Community › Forums › Legal Advice India › 28M here, Seriously are there any happy marriages left, I was a strong believer of this institution of marriage but seeing all these posts I am utterly scared. How is life for people who didn’t marry?
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Superdivya701.
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EExpertstar7750
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April 15, 2025 at 10:05 pmNeed genuine advice! Very scared! -
SSilenteagle9450
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April 15, 2025 at 10:10 pmThose who are unhappy, do things. Those who are happy, don’t do things, and therefore cant be seen. It’s just that you might have a wrong exposure. Reddit is not real life.-
EExpertstar7750
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April 15, 2025 at 10:11 pmI agree, i understand that only people with problems post, happy people don’t post, but if i try to keep my wife happy, do everything but if she still turns out to be an explorer then what is my fear
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SSilentgirish7599
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April 15, 2025 at 10:21 pmChoose partner very carefully. These days, women are misusing 498A laws to claim alimony. Was just reading another thread where he paid [₹50 lakh in alimony.](https://www.reddit.com/r/personalfinanceindia/comments/1k01s7m/restarting_life_at_40/mnallth/)82.50% of total FIR’s under Section 498A (non bailable) were found false. These cases break down men psychologically & professionally. Every eight minutes, a man commits suicide due to alleged misuse of Section 498A against them. These statements were disclosed at end of 2 part movie available on YouTube by Muskan Sharma.
– There are many happy marriages, but choose life partner carefully
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EExpertstar7750
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April 15, 2025 at 10:52 pmDon’t see them often -
PProroma5545
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April 16, 2025 at 2:50 amHow about men who give false information or musrepresentation of facts? What sessions are applicable?
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UUrbanranjan8949
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April 15, 2025 at 10:50 pmIt’s not just the men. What I learned is regardless of how much scrutiny you do on your partner, if she decides to mess your life up, Indian law makes it happen. ONLY in India is a husband declared as a criminal even without evidence.And the pressure is not on the husband alone- it’s his entire family. If the family has daughters, then their marriages are at stake too. It’s such a sad sad society we live in.
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EExpertstar7750
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April 15, 2025 at 10:53 pmThat’s a sad part, i know if i get married and such thing happens then ending a life would be the easier option-
SSilentgirish7599
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April 16, 2025 at 1:46 amIf you do get married, keep secret account with ₹2 lakh balance and never tell anyone. Could be useful for emergency needs.
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EExpertbear526
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April 15, 2025 at 11:53 pmYes there are happy marriages if you are rich like Anant Ambani-
EExpertstar7750
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April 16, 2025 at 5:09 amWeird thing to say man
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SSuperdivya701
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April 16, 2025 at 12:49 amDon’t be scared, think through this
% of Married ppl vs % of ppl using reditt vs the % of ppl post issues in the sub
Then you might get a relief
I’m happily married over 6 years now and we too did have fights, misunderstandings, it’s just that how we approach things.-
EExpertstar7750
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April 16, 2025 at 5:08 amAnd you have pulled through? Those are just part and parcel of the whole relationship like? Seeing posts here i felt, i would have to live a life where i need to be scared all the time because what if-
SSuperdivya701
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April 16, 2025 at 6:02 amYes, I’m still happy with my wife and we understand each other better.
It’s just a platform to ask questions and get opinions from strangers mostly and frnds at times. Don’t worry! Ppl mostly post here if they have issues and get suggestions.-
EExpertstar7750
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April 16, 2025 at 2:07 pmThat helps, thank you for taking out time-
SSuperdivya701
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April 16, 2025 at 4:43 pmSure, you are welcome! 🙏
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JJigneshdude346
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April 16, 2025 at 2:40 amJust of curiosity, those who decide to not marry, how will they manage in old age?I mean there will be no one to look after, right?
Sure, you can pay to hire nurses to look after you, but still they will not be “family” type caring…
What your thoughts?
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EExpertstar7750
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April 16, 2025 at 5:10 amYes but trusting someone who ruins your life, job, health and family is too scary man
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SSamirlion580
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April 16, 2025 at 3:03 amYou looking in wrong sub, these are worstcase scenarios.
Try inside inside India marriage sub, thats more everyday life-
EExpertstar7750
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April 16, 2025 at 5:09 amUmm let me check, i hope that not another rabbit hole -
EExpertstar7750
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April 16, 2025 at 5:10 amI will look into that
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EEpicpratyush3674
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April 16, 2025 at 3:31 amIf you go sit in a doctor’s clinic, every person you see will be sick, that doesn’t mean every person on the earth is sick, what do you expect from the posts in a legal advice subreddit?-
EExpertstar7750
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April 16, 2025 at 5:07 amBut surge of patients in a doctor’s clinic is alarming, are you yourself married or you’re optimistic?
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IIndianshivansh3984
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April 16, 2025 at 7:04 amPeople majorly interact with the law when things go wrong—nobody likes to deal with the police or courts when everything is fine.
A cursory look at the criminal legal sphere might make you believe that no relationship or friendship is safe, let alone marriage. There are enough cases of fathers raping their daughters, or daughters killing their fathers over something trivial, and many other such disturbing scenarios.It would be wise to learn from these things reasonably, but not let them overwhelm or radicalise you.
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EExpertstar7750
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April 16, 2025 at 2:06 pmHey, that makes sense but my trust is not too much because i feel if i cheated on then law is where i need to beg for justice and there isn’t enough to save me
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SSwiftbro1162
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April 16, 2025 at 3:03 pmYour post is generic and does not have a substantial legal issue involved.If you have questions about this removal, please [contact the moderators](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=/r/LegalAdviceIndia).
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