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UHave got whatsapp messages with photos of her using dialators , have got voice recordings of cosmetic gynaecologist consultation , voice recording of psychologist consultation , voice recording of her father admitting about her condition , voice recording of her neglecting further treatment .
Even if i got all these evidences , kindly let us know the ways to authenticate all these evidences before submitting to court .
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UBhai tension na chill kar do what your heart says okk?
Life is not what we have to live by other’s expectations. And yaha ke faaltu comments pe dhyaan de.
Yahi aurate TwoXIndia sub pe female sexuality ko basic human right kehti hai aur yaha tujhe guilt trip kar rhi hai. Hypocrites Narcissist hai sab ki sab.
Sabki emotional and physical needs hoti hai. And you are not obliged to fulfill it for anyone who can’t reciprocate same.
Final suggestion Marry Someone else don’t cheat or fall into casual sex. -
USo if after marriage as most Indian married women’s faces where the husband tried to force her into continuous sex due to his uncontrollable sex drive and lust should also be divorced right ? No, but alas then she is blamed and called r word for not ‘satisfying’ her husband , even some stupid court have given green flag to such act .
Also , as majority men’s in India want a virgin wife cuz then she won’t be able to compare their small tool and won’t know much abt sex so will always be take what they gives , and let say she has brain cell to understand that that tool is not enough should she divorce him then ?
People have issue just like u do , get over it and help her out as u would want her to do in ur case , or else please just don’t get married for 2nd time and spoil another women’s life as she might as well have some flaws
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UDid op ever say he forced her to have sex? I agree you shouldn’t force hus/wife to hv sex.
Yea sex is a physical and psychological need for men also woman. And it is one of the duties of partners in marriage.
If this condition was hidden from op at marriage then what is his fault, even if he was aware, no sex over a long period of time is mental cruelty to both parties. And also why stay married if you are not ready to have sex after this much tym?-
UI didn’t say that cuz op said , I only gave an example of if tables turned should he still be in the same favour and would the mens have sympathy for the women’s that they are having her for men’s ?
Yes she should have mentioned but what if she was a virgin before marriage and didn’t have natures of this ? Op has t mentioned that ? So if it’s only know after marriage what is her fault as well in this ? He should be supportive to her as he would have wished her to be for himself , and not run away as he is doing
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UThere are plenty of divorces if the tables were turned, husbands getting humiliated due to ed& impotency.
I can’t speak for others, I’ll be in support.It’s not mine or ur place to say op should support his wife, by that logic the wife should accept sex is important for op and as she can’t provide that they should go for mutual divorce
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UWhy are you all moral policing op? It is a valid ground for divorce, Op has his needs(which is granted by law in a marriage)maybe he wants children, who are you all to tell op to suck it up ?
This is a medical condition which bars op’s wife from performing her duties both sexual and reproductive and if this was hidden before marriage then it should go for divorce.
Males are regularly getting divorced for being impotent.
Last, it’s not all rainbows and sunshines where you sip coffee with your partner;sex is also physical and psychological need,op has his preferences. Who are you all to tell op shouldn’t have sex with his wife and suck it up.
Most of you all support unmarried women having sex(nothing wrong there it should be the norm) but shoots down men needing sex in a marriage life.
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ULol everyone saying help the wife, will a man get the same treatment if he hid he was impotent or had Ed at marriage?
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UYes. We do get the same treatment. Even better. Statistically the largest consumers of viagra and other meds for ED are married men.
And women are generally nurturing and the glue to the fabric of our families. Rarely do we see women who actually publicly humiliate their husband’s for ED the way OP has done here. They support us. And we should do the same for the women in our lives.
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Hi OP,
I think if you have already given up on your marriage then yes it is better for you to take divorce. Contesting your wife with regards to alimony and maintenance is not a great move, since you have given up on your kid as well, destroying a woman’s life, because you could not provide the emotional support she needed to fix things.
But your wife is an ahole as well with regard to marriage, so I guess that’s even. If it is possible for you to open your marriage(where your wife also knows what’s going on), you could evaluate your option to exercise freedom of sexual expression and have your wife’s consent as well.
With respect to your wife putting the sections, she would have done that because of the insecurity.
Suggest open marriage, and you should be able to understand what needs to be done or your wife would do the needful. -
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MThird party Witness. But to come till the point of witness appearance in court it will be minimum 1 year, our judiciary doesn’t hear cases on fast track mode. They will give you many dates before you appear in front of judge. Ask a lawyer to give you realistic timelines, add 3-6 months to the time he gives. Next option is to establish authenticity of the voice recording which is next to impossible and still there can be loopholes.
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