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PFor a brief history, I have a very troubled 2 year marriage with my current wife.
She has physically assaulted me in my home jointly owned by my mother and my two daughters from my first marriage. My first wife passed away few years back. The assault was caught in the cctv camera in the house.
I also have a daughter with my current wife.
Due to constant fighting, I told her to stay in another house which I jointly own with her. She had been living there for past few months and things were relatively peaceful. I am continuing to provide for my other daughter with her.
Now suddenly couple of days back, when none of were in the house, she barged in, took all her jewellery did some video recording in the house (house help was there and she told me) and left.
I told her if she has taken her jewellery, just take her rest of the stuff too like few clothes and have us live in peace.
She has refused to do the same and said that both are her homes and she can choose whenever she wants to come and go and stay in whichever house she feels like.
For now I have told her that her actions are very stressful to my aged and ailing parents and my two young daughters from first marriage, and I will not allow her to enter this house which is legally owned by my mother and my daughters.
She is free to live in my other house which I jointly own with her. She is working too and we earn in similar pay bracket.
Please let me know what are my legal options to not allow her to set foot in the house where my mother lives ever again. Right now I stay with my mother and my first two daughters as they have no one to look after.
My name is on both the houses and I have given her the other home to live in, to maintain peace.
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RIf you don’t own the first house why keep your second wife’s jewellery in that house?!?!?!?
She took the jewellery in her own house which was her owns so whats the issue exactly?
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PI have name in both the houses, so she feels she also has rights on both the houses.
Her taking jewellery is OK, all I want is not to come to the first house again where my mother and my two daughters live. I don’t want such aggression. As I have given her another place to stay, I want her to live in peace there and let others live in peace where they belong.
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RNot possible as your wife she has right to every house which you have your name in and she will claim it if it comes to divorce, remove your name from first house
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PYes, when it comes to divorce it’s OK. Whatever legal route is we will take, however till then to maintain peace and live our lives what can I do to not have interaction. She herself moved out a while back and I am providing her an alternate arrangement and taking care of all my daughters. All I want is peace and not face any aggression which invariably happens when she is around. What more can I do to maintain peace.
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RWhatever i am telling you did not listen , remove your name from first house , then she cant enter that house legally .
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ASo she took her own jewellery that you’d kept with you? How is that a problem? Also you haven’t really given a proper explanation on why she started acting this way, you must have done something to agitate her…
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PI am fine with it. She could have just informed and taken. Again I had not kept that, she herself had kept it in that house which mainly includes what we gifted her. But it’s her and all OK here.
What is objectionable is barging in the house in our absence and then taking video recording of the house, what was the need for this aggression ? I don’t want to deal with her anymore and why did she just take jewellery, I want her to take all her stuff back and let us live in peace.
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SLol this sounds soooooo damn fishy. No wonder she recorded a video as proof that she only took what’s rightfully hers.
It doesn’t sit right, why did she keep her jewellery in the house which your mom and daughters unrelated to her live in.
And how is this her staking a claim on the house when she’s just retrieving her jewellery.
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V‘she reacted tht way’ and so it’s on him?! He must hav done smething!? Man, men getting abused isn’t even considered as possible, eh?!
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BTalk to your lawyers and see if your parents could get a restraining order against her but then again just a couple of months ago a woman broke that order and continued to physically assault her in-laws after 7 years.
Just talk to your lawyers what options do you have including naming the entire property to your parents and kids, divorcing and sole custody of your daughter. Your second wife is not worthy of being a mother she is violent and is only a matter of time when she starts abusing your daughter too. And go submit the video recording of her beating you and start a paper trail before she can file any fake case against you
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ANot an advice to the OP but consider this an advice to all else who don’t want to get into this position.
Fuck your women right!. You must fuck her brains out and gently let them know you could snap there neck if you chose too.
All this Vanilla sex has led to women getting ratchet.
My advice to all men, make sure you dick your women down real nice and real proper, your actions in bed dictate her behaviour with you. Cannot be soft!!.
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Sit means separation women don’t take this lightly and our society taunt about this to women.
It should be we have mutually divorced and the house is transfere in name of my spouse and our daughter…
Divorce is not taboo….
Why society makes life hell if you are divorced.?!
Adult people usually don’t adapt. Don’t use word like my elder parents, stree in front of her. ( she already knows and purposley does)…
Even male spouse can’t intitiate divorce talk( societal taboo).
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P1. If you do not want your wife to trouble your mother, your mother can file a domestic violence case on your wife seeking protection orders for her not to disturb the peace/ not to enter the house. She can file a private complaint in the court. You have to show some evidence of her cruel nature/ physical abuse/ verbal abuse etc. But filing this case may disturb your relationship with your wife further. [https://divorcebylaw.com/domestic-violence-lawyer-in-bangalore-india/](https://divorcebylaw.com/domestic-violence-lawyer-in-bangalore-india/)
2. If you do not want to continue to be married with her, you can file a divorce case on the grounds of cruelty. You have the evidence to prove that. [https://divorcebylaw.com/best-contested-divorce-lawyers-in-bangalore/](https://divorcebylaw.com/best-contested-divorce-lawyers-in-bangalore/)
3. If she is also not interested to continue with the marriage, you both can file a joint petition seeking mutual divorce. [https://divorcebylaw.com/mutual-divorce-lawyer-in-bengaluru/](https://divorcebylaw.com/mutual-divorce-lawyer-in-bengaluru/)
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