How do you handle stress in legal process

[Alphatiger1445]

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Alphatiger1445
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April 21, 2025 at 1:50 pm

I want to take a step to go for separation. As a man I am scared and stressed of legal consequences hearing to news and stuff and the long battle. How do you guys handle this stress.

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[Quickbear2619]

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Quickbear2619
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April 21, 2025 at 1:52 pm

Bhai in sometime stress will start handling you.. the system is too slow

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[Alphatiger1445]

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Alphatiger1445
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April 21, 2025 at 2:12 pm

Means kam hoga ya zyada

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Quickbear2619
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April 21, 2025 at 2:13 pm

Obviously zyada bhai.. It will become part of your life.. and then you will become least bothered about it with time

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April 21, 2025 at 2:15 pm

Ah sahi wohi. Bure se bura kya hoga soch ke jaana chahiye. Par kab tak chup rahu

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Quickbear2619
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April 21, 2025 at 5:45 pm

Bhai it is built in such a way that it tests our patience.. that we finally give up

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[Urbanranjan8949]

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Urbanranjan8949
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April 21, 2025 at 2:00 pm

I am in this situation currently. Fighting false 498a, dv/maintenance. She involved everyone in the family (because they came to wedding). Initially I was sad and upset. And very stressed. I’m greyed a lot and put on a lot of weight. I started working out and involving in activities to take my mind off it. It works a little, but the issue is still in your conscious. I’ve come to accept that Indian law is lawda for men. I’ve also accepted that I have to pay her something. Since I have nothing going for me, I will pay her- after her child bearing years are done. I will marry again and have kids. If she wants to settle sooner, she will settle for my terms. Once you understand this- I think you will understand that you will be a winner in life. And I’m happy with that.

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[Alphatiger1445]

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Alphatiger1445
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April 21, 2025 at 2:13 pm

Thanks for long reply bhai. Problem is woh mere saath rehke taane maregi

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[Brightsarita124]

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Brightsarita124
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April 21, 2025 at 8:59 pm

You will have to bear a lot of stress, The court will call you several times and nothing happens in 6 out of 10 appearances, except getting a new date.

The most tactful part is you have to save yourself from your own Lawyer. They will try to delay the court by this or that excuses, about 60% of advocates In India retired from their profession without a single arguemebt with Judge or opposite party lawyer. The take the cases , appears in the court just to say, Ji Janab, Yes My Lord , Yes your Honour ” . Even if they win 2/10 cases without applying any clause/ section and due to petitioners’s ground of facts.

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[Alphatiger1445]

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Alphatiger1445
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April 22, 2025 at 2:11 am

My God. Getting into legal trouble is bad. And you know what yesterday my Mom suddenly got sick and she didn’t even visit. Staying in same house

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[Wisepriya7529]

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Wisepriya7529
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April 22, 2025 at 2:18 am

Try to avoid legal system as a man and opt for out of court amicable settlement. That means the terms should be agreed and then finally you present your case for mutual consent and get the legal sanction. Do not skip this.

Once you go to court and start fighting, there’s too much to lose and I’m not talking about money here.

As for stress management, all you can do is do your best ie be prepared to the maximum extent possible and leave the rest as you have no control on the outcome.

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[Alphatiger1445]

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Alphatiger1445
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April 22, 2025 at 2:51 am

Exactly and my spouse want me to file the case and she is really pushing limits mistreating me and my parents. You know you have office issue and over that this at home

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