the benefit from me, soaked me dry out of all the feeling emotion and with multiple medical issues.

                                  Then she kicked me out like dog, when she felt secured and everything.
                                  Iwas nothing but loyal and honest.
                                  I supported her and everything. Now it’s about my well being.

                                  My brain hurts with everything, inwas nothing but good but got used and thrown fake hopes even I was too precautious about relationship with her she built trust made me meet her family met with mine everything.

                                  I never lied or nothing, fed me with happy family thoughts, kids everything.

                                  I know the right path but knowing she is happy with the person she cheated me, even I tried telling him her family made me request him to marry her by begging me.
                                  Now all this bother me day and night. From last 3 months.

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