Abortion as a 19 yo

[Rameshwolf729]

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Rameshwolf729
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March 27, 2025 at 11:06 am

So im one month pregnant, college student w boyfriend. 19yo can i go to a gynac and get the medical abortion procedure done discreetly without parent/guardian consent?
Also would i be required to show aadhar card, proof of age etc if the doctor suspects im a minor?
In Guwahati city so i appreciate any recommendations for a good clinic or gynecologist. :’)

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[Quickseeker5384]

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Quickseeker5384
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March 27, 2025 at 5:34 pm

I would advise to go to a female doctor in a private reputed clinic. Open with this question and be confident in your decision. Don’t reveal more personal information than required. You will be okay, big hugs!

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[Ashaguy38]

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Ashaguy38
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March 27, 2025 at 6:24 pm

Hahaha 🤣🤣🤣😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Wah Didi wah

Kya mahan kaam kar diya Apne shayad Apne dadi ki bhi record tod di.

Waise Apke bf ke pass bhi acche genes hai lagta hai🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

To Aapka agla baccha kab krne ka plan h

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[Akashlion986]

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March 27, 2025 at 6:35 pm

Don’t go alone take your bf along, take any other elder person along if possible ( any non judgmental didi/bhaiya/teachers ) it’s completely legal you don’t need a guardian but feels safe if your have one also you can dodge unnecessary indian problems just by having someone experience with you if not possible atleast keep someone in loop, don’t worry take care 😅

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[Megaprashant4593]

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Megaprashant4593
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March 27, 2025 at 6:41 pm

As an adult, head to the nearest gynaec asap.

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[Bravebhumika3204]

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Bravebhumika3204
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March 27, 2025 at 6:57 pm

I will make u a fake aadhar card . Don’t worry and I will arrange parents for u as well if they want to talk on a call .
Relax no big deal

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[Rameshwolf729]

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Rameshwolf729
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March 27, 2025 at 6:59 pm

Great idea actually

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[Alphanutan7142]

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March 28, 2025 at 6:17 am

what’s the need of a fake one?, it’s a completely normal and legal process, many college or young couples face this, they are’nt trying to get into 21+ strip club

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[Fiercebro2290]

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Fiercebro2290
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March 27, 2025 at 9:34 pm

Why don’t you put it up for adoption?

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[Quickking624]

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Quickking624
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March 27, 2025 at 10:53 pm

19 ki hai wo, galti ho gayi aur ab kabhi dohrayegi bhi nahi. Itna kaafi stress hai uske liye. Unmarried ladki ghar se bhag ke kerala jaa ke akele rahte hue bachha deliver kar ke adoption ke liye degi kya. Uske body aur mind pe kya beetegi wo socho. Aur gharwalo ka kya, bekar si society ka kya, life barbad kara le kya ab apni

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[Niharikahawk874]

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March 27, 2025 at 11:24 pm

Where the fuck is your boyfriend? Is he not worried about this or by your side on this?

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[Shaktiguy958]

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Shaktiguy958
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March 28, 2025 at 2:03 am

Do you think a 19 year old would be serious about her?

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[Niharikahawk874]

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March 28, 2025 at 6:29 am

It’s not about being serious. It’s about taking the responsibility atleast. Take her to the hospital and get her checked – all that stuff. Pay 50% or 100% of the bill. I guess the girl out of fear is not pressuring him for it but still atleast he should have the morals to do the right thing.

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[Fiercesai4632]

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March 27, 2025 at 11:59 pm

Not an advice for anybody here. What is done is done. What needs to be done needs to be. But the casual and normalized way abortion and premarital sex is treated must definitely change

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[Taraowl832]

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Taraowl832
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March 28, 2025 at 12:00 am

Think it through again. World is a better place with kids around. It will be difficult but you’ll fight it through. How someone can sleep at night after aborting their own child. Whatever the consequences are. Bear it!

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[Nancydude980]

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March 28, 2025 at 12:15 am

I don’t think India is running out of kids.

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[Calmstar4932]

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Calmstar4932
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March 28, 2025 at 3:15 am

Respect her decision instead of posting such comments

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[Primejignesh210]

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Primejignesh210
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March 28, 2025 at 12:07 am

More power to you.

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[Expertninja9053]

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March 28, 2025 at 3:26 am

This is going to be permanent scar, if you are not responsible or cannot control desire, you should face it. Hence, for this reason people came up with some restrictions.

Hope others learn from this, I know it’s hard, but IMO think twice taking out life.

There is plenty of life to enjoy but not at the cost of this outcome.

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[Nancydude980]

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March 28, 2025 at 8:42 am

You’re a moron if you think a 19 year old jobless girl that’s trying to build a future should be reproducing.

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[Calmkunal9326]

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Calmkunal9326
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March 28, 2025 at 5:06 am

But, be ready to face judgements and criticisms from the doctors.

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[Fiercebharat7863]

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Fiercebharat7863
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March 28, 2025 at 5:51 am

Go to a good doctor. Anonymity is not as important as your future reproductive health. You have done nothing wrong so hold your head up high.

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[Proayaan9569]

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Proayaan9569
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March 28, 2025 at 7:34 am

omg this is sad asf. I am sure you’ll regret in the future.

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[Rameshwolf729]

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Rameshwolf729
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March 28, 2025 at 7:38 am

I will regret bringing a child into this world without being prepared to give it a good life. I made a mistake, i wont make a bigger one that would affect both me and my partner and the would be child’s life for the worse.

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[Nancydude980]

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March 28, 2025 at 8:40 am

My girlfriend aborted not too long ago, she was sad but she knows that was the right decision. Don’t listen to people, you sure will regret aborting but you’ll regret more how this child will make your life a living hell. You’re already on the right track, think long term.

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