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SSomeone I know and love is going through a tough time with her marriage. A little back story- an extremely bright person, married off super young 19; Kids at 21, stayed unemployed taking care of the kids and husband, until 30 when she was in her lowest and decided to prep for a competitive exam and cracks it and land a govt. Job which requires her to have 2 night shifts in a week. Husband is small town guy who was not happy with her decision, doesn’t get why she needs to work when he can provide. Dude doesn’t understand it’s not about the money. Anyway, she has been in the job for the last 2 years, seeing a life of a somewhat independent women, works on reclaiming her life. Insecure husband initiates fights when she doesn’t recieve his calls while she is working ( he calls her every 30 minutes whenever out of his sight-annoying, enraging i know). Sends her audios asking if she has been sleeping with anybody, infact claiming that she has slept with somebody. Calls her a slut and all sorts. So she kind of packed her bags and kids to her maternal place, everybody is super supportive of her and respect any decision she takes (guilt tripping on getting her married so young like they should). Oh he even threatens that he would beat the shit out of her and her family-in audio. This is not the first time. But he is the perfect narcissist so he love bombs after a while and she falls for it. And the cycle repeats. The guy also lives like 20 mins from her so she feels he might harm her family someday if she acts on getting separated. Now with the threats, she wants to wait for it to happen so she can file a case. I don’t see why she should wait for it. She is also worried about her teenaged kids. As someone who loves her, I don’t understand what I should do apart from supporting her to make her see how the man isn’t who he is pretending to be. What’s the way forward? Any advice would be helpful.
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NLawyer here-
Instead of waiting she can straight away file a case an against him. As you’ve explained her parents are supportive she can make a strong case against him.-
SShe is considering it but also worried about the implications, on her family, her kids. A rejected man is scarier than a criminal sometimes.
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