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CHello everyone,
I really need some solid advice here as this is the first time I am facing this.
So I matched with a woman on Bumble. We only spoke for two days. We had two voice calls and some texting. We didn’t meet. I will not go into the details of what happened between us, but I will share in brief.
First day we spoke on voice call. Conversation was going good, we vibed really well in the beginning. I asked for her number which she refused. I was fine with it and didn’t force. But she gave me her insta. We decided to talk on insta.
Then I was discussing with her where we could meet for our first date and she didn’t like the idea of meeting too soon. So I didn’t push the idea.
Then she misunderstood me on something and picked up a fight with me on something very silly. She started accusing me badly. I was patient and clearly explained that I was misunderstood and explain what I really meant. I calmed her down and that’s it.
But next day there was a complete change in her behavior. I don’t why she wanted to meet me all of a sudden to get to know me better. And she was texting me a lot more. I was busy with work. She was asking me why I wasn’t talking to her. She never texted me this much before.
Today I decided to end things as I felt very weird about it. I have dated women before. I have turned down some women, women have turned me down, had arguments. I know not every woman will misuse me. But this situation seems so different. It felt me wrong for so many reason which I don’t know.
Her behavior changed so dramatically. She was too nice to me all of a sudden.
And I have taken a screenshot of the chats in case things go wrong. And sad part is it shows in the chat that I have taken a screenshot and she has probably seen it.
Now I am really worried for two reasons. I want to protect myself if something goes wrong. I have two questions.
1. Can she misuse this situation and do something wrong?
2. Is it illegal to take screenshots of chat?
I maybe overthinking. Something this weird has happened to me for the first time. Please advice me on this. Never have I been so worried after talking to a girl.
Thanks.
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UEither you have done something really horrible to her that you’ve not written in this post, or you’re really naive.
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CTrust me I did nothing horrible. Just to give you an example. Once I texted “Let’s have a call tonight”. I just texted it casually.
She picked up fight saying that I think she is inferior. Why I am telling her what to do? I am not her superior etc etc.
>you’re really naive.
I mentioned in my post. I am dating someone for the first time. This situation felt very weird to me.
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ABro as long as she doesn’t know where you like be you should be good .
Make a complaint on her number from your service provider .Seems like you did nothing wrong .
You can also tell her you have left the city but insta diya hoga toh scene hai
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C>Make a complaint on her number from your service provider .
We didn’t share mobile number.
>You can also tell her you have left the city but insta diya hoga toh scene hai
Blocked her from insta.
>Bro as long as she doesn’t know where you like be you should be good .
If she’s a sane person, I am not worried. I am only thinking the worst case scenario.
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UI haven’t had experience regarding the safety of both the methods, but relatively, dating and thinking of spending atleast sometime together, if not the entire lifetime, with someone you know personally is safer, considering the way women are filing rape cases against men.
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AWorst case she comes to house
Or does something through phone number
There is nothing else she can do
And dont worry
Crazy people have obsessive behaviour
So the moment they get something else they leave you alone-
C>Crazy people have obsessive behaviour
So the moment they get something else they leave you aloneThanks I needed this.
>There is nothing else she can do
I am sorry if my question is silly. I just want an assurance. She can’t go to police and do something bad right??
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UThose screenshots barely work, they’re not believable these days, it’s easy to manipulate those chats, and rearange or modify the screen texts.
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UU seem like a crazy guy 1st of all.
Don’t talk like this for girls ever if u want to live a happily life.Respect others.
Not giving number or meeting to soon was her choice.
Taking u otherwise was also normal as many guys talk real shit and she will take u like actual boys.
Then u ignoring her and she’s calling and messaging u more is also quite normal as many girls will not like that.
Screenshots are normal until u disclose in public to ruin her image etc.
Don’t b afraid and feel relax
Become a better person to avoid meeting crazy women’s. -
USee. You can’t know someone by virtual methods the way you get to know irl. There are many shades and hues of colours. Similarly, there are many personalities of a person. Not everyone is out to dupe you or get you caught in rape cases.
Based on what you’ve typed, she could’ve had a feeling of guilt which she overcame by mass messaging. That’s normal and nothing to worry about, atleast when you haven’t met her. She might want to know you, despite the fact that dating apps are methods of stealing single men of both their money and esteem.
The part that you deleted the message is wrong, you shouldn’t have done it. Taking ss of the chats is neither illegal, and nor do I think it’s wrong. If the woman is someone who’ll understand you, no matter how much you both argue, she won’t mind if you are vigilant concerning chats.
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