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USomeone i sort of dated long before came back in my life asking for some advice, this guy is married now with the same girl with whom he had a breakup phase with when we dated for like an year. They are married for 3 years now and been together since almost 15 years.
Wife is a psychopath and toxic woman as i have also seen but this time I observed some flaws in the guy too. Basically, we were both attracted back then while we dated but didn’t have any action, the residuary feelings remained and this time he was making moves.
I tried to make him understand everytime and he’d agreed upon that this wasn’t the right thing to do, one night after partying he started making the moves again and I couldn’t resist, ended up having sex.
Later on 2 weeks after I had infections which I thought have had gotten from him, so I asked him, and we ended up having a fight. He called me a slut and I got to know that his wife suffered from a UTI/STI too few months back. I asked him to take me to a doctor and pay for it and get himself also checked, but later on even felt more disgusted to see his face cz of what all he said to me when I was losing it.Although the infections are cured now and I have stopped talking to him and everything, but should I tell his wife all this? Cz I never wanted to get along with a married man. And I don’t feel good about it too. I tried texting the wife on facebook but she didn’t see my texts so I had to unsent those.
Now should I put in extra effort to break this news to her or move on with my life?
Also, because I go by ethics and morals, I am not able to forget about it and somehow feel not respected in my own eyes. I have gone anti social aftersince and am overthinking alot.
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PThis is mostly a question of morality. Technically, the guy didn’t do anything illegal, but it is up to you and your conscience.
If you really want to take revenge for what the guy did, then you can tell his wife. But you don’t know how his wife will react. It can range from indifference to initiation of divorce proceedings.
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UHe told me alot of things including that he is suffering because of his wife’s psychopathic behavior and wanted to divorce her but he lacked the courage to do it and whatsoever. They live sort of separately only, but again can’t really actually separate cz of the same. I fail to understand what should be the right thing to do here.
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