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UInvest in Bitcoin have all your assets in crypto and when time comes be ready toceun to panama city with a new passport and lay low for a couple of years
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Alternatively snoke some coke and ensure my lords know you are a drug addict and don’t have any money , and a recovering rehab, you can’t be jailed
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Declare yourself unstable in a asylum , claiming you had gone crazy
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Take the route of sanyas and say you had already burnt all your wealth and have no interest in material world.Then ensure you go to a mount everest so that the cost of climbing and arresting you and bringing you to court is so high that is not worth it unless you are a VIP
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Play Gone Girl with the male version by jumping in a river after learning driving having , your equipment and dental records as proof and frame your wife if you are that big of psyco and likes Revenge
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AHow to find “right” wife ?
who is a “right” wife
write the definition and jot down clear specifications
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RHow will I know who is right for you? In the context of fake cases or killing with lover and stuff you’ll have to take time to understand the character of a person. Enquire about Bethany behavior from mutual friends, relatives etc. Let the background check be transparent and from both sides. Most people have instincts, they tend to ignore them when it comes to relationship/marriage cause the attraction blinds them
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JJust looked at your comment history. You’re 24 with no relationship, and every third post is about how much you dislike women, and how you would divorce your wife for ‘denying’ sex. Just don’t get married. Please. From the way you talk, it’s clear that any woman would be settling for a life of servitude to a man who does not like her. Stay away from women if you don’t like their entire gender. Adopt if you want kids (although from your comments I see that you’re against men taking of kids that aren’t biologically theirs)
P.S. if you want an answer: it’s to not be patriarchal, marry a woman who’s more successful than you are, don’t take dowry (gifts), pay for your wedding,don’t make your wife stop working, support her career, do household chores, support your wife instead of your parents in argumens , help in house choress and to take care of your kids. And actually like the woman you’re marrying. AND TREAT HER LIKE A HUMAN. Woman don’t exist for you. They exist for themselves. If you were capable of doing any of these you wouldn’t be asking this question in the first place. If you were capable of being in a healthy marriage you would realise that these cases are outliers and indian judges usually side with men. But wtv.
Please, stay away from women. If you wanted to get married to my sister and I saw your reddit account, i would genuinely tell her to stay far far away from you.
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RThat’s the general pattern you see with a lot of the men who make these posts about how to avoid alimony. Most of them have never come anywhere near to having a real relationship, know that their only shot at finding a wife is by trapping some poor woman via a deceptive arranged marriage match, and have already realized that they are at serious danger of facing a stressful divorce if their wife doesn’t turn out to be a dumb slave who puts up with their crap.
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Aso you deny to recognise the fact that woman can also be bad and torture husband using legal system
not all woman will do this obviously. But why one will even be allowed to do this farse ?
Didn’t u see these above cases ? clearly woman is at fault . I will come to that later
The main and bigger problem is judiciary is turning a blind eye
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RI simply refuse to believe one sided narratives. I haven’t done a deep dive into every single one of the cases you mentioned in your post but the one Bangalore techie case that became so popular on Reddit had very questionable circumstances to begin with.
Bad women can and do exist, no doubt about that. But I also find it difficult to believe that completely false and baseless cases are at such an all time high. In a lot of the so-called false cases that are discussed so widely, the evidence is subpar at best, if it exists at all. You also have to account for the fact that a lot of these cases aren’t the product of evil women but a failing system that refuses to take women’s plight seriously unless it’s dire.
A woman who complains against her husband for slapping her once is not gonna be taken seriously by any police or judiciary in this country. Unfortunately, the need for justice pushes these women to exaggerate claims.
Is that right? Absolutely not. But it’s an unfortunate symptom of a system that’s still failing half of its population from securing a safe environment in their marital home.
Not to mention, most of the accounts that try creating such a panic about false cases on social media turn out to be very incel-ish with highly inappropriate views about women. Really makes one question how many of these cases are false and how many of it is just fear mongering in an attempt to legitimize marital cruelty.
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FJudiciary is turning a blind eye to everyone. You think rape victim gets justice? Police don’t even report simple SA incidents. Are women the only one taking advantage out of flawed Judiciary? What if a guy in a Porche hits you? If he happens to be a man, do you think that you will get justice? Come out of this delusion that only women are taking advantage of the law. The pensioners, the govt employees, your average shopkeeper, the farmers, the police, the businessmen: each and every one of them is corrupt and won’t think twice before taking your advantage. Everyone takes advantage. Hardly anyone in this country pays taxes but 90% of them want freebies either based on locality, caste, gender and what not. We have to get rid of corruption in every avenue, which in this country is not possible. We also have to get rid of the entitlement. Everyone love the convince of a corrupt system when it acts in their favor but when they become the victim, it is when they realize the gravity of the situation. For example: if you happen to get caught in a street brawl, would you follow the law and take the punishment like a good citizen or would you give bribe to not get that om your record? In this case, you won’t even think twice about the corruption. If you will take advantage of some the corruption, then you cannot just stand there and assume that not only others won’t but they shouldn’t. Nothing can be done until and unless people come on streets to get rid of corruption. It is the root of all the issues.
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AU should have formed your opinion solely based on this post
It was not required to go to my profile but anyways
See the issue lies with the Justice system because I also know apparently in a society, bad people exists regardless of gender
so it’s duty of judiciary to judge each case in it’s own merit
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CWell there are various aspects to the issue.
1) The patriarchy is highly practiced. And females and Der families no matter how progressive society has become has to go through a lot.I don’t turn a blind eye to the ones who are taking advantage of legal system.But legal system is more partial to female as gender for a reason.
2) I don’t accept that the solution is to make a one sided system till the tide turns away from patriarchy.The solution might be to have laws impartial and favorable to all.Then to create a culture that pushes to make stronger laws for betterment not just for convenience..(dowry is illegal but still followed almost everywhere)For the unmarried people.There are nice girls.Almost 10 times more than the one who will try to take advantage of system.Try to find nice bride.Work on personality to attract better prospects.Dont blindly fall in love/ arranged marriage.Dont get influenced by elders/peers,it’s your life take ownership.
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MThis may sound idealistic but the moment you marry for superficial reasons, you are doomed! This goes for everything in life. Parents are doomed by the very children they feared because they had children for selfish reasons and not because they truly wanted to be someone’s parents. The same goes for marriage.
Ask yourself why do you want to get married, what exactly do you want from your partner and what can you give her in return, see your partner as a human being and marriage as a relationship and not some transaction between two commodities. Do not let red flags slide and do not marry simply because things look good on the paper. Align your values and ethics with the person and not just your comfort and discomfort. Ask yourself if you are willing to be a partner in true sense to your partner and vice versa.
By true sense I mean would you care and love her at sickness and in health? Would you sacrifice your career if the situation arises to do so for her career growth? Are you willing to take a step back for the sake of your family if the situation arises or would you always wish for her to be the one to do? Everything you expect from her for you and your extended family, are you also willing to do the same for her and her extended family?
Also, men never let this happen but when you get married, your wife and the kids become your family and parents and everyone else becomes an extended family. Yup! Parents become extended family in the life of a married couple. Men need to evolve and accept this.
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