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SSo , my sister just got married to his love. Actually my sister is a huge dog lover and her husband is a vet. Before marriage my sister made a condition that she will only marry of and only if her husband and all her in-laws are ready to accept her dogs which she has kept with her before marriage. And now they are openly rejecting her condition and even slapped her and destroyed her CHOODA with BELAN. and her husband and all her in-laws abuses her and my MAASI very badly. Like disgusting abuses. Her phone was also snatched and destroyed in front of her.
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PNAL
From a purely legal perspective:
Sister – domestic violence, harassment, abuse. Pretty strong case.
In laws – harassment, abuse. In-laws can build a case if they prove that dogs are hazardous to anyone. Either by proving health concerns, allergies, society bylaws prohibiting dogs, biting or dangerous behavior putting neighbors at risk. And even after multiple discussion sister has intentionally used dogs to harass in laws.
But all-in-all sister has a stronger case. But because it gets complicated with animals etc. The whole thing will trickle down to mediation, counselling.
Easiest way out is to come to a middle ground / mediation. In short, keep in-laws away from dogs. There’s already so many ways it can be achieved easily.
I don’t see a reason to escalate this legally because it’ll just stretch out for minor reasons and eventually end up breaking the marriage. but if she’s being abused physical, pls file a police complaint, if the police isn’t in your favour, only then register an FIR and take the legal route
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BBhai yaha par log thode pagla gaye hai kya..? Instead of focusing on him beating her up and abusing her they are more focused on the number of dogs…?
He didn’t want the dogs, he shouldn’t have married her, it was as simple as that.
Also I would understand him changing his mind when he actually has to live with the dogs and having a conversation about it but the motherfucker is beating her for that.
It’s about control. Obviously, the dogs are inconvenient, but he just wants to set the dynamic of the relationship.
There is no sane option other than divorce, she should count her blessings that he showed who he is before they had a kid. Fuck his life and get him jailed.
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CKeep dogs away from her for sometime, for her own safety.
You don’t have to take comments here personally. People love to comment, judge and impose their thoughts on you.
Yes, public perception matters (women centric laws are creating havoc) but law is above society. Don’t waste your time answering random comments and consult only with lawyer.
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MWhy is she tolerating slapping, abusing & domestic violence for her dogs ? Did the dogs have a horrible life before she got married? Why can’t she go back to the same place she & the dogs were in before she got married ?
Case should be filed for domestic violence, it should never be tolerated as it will only get worse.
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SOf course, your brother in law shouldn’t have hit your sister. Nothing can justify violence. They should’ve had a mature conversation and discussed their issues.
Having said that, 8 dogs is a lot! It’s unlikely that any guy will be willing to marry a woman who says that she’ll move in with 8 dogs. Ultimately, your sister has to decide what’s more important to her… having a life partner (whether it’s her current husband or someone else), or her 8 dogs.
Maybe she can be a bit more reasonable and just have 1 or at the most 2 dogs. If she has more than 2 dogs, everything starts revolving around the dogs and their needs. All her time and attention will be directed towards the dogs. It’s good to have pets, but your sister is taking it too far. She has to realize that she can’t take care of all the dogs in the world. At some point, she has to realize that she’s depriving herself of a meaningful human relationship due to her obsession with having so many dogs. Has she thought of starting a shelter where the dogs are cared for by staff?Even if things don’t work out with your brother in law, any future prospective partner will back out the minute they hear about 8 dogs!! Giving you an unbiased outsider’s perspective – 8 dogs is a HUGE red flag for any guy. 1 or 2 dogs sounds much more reasonable. This way, she gets to have pets and will still be able to have a life partner.
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CIt’s a serious conversation and must involve experts.
First of all abusive relationship shall not be tolerated.you need to think of safety of your sister and dogs.Then maybe try a counselor who can make both the parties see the light. If it’s abusive relationship, then involving legal help shall be considered as we don’t know what anybody can do in fit of rage.And better safe then sorry. -
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IYour sister takes care of finances of 8 dogs? Idk think govt vet earn so much. I think in the laws didn’t anticipate how tough it is to take care of 8 dogs before promising.
Having said that, they still have no right to abuse and harass her, and getting slapped by husband should be enough reason to separate and that too all this so early in the marriage, it will only get worse.
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AIf this is all there is to the story, then ask her to leave him, and come back home. File a complaint for domestic abuse, and divorce him.
There is no point in tolerating this for the dogs, it’s not even about the dogs anymore, it’s a show of character. If someone is capable of violence after breaking a promise that they publicly made, there is no hope from them. No one should have any kind of relationship with this kind of people. -
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MThere are domestic violence laws in the country – utilise those. 498A
Bring her back instead of posting here, and if she is not ready then see what are the reasons for her not being ready to leave an abusive place? Does she have nowhere else to go to? Nobody to fall back on?Your sister should have got her own place with her husband to keep her dogs. Unless, they gave it in writing that they’ll keep the dogs all their life, you cannot force them to keep her dogs in their house. People change all the time. I have cats and I would never part with them, they came in my life first. And neither would I impose my cats on others. I’d get a place of my own, which will have place for my pets too, so nobody can force me to leave my pets.
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FI think your sister is hesitant about coming back as she believes that it will cause inconvenience you all, she’s afraid of this big decision and also how she will face you guys after making her decision as it was a love marriage and all. Tell her that you guys love her and that you have no problem having her back. Domestic violence is a line which should have never been crossed. This clearly calls for filling a case. Tell her to not suffer anymore.
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UGoing through these comments and ppl talking about how did he marry someone with 8 dogs and hope suspicious this story is….
If this is a real story, the point is not about the dogs
It’s about being physically abusive towards another human regardless of the gender which is unacceptable.
You really should get a good lawyer and take your sister to a safe place away from these evil people. -
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