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UThank you so much for overwhelming amount of support in comments and DMs for my previous post which is linked here – https://www.reddit.com/r/LegalAdviceIndia/s/VDYJoUdn92
I’ll keep it short… I believed that she’ll be with me forever and even her mother used to tell me things like talk to your parents we’ll fix the engagement, etc… So, I used to spend a lot of money on her. She used to ask me to buy a lots of things shamelessly and I used to buy them for her. I’m also starting to realise that the girl and her mother scammed me for the money and she never loved me to begin with.
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U>I’m also starting to realise that the girl and her mother scammed me for the money and she never loved me to begin with.
Amateur mother and daughter. A well planned one would’ve made sure you both got married and then looted you for everything you have and frame you for harassment.
Bro you got saved. You only lost rupees. There are guys committing suicide because of these mother-daughter combos.
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UI see your harassment card, and I’ll raise you the rape card.. OP is lucky she broke up with him, if OP had, it’s an easy rape case on him for having sex under the false promise of marriage.
And u/Vin112358 , if her intentions are actually malicious and it’s not just you coping with heartbreak, save your breakup conversation for later as proof that she broke up.
And no need to be petty and try to harass her for the money back, that’s not how the world works, you took that risk when you were spending on her, call it the cost of a lesson that love isn’t a one way street for anything and move on. If you continue to fuck around with her with all this money back shit, you will soon find out Indian laws are ready to fuck you for life. A rape case is taken very seriously in court and even if there’s no evidence, it lasts years and can cost you crores if you want to come out of it untainted.
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ASimple rules about girl
Gold digger -> lots of materialistic demands and emotional blackmailObsessed about you -> lots of drama and emotional blackmail just to be with you
Rich girl obsessed about you -> amazing experience and emotional drama
Simple girl in love with you -> no demands, no drama. May even accept whatever you say to her.
There are other types as well. It’s just I can’t type all
BUT PLEASE FORGET NOT WORTH THE HASSLE. UNLESS IT’S YOUR LIFE SAVINGS.
Also don’t loose your temper. She can put any fake case on you. Talk to her calmly and if you can get things from her fine else forget.
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Uyeah its like millions of permutation combinations lmao
im glad i learned all of that the hardway early in life
going to be 20 soon and will never repeat the mistakes i did (didnt ruin my life but my peace im in a good spot rn tho)-
AWe all made mistakes and will continue to make them. Also a girl’s mood changes every time we are not like you. Our hormones change daily. Someday we need someone badly someday we just don’t need anyone.
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Aisn’t it good. You can be with anyone in your world. And believe me He/She is not that good how you imagine them
You will always imagine their best version because there is goodness in your heart
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UHey,how can we recognise a simple girl in the wild, any other traits which make her stand out, since you’re one please shine some light on this!
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U“no demands, no drama. May even accept whatever you say to her.”
For me(assuming): does not have a deviating personality with different people, values culture,straight forward and less manipulative, tbh I dunno didn’t interact with girls to know better🤡
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AFirst thing first start talking to girl. Then make some friends I mean just be part of some group. Then start expressing yourself. Now in that group observe:
If you can guess what type of things she wear, color and song she like. Basically if you can guess her personality she is simple. But if you find a girl who always surprises you she is complex.
Now start talking to her if she is sharing her opinion as judgement then she is not simple but if she shares her observation as a question to get your approval she is simple.
If you can engage her in your conversation or you can get involved in her conversation she is simple. But your conversation always turns into an argument or fight or boring it’s not working.
Sometimes a girl can be simple but a guy also has to be understanding. It’s a 2 way thing. Not one way or highway -
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PPossible Legal Actions:
1. Cheating (Section 415 & 420 of IPC) – If a woman intentionally deceives a man by falsely promising marriage and taking money, it may be considered cheating or fraud. Section 420 (cheating and dishonestly inducing delivery of property) can apply if financial loss is involved.
2. Breach of Trust (Section 406 of IPC) – If the man gave money as a form of trust, and she misused it, a case of criminal breach of trust may be filed.
3. Extortion (Section 383 of IPC) – If the money was obtained through threats or coercion, it may amount to extortion.
4. Civil Suit for Recovery of Money – If the money was given as a loan or gift under false pretenses, the man can file a civil suit to recover the amount.Challenges:
• If the money was given voluntarily, proving deception can be difficult.
• Courts often require strong evidence of fraud or malicious intent. -
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UThis law is exclusive to women…. Men can’t get r@ped in india… Sex on pretension is far far away….. (For men..)
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UFirst in what? Registering an fir…. An fir won’t be registered if there’s no provision of such in the law…
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UPetition to rethink and reform some of the laws?….
No bro ain’t happening…… The people who have power to raise concern in the parliament which takes care of reforming laws….. Those people are either brainless politicians and/or convicted criminals…… Reforming laws are at the bottom of their interests…..
(From childhood I believed the country I live in may not be the most hi-tech or most peaceful country but atleast here people live without fear of injustice…. Like if you live an honest and peaceful life you have no fear living in the country…… Boy my understanding has changed over the years….)
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INot worth the effort, but it’s a valuable lesson. Here’s a suggestion that worked like a charm for 3 of my ex-es. I never bought them anything, rather I helped them get a credit card in their own name and paid a little more than minimum amount every month. For ex number 1, when we broke up, she had ~80k worth of debt, ex number 2 had ~29k and last one had over 1 lakh.
4th one got all bills paid once we got married.
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Ubro, you spent the money on her by your own wish. How can you ask for it back? Just because someone promised to marry doesn’t mean they’ll follow through.
No matter how much you love someone, there’s no guarantee they’ll stay with you forever. Even after marriage, divorce can happen. We should always view things through a realistic lens.
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UDude girls can put boys in jail in India for false promise of marriage. So why can’t men? So if a man has to follow through by law, shouldn’t the same be for girls?
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UThe experience has been different for women due to the patriarchal nature of society. If a woman was found to be in a physical relationship with a man before marriage, she would often be deemed unmarriageable. This, however, was not the case for men. Historically, women were sometimes forced to marry their rapists. A woman’s honor was often equated with her sexuality. Laws were made based on the social realities of those times.
However, as times have changed, there is a need for the overhaul of such laws.
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UTrue.I don’t understand his logic of calling her out for not marrying him anymore.feeling change & ppl move on if they don’t fit eo.if u know she shamelessly asking money then why did u gave her?
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UAdvocate here.
I would suggest before taking a case, you start collecting evidence of how much you have spent and how you have to prove that you have spent.
File a Police Complaint in ACP, DCP and at the local Police Station stating that you have spent this much and there is a strong possible that she will leave me or file a false case against me.
I wish I could say get a lawyer but this day and age even advocate are giving empty promises and sell stupid confidence than delivering excellence. Ask ChatGPT how to make a formal Court petition or ask the Registrar of your local court to give you demo file and understand that and file a case in case police did not take action in 20 days or 10 days. Summon will be served and she will bound to file their reply.
Is she file false case, your complaint will act as defence cuz you have already mentioned to police about her bad behaviour.
That’s how only you can get your money back, otherwise cut your loses and choose another women.
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SWomen are a protected privileged class in this country. And the status of men is lower than dogs. So it’s best you forget it.
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RSome mistakes in life can’t be rectified, all you can do is regret, and walk ahead. The amount of additional efforts and expenses you’ll go through to get your money back won’t help you get better at life. You’ll have to give time and effort in the revenge, whereas you could use the same energy on someone deserving. But yess they deserve to pay for it.
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UIn a previous post you have asked advice for dating a 19 year old
[POST made 4 months ago](https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1gcku2g/shes_19_but_already_has_9_exes_should_i_commit_to/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button)
and in another post you have mentioned that you are 28 years old
[POST made 8 months ago](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskDocs/comments/1dx8pbo/scared_of_infection_after_blood_withdrawal/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button)So were you trying to date a 19 year old like a creep or were you trying to get a girl to marry you by spending a lot when you did not even know her for 4 months??
Which one is it?
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PBy your own logic, will you continue to spent in the future with the next person instead of being equal partners? That’s your own fault in approach and risk you took. The same way studying in college doesn’t guarantee placement, at least use that experience and learnings for the future. Your biggest loss should be time you lost instead of the money.
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UBro, were you buying a Marriage certificate that now you need a refund?
You got lucky that It ended before marriage and even though It’s not an ideal situation, but It’s still far from the worst situation.
I would celebrate with the money I am left with rather than trying to get the lost money back. -
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