“Fiancée’s ex is threatening to kill me

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      Epicprabhakar6779
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        March 3, 2025 at 3:33 pm
        “Hello,

        I hope sharing this will help me find some clarity and support. I am a working woman, and I’m also engaged. However, recently, I’ve been facing a very distressing situation with my fiancé’s ex. A few months ago, she started threatening me, saying that she would file a false rape case against my fiance. Over time, these threats have escalated, and now she’s telling me that she will harm me or make sure I’m killed.

        I’ve gone to the police for help, but there seems to be a lack of cooperation due to the differences in our states, and I’m being told that I could face trouble if an FIR is filed because the girl won’t show up. This has only made her more confident in her actions, and she continues to harass me. She even created a fake Instagram profile to contact my family and friends, making the situation even more stressful.

        I feel incredibly overwhelmed and depressed. Everyone around me is telling me to ignore her, including my fiancé, who says I should not react or take action. But I can’t help the anxiety and fear this is causing me. Her messages, emails, and calls have left me feeling very vulnerable.
        She just now messaged me *kya hua FIR nahi hui kya nahi hogi*

        I love my fiancé deeply and don’t want to leave him, but sometimes I feel lost in this situation and don’t know what to do next.

        Thank you for letting me share. It’s been hard, and I just needed to speak out.”

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          March 3, 2025 at 3:37 pm
          Post in Twitter, tag the local police from your state.

          That should get them to cooperate

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            March 3, 2025 at 4:11 pm
            Hello. This situation is tense and I am sorry you had to go theough it.
            If you really want to take some action, there are provisions in the IPC and assuming the threats are online, in the IT Act to help you out. Some of them being criminal intimidation, conspiracy, sevtion 66aof the it act- sending offensive messages through communication service.
            Please do not hesitate to reach out and send a personal message in case you need any further assistance in the matter. I am an advocate and I assure you complete discretion.

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                March 3, 2025 at 5:25 pm
                66a was termed unconstitutional by SC

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                    March 3, 2025 at 5:26 pm
                    My bad. Thanks a lot for updating me though

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                  March 3, 2025 at 4:24 pm
                  PSYCHOS are everywhere.
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                  Note- Since no legal advice is sought. So none provided.

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                    March 3, 2025 at 4:55 pm
                    Ask the police to register FIR. The only reason they are not doing it is because they will have to work. If they refuse to register FIR, you can approach the SP.

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                      March 3, 2025 at 5:25 pm
                      Maybe try to apply for anticipatory bail for your boyfriend.

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                        March 3, 2025 at 5:26 pm
                        Also, try to get call recordings, chats etc.

                        It’s a classic case of criminal intimidation

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                          March 3, 2025 at 5:39 pm
                          What is stopping you, go for the reverse psychology.
                          Record a video where you tell how she is disturbing her life and if anything happened to her or her finance then she and only she is responsible.

                          Send her the video and also send that video to sucide helpline. They will help you and also that mad. They will also involve police if needed.

                          You have to be a bit psycho to deal with psycho.
                          Also what ur fiance is saying why he is not helping you. Are you sure you are marrying the right person?

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                              March 4, 2025 at 4:07 am
                              Out psycho the psycho 🤣

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                              March 3, 2025 at 5:39 pm
                              What is stopping you, go for the reverse psychology.
                              Record a video where you tell how she is disturbing her life and if anything happened to her or her finance then she and only she is responsible.

                              Send her the video and also send that video to sucide helpline. They will help you and also that mad. They will also involve police if needed.

                              You have to be a bit psycho to deal with psycho.
                              Also what ur fiance is saying why he is not helping you. Are you sure you are marrying the right person?

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                                March 3, 2025 at 5:54 pm
                                We are very sorry to hear such a pathetic situation you are in. Please visit the nearby police station frequently to take strict action.

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                                  March 3, 2025 at 8:28 pm
                                  Supari killer the only last option

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                                    March 3, 2025 at 11:05 pm
                                    It’s super sad your fiance is a coward and not protecting you.

                                    Do you really want to be with a man who can’t defend you from his own ex?

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                                      Epicprabhakar6779
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                                        March 4, 2025 at 12:02 pm
                                        Heyy no its not like that he’s protecting me ofcourse but that bitch has threatened him that she will accuse him for false rape case and she actually went to police station and gave application against him so he can help me but not from that front foot

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                                            March 4, 2025 at 10:41 pm
                                            If he cannot handle his ex… then he is useless in my view. Also, how the hell you and his ex got connected??? I see something fishy going on here..

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                                                March 5, 2025 at 6:25 am
                                                When its about law no guy can help or handle anyone I am seeing this from last 7 8 months

                                                He’s helping be in all the possible way he can but Ofcourse can’t deal with that psycho women who is saying this if he comes in-front of her she will tear her clothes and then will file the rape case

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                                            March 4, 2025 at 6:23 am
                                            Dump the fiancee, he’s ran through.

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                                              March 4, 2025 at 7:27 am
                                              Iss desh main unemployment kaafi badh gayi hain !

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                                                March 4, 2025 at 8:59 am
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                                                police cannot deny filing an FIR. Even if there is a difference in States, you can file a ZERO FIR as the law recognizes that a criminal can be from anywhere and commit a crime against someone from another state. If they refuse to file the FIR, write a letter to the SP. If the SP doesn’t do anythin,g you can file a complaint petition to the magistrate. You can aslo directly file a complaint petition to the magistrate. Ask a lawyer to draft the needful.

                                                Also personal advise, if your fiance isnt willing to protect you against his ex, maybe question if you want to spend the rest of your life with him. love only goes so far when you have to live decades with someone.

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                                                  March 4, 2025 at 11:35 am
                                                  Hey
                                                  I hope you’ll be alright soon
                                                  Make sure to collect all the evidences like chats ,posts, calls
                                                  Every damn thing should be recorded
                                                  Make sure you’re protecting yourself
                                                  I think twitter could help abit

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                                                    March 4, 2025 at 12:29 pm
                                                    Record her conversations and document them. Consult a lawyer to file a restraining order.

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                                                      March 4, 2025 at 10:39 pm
                                                      Leave the guy. Plain and simple.

                                                      If you stick, this won’t end well.

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                                                        March 31, 2025 at 4:50 am
                                                        Crazy fukin exes

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