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UUser_82f85d4a
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March 12, 2025 at 4:50 pmSo As the title says my senior’s girlfriend’s life is in danger..I’m sharing the situation that he told meWe need help..it’s about her life!!
From last 5 years I’m in a serious relationship with a girl who used to be my classmate, one and a half year before one incident happened so she used to be so mentally disturbed so I asked her about it and she fearfully told me that one of her cousin has raped her, she was traumatized by this thing and couldn’t think of what to do
I calmed her and asked her to tell someone elder in her family about the situation, she told it to her mom but her mom didn’t took any action and later on her family got to know about our relationship so took her phone and all
So after few weeks I went her home and her father after looking me started beating and abusing me, I told her dad also about what happened to her in the past in home only which is said to be the safest place for a girl , her father said that is none of my concern and sent me back after beating, after a few months when she got her phone back and messaged me and told me that no one is family is worried about what happened to me without my consent but each and every one is abusing me for a relationship which was the only reason for my happiness
So we decided to elope from house, so on March 3rd she got a chance to go to market with her mom so we ran from there together but due to some carelessness we got caught her family came to me crying and touched my feet to ask her to go to home with them, they promised that they will get us married, she didn’t wanted to go and also said that don’t trust my family but I asked to her to trust them for one last time she asked her family not to take her phone back and let us be in contact her family agreed for that also but even though she wasn’t trusting them so they wrote on a paper and signed for marriage so after all this she went home
Soon after reaching home her phone got switched off I tried to contact her through her family phone numbers but no body replied later I got heart attack and got admitted in hospital so my mother called her father and asked her for marriage her father replied that she will kill her daughter and go to jail and get bail within a month so I called her father and wished him sorry and not to killl her
I agreed to stay away from her life but later on on 9 March at midnight I received message of her telling that her life is in danger and to help her, after looking the message I ran from my home and went to the near head police office and told them about the situation, they said to file case in her nearest police station so I went there but they didn’t took any right action instead they warned me to stay away from this matter, I called women helpline number also but didn’t received any help from there also, now her life is at stake and I need immediate help to save her.
Please help me in the possible ways
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UUser_c3bc813f
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March 12, 2025 at 4:56 pmNAL, agr country ko consider krein toh ig door rehna chahiye iss sabse kab yeh baat aap pe ajayegi aapko pta bhi nahi chalega aur aap aur aapki family suffer krengi try again contacting the women helpline, ngoโs and anonymously krna joh kroge-
UUser_82f85d4a
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March 12, 2025 at 5:07 pmOk …I’m just telling him everything my name won’t come
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AAmritaknight866
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March 12, 2025 at 5:00 pmOut of Reddit’s reach, man. You should try something in real life. -
UUser_2491d3b7
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March 12, 2025 at 5:06 pmThis seems like a movie man, wtf even-
UUser_82f85d4a
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March 12, 2025 at 5:06 pmUnfortunately it isn’t -
UUser_73dd5fd7
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March 12, 2025 at 5:43 pmfact and fiction arenโt stranger to each other in this country. What could be fiction for some, isnโt for the allWe all live different realities.
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VVasudhaeagle234
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March 12, 2025 at 6:41 pmI’ve nothing against your comment, but down voting you to bring legal advice comments onto the top.-
UUser_2491d3b7
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March 13, 2025 at 5:12 amNo issue, my man, respect it.
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UUser_846a60ef
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March 12, 2025 at 5:08 pmYou need to get a good lawyer and go from there they will be best placed to advise you and speak to more NGos as they will have people that deal with this on a weekly basis by week basis. -
UUser_f6f84532
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March 12, 2025 at 5:11 pmFile a fir against her family if possible -
UUrbangautam4721
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March 12, 2025 at 5:16 pmIf the police is not taking any action, legal procedure is going to be lengthy because now you need to approach either Superintendent of Police or the magistrate. For quick help, try reaching out to civil society or senior police officials.-
UUser_82f85d4a
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March 12, 2025 at 7:59 pmOkay
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UUser_968757db
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March 12, 2025 at 5:16 pmHow old are you and how old is your girlfriend? If she is above 18, she can just leave her home.-
UUser_82774e9e
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March 12, 2025 at 5:19 pmThey both are 19-
UUser_533a559b
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March 12, 2025 at 5:56 pmIf it is , then the case can be escalated under posco ( since the girl got raped when she was still a juvenile) . No way am I a lawyer but I know for a fact that PAN INDIA , the police takes one matter seriously and that is of POSCO ( if the rapist isn’t that powerful ) .The police is the only choice he has , poor guy.
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UUrbangautam4721
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March 12, 2025 at 5:28 pmWtf! They are trying to kill the girl. How can she just leave her home??!!
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BBrightsonu1092
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March 12, 2025 at 5:17 pmFile a writ in the nearby high court of habeaus corpus-
UUser_82f85d4a
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March 12, 2025 at 7:59 pmOkay
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LLakshlion642
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March 12, 2025 at 5:22 pmcontact to the concern Supritendent of Police if it does not work call to the women’s commission and you should consult a lawyer-
UUser_82f85d4a
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March 12, 2025 at 5:24 pmAlready doing it-
LLakshlion642
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March 12, 2025 at 5:25 pmSent a whatsapp message to the SP and district collector as well
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BBraveanay5705
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March 12, 2025 at 5:36 pmWhose the redditor from Bengaluru. Joseph something something. Besides the fine legal minds out here, he might be able to guide you.-
NNeeltiger304
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March 12, 2025 at 10:17 pmBroseph ig-
BBraveanay5705
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March 13, 2025 at 2:33 amu/St_Broseph OP please write to this Redditor. He may be able to guide . He is a social worker in Bengaluru who has dealt with cases such as these.
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UUser_d172df7d
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March 12, 2025 at 5:40 pmTweet about this and tag police and news channels, it may help grab attention-
UUser_82f85d4a
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March 12, 2025 at 5:43 pmOkayy
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CCalmshresth2326
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March 12, 2025 at 5:45 pmFile a habeaus corpus petition immediately in court and tell this to nearby trustful NGOs and ask for their help. Since she is a major police are required by law to produce her in court. Once when the court comes to the conclusion that she is not willing to stay with her parents and she has threat to her life, the court will order for a police protection for her. Understanding from how the father spoke to you, it is clear that he has influence or power or someone with those backing him. So do things before he finds out and has time to do something.-
UUser_82f85d4a
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March 12, 2025 at 7:59 pmOkay
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BBrightpanther9392
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March 12, 2025 at 6:37 pmPost on Twitter tag local police mla mp, women forums etc, twitter can amplify it -
UUser_4e747185
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March 12, 2025 at 6:45 pm>her family came to me crying and touched my feet to ask her to go to home with them, they promised that they will get us married, she didn’t wanted to go and also said that don’t trust my family but I asked to her to trust them for one last time she asked her family not to take her phone back and let us be in contact her family agreed for that also but even though she wasn’t trusting them so they wrote on a paper and signed for marriageBhai tu chutiya hai
Tereko chance Milla tha toh kiyo gaand marana tha
Sorry agar meri baate burri laggi par yehi hai.. chance Milla toh bhaag jaata
Text padhne sai hee pata chal raha hai uske mummy papa drama kar rahe the
It’s just like you are believing **the promises made by politicians and a stripper telling you ily**
Waise acha bhi kia bhaaga nahi hota.. family fight hojaata but agar tereko bhaagna hee tha bhai toh yeh chutiyapa nhi karta
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UUser_88d8f627
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March 13, 2025 at 4:17 amHe’s asking for help here not your fucking gali-ki-aunty opinion.Sorry agar meri baat buri laggi
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UUser_3a561ddf
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March 12, 2025 at 7:07 pmDanger from whom? Think from her parent’s perspective. Your daughter has already been raped by one guy, and now another guy is after her. Would any sane parent trust you – a complete unknown? Especially if they can’t even trust their own. Just leave her alone, not only you’re making her situation worse, you’re gonna get yourself in in a rape case and have your life ruined. If her parents are that controlling they can easily get her to file a case on you. Repeat after me: You are not the white knight you think you are. You’re seriously playing with fire. Walk away while you’re still unharmed.-
UUser_82f85d4a
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March 12, 2025 at 8:02 pmHer parents don’t fucking care that she was raped..they didn’t bother to take any action-
UUser_3a561ddf
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March 12, 2025 at 8:39 pmYou don’t have to repeat the facts. I know. I’m helping you make sense of it. What’s your end game? Get the cousin imprisoned and be welcome into that family? The fact that they didn’t do something should tell you how this will play out.-
UUser_88d8f627
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March 13, 2025 at 4:19 amI think his game plan is to just. You know. Not let her be killed by her own family?While walking away might be the most peaceful option i don’t think OP is giving up anytime soon
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UUser_53e4ff89
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March 12, 2025 at 7:18 pmRecord a video and ask for help… It spreads like fire, then the police will have to take action…. Writing may or may not cause any attention towards the post but video will help 10x …. -
SSheetalseeker115
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March 12, 2025 at 7:54 pmWell..I don’t know about your senior but this seems like a ball measuring contest.I can only tell you what I would have done if the situations were so dire with me…..
Storm her place with a group of people and beat the family up for SA and cruelty and then bahu ko wahi sey uthao.
Phir ladki sey FIR likhwao family k naam pey.This process is the process of rubbing your balls in their faces. ๐๐ผ.
Hope their love and passion gets a happy ending. ๐
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UUser_88d8f627
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March 13, 2025 at 4:20 amOnly if we all had goons on speed dial-
SSheetalseeker115
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March 13, 2025 at 9:57 amAll you need are friends, who are ride or die.
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UUser_70a92f3d
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March 12, 2025 at 8:39 pmMARRY her first, then file a complaint along with a case in HIGHT COURT, GET an FIR, Then a TRO and most importantly WOMEN’S NGO, get as many as you can, document all this on social media if you fear you’re not being heard, It’s your Only Chance Bubba
Court Precedence: Shakti Vahini vs union of India.-
UUser_cddaf2e1
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March 13, 2025 at 9:28 amBro how can she marry, she is locked inside and can’t even come outside-
UUser_70a92f3d
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March 13, 2025 at 11:19 amI said marriage because that creates a strong case for OP, He should’ve done it in the first place but now it’s up to him how he does it, i just gave the relevant information that makes a strong case for OP, if he manages to free her his first step should be marrying her legally if not in court then atleast at temple where he gets a marriage certificate.
Now it isn’t that hard to make two & two of the information if you know what you’re doing, is it?
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NNeeltiger304
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March 12, 2025 at 10:26 pmIf you are from Bangalore, Hyderabad, Pune or Chennai, you can message @Broseph-
UUser_cddaf2e1
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March 13, 2025 at 9:29 amHe is from Uttarpradesh
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NNiravpanther555
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March 13, 2025 at 1:27 amYou got a heart attack !!?? -
UUser_922f67bd
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March 13, 2025 at 12:20 pmFile an habeas corpus petition with a help of a advocate -
UUser_65533b96
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HHappypanda4074
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March 15, 2025 at 9:48 amAssuming both of you are major, and considering the facts alleged, a petition praying for writ of habeas corpus before the jurisdictional High court shall address your concerns.
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