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      Supersharad398
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        April 20, 2025 at 11:59 am
        First thing first I’m just here for advice I will not take any action until I find issue.
        I’m F19

        I will try to keep short.
        (And most importantly I’m not disrespecting any profession.
        I recently had pain in my breast which was swollen and veins came out. (Haven’t got report so I’m not sure what is this) I consulted a lady doctor. She checked. Asked for Xray & CT Scan (or MRI I don’t know name). But this machine operator was male. He asked me to stand in front of the machine. He asked to to raise arm and he pulled down my bra making it out, grabbed He took few pictures using that machine it happend for few mins. I couldn’t say or do anything I was so scared and numb.

        Anyways.

        I want to know is it normal or am I overthinking.
        I told my mother and doctor they were ok. But it’s not getting out of my head.

        (I have tried best to keep out details)

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          April 20, 2025 at 12:07 pm
          As most of the memebers here are lawyer not doctors so Its better that you can ask this question about the checkup protocol in subs like r/mbbsindia , r/aiimsdelhi etc.

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            April 20, 2025 at 12:13 pm
            Did he used gloves, guidelines say to use gloves while handling any private parts?

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                April 20, 2025 at 12:31 pm
                💀

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                    April 20, 2025 at 9:37 pm
                    Idk why you’re being downvoted. That male guy was a technician, not a doctor, dude cannot touch anyone, a doctor can. He only needs to verbally instruct someone and handle the machine.

                    • #11439 Reply
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                        April 20, 2025 at 9:39 pm
                        Even I don’t even know it’s weird.
                        Time kharab chal raha hai isliye 😔

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                    April 20, 2025 at 12:19 pm
                    He have to ask you to remove bra , he shouldn’t be one doing it.

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                      April 20, 2025 at 12:21 pm
                      He could’ve just asked you to do that yourself instead of removing your clothes himself +they should’ve provided a female operator. You should’ve confronted him or asked him to not touch your clothes that time and should’ve demanded for a female staff….

                      I don’t think that you can make a legal case out of it since what he did was in good faith (for your betterment) and he can claim that it was necessary for the medical process

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                          April 20, 2025 at 1:41 pm
                          Bro a nurse can’t do this job…and females in medical technician jobs are pretty non existent

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                              April 20, 2025 at 2:38 pm
                              Still he shouldn’t have touched her clothes though. I would’ve been mad too if someone removed my pants without even taking my permission

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                            April 20, 2025 at 12:28 pm
                            Normally, they ask people to undress in a ‘safe’ zone for the Chest scans. They never touch your body but they dictate you.

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                              April 20, 2025 at 12:46 pm
                              You can demand a female employe. It is well within your rights. And always make sure somebody accompany you.

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                                  April 20, 2025 at 7:16 pm
                                  They don’t let anyone enter the xray rooms with the patient

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                                      April 20, 2025 at 9:14 pm
                                      lolz, in india?

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                                          April 20, 2025 at 10:09 pm
                                          Yes at least in the hospitals I go to.

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                                            April 21, 2025 at 12:41 am
                                            Anywhere if they’re follow decent standards like OSHA.

                                            Only parents and caregivers are typically allowed.

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                                            April 21, 2025 at 2:44 am
                                            I don’t know what hospitals/clinics you visit but most of the places will allow a person to accompany patient. They give you a jacket to wear and you can stay with the patient. That’s the case with every scans there is today like MRI, CT Scans, X Ray etc.

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                                          April 20, 2025 at 1:24 pm
                                          Title is misleading

                                          Also sorry to hear but doesn’t seem normal and I know it’s hard to speak out but you should always say something if it makes you uncomfortable

                                          Who the f lets someone else touch others and he was machine operator not doctor and he could have asked you to do

                                          I’m not a doctor but it’s wrong I’d say

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                                            April 20, 2025 at 1:26 pm
                                            wtf i always thought they had women do these things, especially here in india, you must have felt like shit regardless, sorry for you..

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                                              April 20, 2025 at 1:31 pm
                                              Firstly, he was a technician or an operator and not a doctor. Secondly, you were taken advantage of. His job is to verbally instruct you on what to do. Report him or he’ll keep doing it to others, including minors.

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                                                  April 20, 2025 at 4:39 pm
                                                  Yeah, same , she can do it herself as required , he didn’t have to do it without any permission

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                                                  April 20, 2025 at 1:32 pm
                                                  Heyy , I’m a medical resident here . The investigation they probably did was a mammograph (A special type of xray for breasts) , where the mammary organs are pressed against a film to get different cross sectional images inside to check for any problems . Even my mom has it annually after 40 years , and she also states it as pretty uncomfortable . But the fact abt how the male operator took it , the way he took it (As you mentioned) , without any female operator or even an attendant nearby , is not acceptable . It could be a issue bcuz of the patient load , they may tend to rush it sometimes or this may be gross error on his side , bcuz he should have given you a safe place to undress and then ask proper consent before proceeding . But its questionable whether to sue or not , bcuz it may not go your way bcuz they’ll state that they did the test for your own good .

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                                                      April 20, 2025 at 3:35 pm
                                                      Would they do a mammography for a 19 year girl? Won’t the breast tissue be too dense? But based on the information given it does seem to be a mammograph.

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                                                      April 20, 2025 at 1:40 pm
                                                      that was an operator/technician not a doctor.
                                                      but anyways regardless, this is extremely inappropriate and a violation.

                                                      1) you should be directed to open your clothes in a different changing room
                                                      2) the operator should not have touched you AT ALL
                                                      3) a female attendant should have been present there.

                                                      raise a complaint with the management of the hospital you had this test done in. i wish you well

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                                                        April 20, 2025 at 1:53 pm
                                                        And usually they have a female in there. If any such scans are to be taken

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                                                          April 20, 2025 at 1:57 pm
                                                          That’s very much fked up? No one can/should touch you without your own permission, also wtf is he pulled/took it off? The bra? And grabbed? Wdym? Whatever you say makes it out as clear as day that doctors are NOT allowed to do that with any gender except for same eg: male to male and female to female and only SOME exceptions being when it’s needed or only certain doctor is there but then too they’re supposed to ask for YOUR PERMISSION so pls if possible take this ahead.

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                                                            April 20, 2025 at 2:22 pm
                                                            Technician not a doctor please correct it in your post

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                                                              April 20, 2025 at 2:22 pm
                                                              I’m a doctor. The protocol is to ask the patient to undress themselves and place your breasts on the machine for a mammogram. Most hospitals ( esp the ones with high caseload) don’t have a separate female technician for female patients. The male technician gives instructions and steps into the processing room. I’m guessing there were some miscommunication from both ends. But obviously, it is not protocol to undress themselves patient by a doctor/ any health personnel, unless the patient is in a condition where they cannot do it themselves, in that case a female chaperone presence in mandatory.

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                                                                April 20, 2025 at 2:36 pm
                                                                wtf and did the female doc say nothing?

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                                                                  April 20, 2025 at 2:38 pm
                                                                  They are mandated to have a female nurse/attendant in the room when undressing you. It’s not something you need to ask, it’s mandatory regardless of situation. They clearly violated the law

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                                                                    April 20, 2025 at 3:12 pm
                                                                    Lab technicians can be anyone, you can request for a female technician before hand – before reaching the lab.

                                                                    But legally, this won’t be illegal

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                                                                      April 20, 2025 at 3:28 pm
                                                                      Seems fake –> it is the only post this account has.

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                                                                        April 20, 2025 at 3:58 pm
                                                                        One, they cannot do that to you. Two, you can always ask for a female employee to assist. Medical facilities always allow that, they have to because it is your right.

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                                                                          April 20, 2025 at 3:59 pm
                                                                          Hey, I just want to say you’re not overthinking this at all. It’s completely okay to feel the way you do. Even though breast imaging can be a bit awkward and uncomfortable, there are proper ways to handle it — like explaining what’s going to happen, making sure you’re comfortable, and ideally having a female staff member or attendant there, especially when a male technician is involved.

                                                                          The way you described it doesn’t sound professional at all, and it’s really upsetting that you had to go through that. I understand why it’s stuck in your head. Even if others didn’t react the same way, your feelings are valid.

                                                                          I agree that you should flag it, maybe write a Google review or raise it with the centre. If more people speak up, it can stop things like this from happening again. You’re really brave for sharing this — and it might actually help someone else in the future.

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                                                                            April 20, 2025 at 4:10 pm
                                                                            It requires a female attendant as far i know.

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                                                                              April 20, 2025 at 4:11 pm
                                                                              In this specific case, I have to point out a few things not specifically in your case but I’m general first. (While I do this please bear in mind I’m not aware of the medical details of your case and do not consider this medical option or advice, consult your doctor for the same.) For starters, in cases of breast cancer or rather suspected breast cancer one of the tests involved or rather recommend is for doctors to feel the breasts by touch in order to identify lumps or any masses. If done by a doctor this is normal and acceptable(bear in mind you always have the option of seeking a female doctor).

                                                                              Now, the next part, generally when doctors suspect certain things, or to verify or confirm certain things, they ask for various scans(pet scan, ct scan, mamogram for this case in particular are the advanced scans and xray is a basic scan). Depending on what the doctor has instructed(by notes) or asked for, you may need to hold a certain posture for the scan.

                                                                              Now in an ideal world, the scans would always be conducted by a female technician an an profoundly professional setup thats very private. Unfortunately, the real world circumstances are very different for multiple reasons, economics being the biggest reason, unavailability of female staff/technicians in smaller towns, lack of specialized facelities etc are other reasons(again i don’t have to specifics of your case.). Due to this, a lot of women(to put in in a subtle way) end up in awkward situations but at this point in time it’s ‘considered’ normal and not a lot you can do about it.

                                                                              Now, coming to your situation, ideally if it was a option you could have ask for a female technician or expressed discomfort at the point when you had to remove your clothes. Given this did not happen it could be either of the two things where the guy found the opportunity and used it or the guy was just doing his job. I might have sound harsh in saying what I just said and believe me I can understand your situation(based on the available details) and am sympathetic to the same. But exploring legal routes on this is a no go as the guy will argue that he was doing his job and not a lot can be done unless you can articulate or prove otherwise.

                                                                              Again I can’t say that enough that don’t consider any of the above as medical advice, consul the doctor for the same. I do wish you good health.

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                                                                                April 20, 2025 at 4:36 pm
                                                                                If that was mammography then it is fine but if it was chest x ray for evaluation then it’s not ok btw I’m also a same kind of technician.

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                                                                                  April 20, 2025 at 4:38 pm
                                                                                  It sounds like he exploits the fact he is a technician ,and does wirh other pateints too.

                                                                                  He should have asked, reading even though I was like wtf , just pulled down wtf

                                                                                  Even i got x ray done, the female technician didn’t touch me, she just mimicked the actions that I had to do

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                                                                                    April 20, 2025 at 5:34 pm
                                                                                    They would never touch you

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                                                                                      April 20, 2025 at 5:34 pm
                                                                                      I have got my Xray and all done for the chest and I was asked to remove my bra in a safe space. No guy can just come and touch you in the name of tests, that’s very unprofessional and wrong

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                                                                                        April 21, 2025 at 12:03 am
                                                                                        It was a mammogram.

                                                                                        Usually female technicians are there for it, but if not available at a centre then a woman chaperone is always present.

                                                                                        Your experience is quite unusual and the place needs to know of the highly unprofessional behaviour of this person.

                                                                                        Inform the doctor in charge of your case or the radiologist doctor at the imaging centre.

                                                                                        It’s not unusual for male technicians in India to be creepy because of their poor training.

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                                                                                          April 21, 2025 at 1:24 am
                                                                                          Your post is generic and does not have a substantial legal issue involved.

                                                                                          If you have questions about this removal, please [contact the moderators](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=/r/LegalAdviceIndia).

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                                                                                            April 21, 2025 at 1:42 am
                                                                                            NAL, Nowadays x rays can be done without removing vest or bra. Ladies please 🙏🏻 requesting you to not get scared or shocked with such requests and go along with it without confirming with managers of such said staffs first. My gf has given x rays with medical gown on and ladies staff present. You can always call back and ask them. If they say no it is not required, go to police station and file an FIR.

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