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CWe are going through the divorce process. I didn’t ask for any maintenance nor alimony but only asking for my gold and cash back that he kept in his locker.
Now desperate to not return my things he’s trying to accuse me of being a man. He even is addressing the letter to chief minister and home minister to force me to take these ridiculous tests. As a biological woman since birth this is very disgusting and hurts my dignity and self confidence as he body shames me too.
My husbsnd I found out is a closeted gay when he kept saying he prefers men just after we got married.
There was no suicide threats from my side but it was him who threatened suicide infront of the judge if I don’t drop the case. He also threatened to murder me infront of the judge during court proceedings,lawyers and judge being witness.
What do I do.
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USue him for defamation if you have proof of the letters he sent to your ministers.
File a complaint or FIR for the threats of suicide so that there’s a record and even if he goes on to ever attempt suicide it’ll help your case. -
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Vlaw are ment for these selfish people,
go and milk him as much as possible, if he not playing fair then why should you.-
UWhy would you advise playing unfairly when her concern can already be addressed through playing fairly with the help of appropriate laws.
This is not good advice even as a lawyer cause it can backfire her divorce case.
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UHi OP, hold your ground and file back a case with help of a good reputable lawyer in your area. If you have proof of your things in his custody it will be great( it’s understandable that you won’t have cz no one thinks they will have to prepare for this day). Also get details of him being a closeted gay and use that to revert on the charges he made against you. It will not be easy on you but keep going.
And it’s funny how men will not comment here about other men exploiting women for their benefit. You will only see them jump when it’s them being a victim -
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CYes, the court cctv, the mediator ,the lawyers all are witnesses to his threats that’s why they didn’t take his side so now he’s writing to the ministers and ngos
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LNeither ministers nor NGOs can force tests on you. And while ministers in our country do seem to have a lot of leisure time, doubt they’re going to even respond to him. Like others said, you can file for defamation. As for your gold and cash, that is your property being withheld from you. If you have some proof and description of the items, that’d be good.
Maybe you should try for a restraining order or injunction against him as well based on what you have said, since he has made open threats to you in court. But whether he will actually do something, you and your lawyer know the exact situation
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CThe thing is I have all the proofs and the case would have ended if he just handed over my stuff but now he’s just talking nonsense to drag and divert the case.
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CYes I did. Since I got the letter today I expect the lawyer to come up with something by this week.
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UI think you have been too easy to him that’s why he is getting the audacity to blame you. Ask for alimony and maintenance. The dude knew he was gay still married you and destroyed your life. Also inform the judge thay he is gay and make sure this is mentioned in the divorce proceedings. This is clear case of fraud , a gay married you by concealing his sexuality. Once he’ll face cases like this he’ll come down to his knees.
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CGet a good lawyer and sue him for defamation and harassment. He wants to take advantage of the Atul Sunash’s plight, but when court and the people realize he’s faking he will really screwed to the point of no return.
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CYes he brought up the atul case in his petition. Saying Indian men need rights or he will take the atuls way. All this drama when I didn’t even want a single penny from this beggar but just my own rightful jewellery that my parents gave me.
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UMaybe I’m wrong but you could sue him and he needs to prove you’re not a woman, not the other way around. Others could confirm
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UWe don’t know what kind of man Atul was any way. Not saying Nikita is a righteous person, she abused the law and corruption for things to be in her favour but his letter doesn’t exactly give us a saintly picture of him, enough to make you want to know the other side too.
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UAtul committed suicide after repeated harassment. They even filed a fake murder case on him, which the wife took back. If you’re questioning why his letter was that way, it’s because he became mentally ill after traveling from Bangalore to wherever that case was over 120 times in a span of 2-3 years. Most of his letter was a commentary or evidences. Some parts were disturbing- or portray a harsh reality, but the intent was to show his side of the story, which he did. He deserves justice.
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UWhy do u need to feel ashamed for asking for alimony? U have sacrificed so much for him in life and in return he is giving u this , u can proudly ask for alimony but ask reasonable amount , it’s ur right ? How r u going to live of urself after he divorce ? And on top he is also withholding ur asset and making such a scene out in open , i just can’t imagine how horrible he would have been with u at home ? Women’s feeling ashamed to ask why is ur right is do bad , have u ever hear a boy aplogizig for asking a dower ? And those who don’t proudly states the they demand other stuffs from her in return , so why r u so ashamed to ask for ur support after divorce when u have sacrificed so much ? Don’t let the men’s bully u into it , they will always only think abt themselves ad the society is conducted that they in their favour , asking for reasonable amount of support should not make u feel ashamed
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