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PYeh post mera jo hai, usko comments mein spam karo bhai, kya bewakoof log hain. Who believes all these reddit stories?!PIf you have decided to believe him, please go ahead 🙂 I am just telling the complications and I cannot tell the answer which you want to hear 🙂
If you are looking for reassurances, I don’t have any say in that. If all goes good, then awesome. But, the moment he refuses to vacate, you are looking a civil case which will take years to resolve and your money stuck with someone else which you cannot get back.
It’s totally upto you. This is going to be a gamble. A big gamble. I wouldn’t risk it. It doesn’t mean, you shouldn’t. 🙂
PThat can be a possibility. I hope he understands and stops seeing me as some devil. Thank you so much for your contribution.Pyeah dude, i really love him i just dont know how to pull him outside of this fear. i am genuinely lost on how will i convince him over something that is not even my fault. i didnt ask for this power, its useless to meand i dont think its his parents since they have strictly said no to any contact ever so why would they be discussing about potential marriage problems? i know that he is into these rights for men things where they share a lot and lot of marriage issues, he sometimes even said that marriage is scary
Phe used to follow these cases and when we were together he often told me about how indian men have basically no laws supporting them etc he told me about some ‘divorce package’ where if a woman wants divorce, either she wont file any case or if she does, she files every case false or true together. dowry extortion, harassment, alimony, child custody, jwellery, in laws abuse etc etc etc and he told me how scary it is for a man to face these heaps of accusations together, most of the times the court even believes the false cases!!!in the last convo we had, he told me that if i were to ever divorce him for any reason, i have now included a huge case in this too which is the one this post talks about. he said that this marriage will scare him forever and destroy his mental peace, i was upset as i thought he doesnt trust me but i think he is just scared. i understand these times tbh, life hasnt been easy on him
Pwrong. i am not taking my father’s side, if i was then my bf would already be in jail by now. i just dont want to threaten my own fatherPyeah thats what i said in title. he said that marrying me is like giving a nuclear bomb detonator in my hand, that i can ruin his life any moment i want to. i tried making him understand that its just his paranoid thoughts and his mind is playing tricks, will discuss properly some day i think he is just scaredPfirst, i was not at home. second, even if i was, my father would kill me and report an fir against him if i had raised my voice. what do you prefer?
