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SMy father wants to end me
Hello guys 18F here. It will be long so read it.
Idk where to start describing what I’m going through , well it all started when I was born I was an unwanted child (girl obv) my family didn’t want me but since I was the first one they kept me. As days passed I grew up and ever I’ve seen nothing but hatred against me from my entire family. My mother almost daily says me that she regrets having me and she would have kld me idf she had a chance (“tere ko kaise paida krdiya” “mar dete pet me hi aacha hota hai” “bojh hai tu” )and things I can’t even say. And my dad worst of all he used it beat me (bachpan se hi mjhe marte aae hain) once he threw mortar stone on me when I was 12 yo (masala grind krne wla jo pathar ka hota hai) and it hit my head badly(Mera sarr phatt gya tha) only beacuse my mother forgot to off the gas stove with boiling milk (ki kyu fenka maine kuch kiya hoga , nhi , mummy ne gas per dudh chadhaya tha gas band krna bhul gayi) to first he beat her and then he came where I was sleeping mjhe uthaya and threw me like I was a rock(he’s not an alcoholic)and once i refused to bath as a kid he hit me so hardly that my earring broke and ear started to blee* , these are just few .
Aur physically hi nhi mentally emotionally har trike se. See my mom is fair my brother is fair my dad is dark and I’m avg brown skinned girl (not dark) my entire life maine tanne sunaye the ( tu buri dikhti hai , badsurat ) taunt me for skin colour..etc…
once when I was in 6th STD he saw me talking to a boy (he was just a friend) I was literally 12 or 13 then he and my mom beat me until I was unconscious and then after a few days I heard them talking..we will push me from nearby mountain(“bagal wale pahad se lejake isko niche fenk dete hain aur logo ko bolenge pair fisal gya” ( yes my real parents plotting mu*der of their 13 yo kid )
I passed 10th 2023 with very good percentage I wanted to prepare for neet my father said “NO” after 12th we’ll decide afterwards…I asked him to send me other place for coaching( pls mjhe kahin coaching ya kuch krne bhej do) since we live in a village it has no coaching nothing.
This month my 12 exam get over..i asked him”you had said right after 12 th neet” right?? he said NO I can say anything I want to…. i was shocked to core and couldnt understand anything he said i will gey you married to someone& my mother beat me for asking it🙃 (aapne bola tha 12th k baad he said mera Mann mai kuch bhi bolun & i will get you married to someone(“nhi kuch nhi krna sidhe shadi hogi teri aur shadi bhi koi tujhse kyu krega badsurat jo hai tu”) .
Every single day since i am at home whole day. Morning me papa raat me mummy aake mjhe aisi aisi baate bolte hain ki mera Bhagwan takk pese bhrosa uth gya haiand yeah guys just for record I’ve tried to k!ll myself twice but guess I’m just too coward.
My father has even bought a g*n for me ig he even said once he will kil me at night nobody will know it (raat me hi maar dunga kisiko pta bhi nhi chlega )and I believe it…because he’s got power and money and also we live in a corrupt country.
I really believe they want me to end it(Mujhe pta hai my parents want me to k!ll myself everyday they torture me..I’m not exaggerating when I say daily ,I mean it )
-im writing this with red eyes after crying and my hands and numbI don’t have much friends..please tell me what to do
I’m posting this on behalf of a girl she doesn’t have enough karma help her
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SThis is real story of u/depressedsun_flower
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V9.5/10 almost relatable. Now I’m suffering from dysthymia and several kinds of mental disruptions.
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GLegally after 18 they can throw you out from the house.
But since you’re not independent they can’t. Otherwise they will have to give maintenance.
So stay strong study well and move out from the house or you can file police complaint for the torture and every Indian law provides free lawyers to people who don’t earn.
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SIf you think they can kill you, the best you can do is collect as much money as you can, write a letter and send it to few people and then run away.
Ditch your phone, bank accounts everything just keep all original documents.
Run somewhere far away, live in a hostel, start studying online or something and apply for some jobs.
You will have to find your own path if all of the things that you mentioned are true.
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MHey u/depressedsun_flower , Reading this broke my heart. I can’t even imagine how painful this must be for you. You don’t deserve any of this, and I just want you to know that even though I’m a stranger, I genuinely care. You are stronger than you think, and one day, you’ll be free from all this.
There are people who genuinely care and can help. Please try reaching out to NGOs in India that support girls in situations like this. You deserve safety and a life where you are free and happy.
Stay strong, I’m rooting for you. Sending you lots of love and strength.
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MCan you guys share the city / district or something so that people can help you with the right contact?
Maybe she can write a letter saying “don’t search for me. I wanted to make it easier for you guys & e@d myself. My bre@th will be gone by the time you read this”. And leave with the ngo and build her own life as the parents seems too set about e@nding her. Am truly scared for her l@fe.
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Su/depressedsun_flower Run away. If they are okay with killing you, they are okay with you running away. Take important documents, your phone etc if you have, some of your own money or steal it, run away and never look back after your 12th exams finish. Contact NGOs for women and lay low. There are people who take 2-3 years drop for exams easily. Gap years won’t be an issue, you don’t have to hurry. Establish your in a safe place in the first year. You can get distance learning from coaching centres far cheaper than classroom programs. Study diligently the next 1-2 years. You will get NEET and live your life.
I saw a comment where you said you will go after 12th certificate. They upload the originals on your digilocker in case you are in cbse board, you can print it from there.
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GDude , if possible ask her to collect evidence aur any proof , kaise bhi prove kar de , warna police complain ke baad bhi kuch nahi ho payega , so sad , and can’t even imagine what is she going through right now , but action nahi loge toh kuch nahi badalega , I know bohot himmat lagegi but agar bachna hai toh kuch karna padega
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B1.) Get all your documents sorted. Your Adhar card, any other identity proof, class 10th and 12th marksheet.
2) You are 18 try to open a bank account. Many banks including sbi let you open no cost bank accounts.
3) Record abuse and don’t just save it on your phone. Put it on one drive or Gmail etc.
4) Make few trustable people around aware of your situation. They don’t necessarily have to be involved bit maybe ask for financial help.
5) Contact several NGO’s around you aswell as NGO’s in the cities around you. But be careful don’t ever give anyone your real identity card or info and inform them of your situation, and see if they can advice you about anything.
6) Look for someone who you know personally, preferably a woman to help you get out. Leave the village and maybe towards a city.
7) Don’t trust just anyone, always be alert, know where you are being taken, be aware of your location, and if you are able to open a bank account only keep your money in it.
Fact check places, jobs and people before making a decision
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UI’m truly sorry you’re going through this. No one deserves to suffer abuse, and your life is valuable. The first and most important thing is your safety. If you are in immediate danger, please reach out to local authorities, a trusted teacher, or any organization that can help. You do not have to face this alone..there are people who care and want to support you. It’s crucial to document any threats or abuse you experience, as this can help you seek legal protection when the time comes. If staying in your current situation puts you at risk, consider looking for a safe place, such as a shelter or a supportive relative who can provide refuge. There are also helplines and organizations that specialize in helping people in your situation, and they can offer guidance on the best steps to take. No matter how hopeless things may seem, know that you have the strength to get through this. You deserve freedom, love, and a future on your own terms. Stay strong, and please seek the support you need..you are not alone.
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