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UI’m really distraught this is happening and not in the right headspace so had to ask.
A guy friend I thought I’d known for years messaged me on insta with really vile vulgar and graphic details of things he wants to do to me. I blocked him instantly cuz I was so disturbed. I got a call from a random number and had to pick up even though I had suspicions it might be the same guy because I was expecting other people’s calls.
And I picked up and yes it was the same guy and he said something along the lines of ‘hope you enjoyed reading all that I just wanted to let you know what I’ve been feeling all these years and the best thing is I deleted the chats now so you can’t show anyone else’. At the end he just said kahi bhi kuch bhi ho skta hai (translation: anywhere anything can happen).
I was so disturbed during the call I couldn’t record it too it’s the next day today and it hit me now that I could’ve recorded the call atleast. I feel really helpless and somewhat dumb for being so careless. Idk what to do, for context I’ve known him for 4 years and I don’t have many adults looking after me since we live very far from extended family. I lost dad very recently so it’s just mom. And the guy’s family is politically active (idk what do they do exactly but they’re with some party) and powerful (helped build the roads here and etc) and they’ve helped my family especially so many times. Which is making me more nervous – Idk how his parents/family will take this. Especially when I don’t have any proof? Also the guy is much older (28 and I’m 20) and idk I’ve a feeling I’m not the first person he is doing this to. I’m having thoughts like he didn’t get any such allegations previously how would I do anything.
So, idk what should I do please help
I ideally want to not get my family involved at all in this but idk if that’s possible. -
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UWhy aren’t you giving us context as to why he is doing it? What are you not telling us? Which crazy guy would say shit like this unprovoked. WHAT EXACTLY HAPPENED
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UWhat is the context supposed to be?
I thought we were friends. He never even had any way to contact me before because we only used to talk in person. I think he took my insta a month ago and we only had normal chats him asking me how am I and etc. The chats yesterday were completely out of the blue
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DWhat have you done to piss him off so much..no one goes to such extent of threats unnecessary..if you have done something try to pacify him by apologies.
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