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Luckyeagle4515.
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UUser_d2334440
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January 30, 2025 at 10:13 amHi my husband and myself are living separately for the past 2 years. He told he is earning 2L per month in his business before marriage but he didn’t support both financially and morally. He didn’t give money to myself and my 4 years old daughter for more than 7yrs of our marriage and he just gave money only for 3 months.Am a homemaker. No contact between us for the past 2 years. Can I file for maintenance without divorce?? Or file for divorce against him?? Kindly pour u r suggestions. TIA. -
LLuckysachin9844
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January 30, 2025 at 10:19 amYou can file for either or both-
UUser_d2334440
OP
January 30, 2025 at 6:28 pmThanks for the suggestion.
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EEpicudit3172
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January 30, 2025 at 10:24 amYou certainly have the right, or may I say, legal obligation as a parent to file for maintenance from the other parent. While exercising, all the same, give it a thought for how long you would seek support & feel obligated.-
UUser_d2334440
OP
January 30, 2025 at 6:29 pmTrue. Will consider this for sure. Thanks for the suggestion.
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SShirleythinker961
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January 30, 2025 at 10:32 amYou can demand maintenance or proceed with divorce and opt for alimony on monthly basis along with maintenance-
UUser_d2334440
OP
January 30, 2025 at 6:29 pmThanks for the suggestion
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UUser_ff1d5f1b
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January 30, 2025 at 12:45 pmIf you’re educated you should earn it yourself..if not ask your father to pay for it ..I don’t think it’s your husband responsibility to pay for your unemployment-
AAnyadude262
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January 30, 2025 at 12:53 pmWhat kind of dumb comment is this? Is the child not husband’s responsibility? Why would OP’s father pay for anything? She is married, husband is financially responsible for her and her child’s well being.
Stfu and get out of here with your incel coded comments.-
WWiseguy5667
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January 30, 2025 at 1:03 pmHe is a troll . Dont feed the dog -
FFiercerajat8996
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January 30, 2025 at 1:55 pmChild is the responsibility of both the parents, not just husband or just wife. Husband and wife both are liable to contribute for a child’s wellbeing. Neither the Husband, nor the wife is financially responsible for each other eternally, but only till the other one can get back on their feet.The wife can avail the usual legal remedies for alimony and maintenance for herself as per the requisite acts, but if the husband’s lawyer is smart, the wife is not going to get any money immediately and even if she gets it, it would probably not be as per the expectations. Either way, both parties would need to pick themselves up and plan for the next step
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UUser_56a5fc01
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January 30, 2025 at 4:57 pmHusband should only be responsible for the child. Not her.-
AAnyadude262
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January 30, 2025 at 6:08 pmHaha keep dreaming
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UUser_588c1cb8
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January 30, 2025 at 6:06 pmPlease don’t get married ever!! If u are already understand the role of a earning partner
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UUser_d7a409e1
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January 30, 2025 at 12:53 pmWhat have you been doing for 2 years?-
LLuckyeagle4515
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January 30, 2025 at 1:37 pmLooking after their child-
UUser_d7a409e1
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January 30, 2025 at 1:42 pmHow? Financially?-
LLuckyeagle4515
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January 30, 2025 at 1:43 pmFinancially, emotionally, educationally, spiritually, psychologically, physically .-
UUser_d7a409e1
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January 30, 2025 at 1:54 pmNo you fool, I am asking how she managed financially for 2 years if she was a homemaker during that time?-
LLuckyeagle4515
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January 30, 2025 at 1:54 pmI don’t know dipshit . Ask her-
UUser_d7a409e1
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January 30, 2025 at 1:57 pmI did. I asked her. Why are you replying?-
LLuckyeagle4515
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January 30, 2025 at 2:02 pmBecause I can -
RRapidsaloni7033
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January 30, 2025 at 2:47 pmDifferent types of people in the world 🤣funny !
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UUser_d2334440
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January 30, 2025 at 6:26 pmI have tried to contact him and his family but no answer from them. They hate my daughter in the gender basis.. as she is a girl baby and she is not fair as me. They expected a boy. That’s not my mistake. That’s god’s gift from above.My husband didn’t stand on my side and he blindly supported his parents. No mother will tolerate her child getting disrespected especially on the gender basis. Am an MBA graduate and they particularly mentioned that they want a daughter in law who loves to stay at home..No working daughter in law needed. That’s y I didn’t try to go for work. I was tired and fed up with him and his parents. That’s y I came to my hometown and staying with my parents.
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BBraveseeker242
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January 30, 2025 at 1:05 pmYour husband won’t pay money unless you file matrimonial charges. Emotional harassment is still considered DV.I would suggest you not to take maintenance. File matrimonial charges, take lumsum settlement , withdraw charges.
If he doesn’t pay maintenance at any point in future, you again have to go cops. that’s why lumsum is best. Take help of women NGO to file divorce case.
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IIndianhero7294
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January 30, 2025 at 5:39 pmLawyer this side yes u can file for maintenance under sec 125crpc..-
UUser_d2334440
OP
January 30, 2025 at 6:29 pmThanks for the suggestion-
IIndianhero7294
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January 30, 2025 at 6:29 pmTake it as an advise-
UUser_d2334440
OP
January 30, 2025 at 6:32 pmSure sir thanks alot👍
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UUrbanranjan8949
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January 30, 2025 at 11:06 pmWhy do you not want divorce? You may get alimony. And Your child will get maintenance. Just trying to understand your logic. -
PProrider4116
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January 31, 2025 at 5:25 am1. Yes, you can file only for maintenance without seeking divorce. File an application under BNSS 144. Read more here [https://divorcebylaw.com/maintenance/](https://divorcebylaw.com/maintenance/)For further clarification contact us [https://g.co/kgs/AynYkFb](https://g.co/kgs/AynYkFb)
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