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UThis is an update to an previous post that I made here. I am posting this on behalf of my friend.
Hi, I’m(20F) and It’s been 11 months since my brother’s(29M)marriage, and my sister-in-law(28F) has been homewreker and impulsive liar from the start. She made my mom (who lives 400 km away) break contact with my brother and forced me to leave our Pune flat so they could live alone even tho the flat is on my mother and late father’s name. We accepted her demands, but she still wasn’t happy.
Around Makar Sankranti, she insisted on going to our hometown but then threw tantrums, got unconscious, and made suicide threats. Her brother took her away then.
Later, she came back to Pune, took all her belongings, and left with her brother, telling my brother never to contact her again.
Now, a month later, the police called me (20F) and my mom (54F), saying she accused my brother of physically hurting her while leaving that flat and forcefully made her leave it and my mom of physically hurting her during Sankranti. She also filed a false complaint with our society authorities against me false claiming that she rang the bell and I didn’t open the door.
We have very little to almost no proof to defend ourselves.Questions:
1. How should we legally respond?
2. What can we do to protect ourselves from false claims?
3. What legal steps should we take now?
4. Am I safe? As I am a second year student, will this affect my future? -
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RThe only issue is that police might arrest your brother if an FIR has already been registered.
You will have to be extremely careful with this.
There is a strong likelihood that it has been registered and they’re looking to simply arrest.Where do you put up? Jurisdiction will give a clearer picture.
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NYes, it will affect your future to meddle between tw adult’s marriages, stay out of it.
You’re 20, stop mooching off your brother financially, he has a new family to support, accept it, get a flat and stay there or stay with your mom.
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CExcuse me? What made you think I’m financially dependent on him? It’s vice versa I have helped him a lot of times from my savings and as mentioned in the post my mom lives 400km away I can’t leave this city bcz of them
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NGood, then stop living with them. Rent a flat, if you’re so financially independent. A newly wed couple deserves space. It is not the 80s where a woman asking for a nuclear family is a villain. Give them space and move tf out.
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BThat flat doesn’t even belong to the sil in law the flat was equally OP friends as it was to the brother legally. SIL kicked OP friends out forcefully from a place she has no say in. People like you are the reason women get away with filing fake domestic violence and dowry cases.
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NThe flat does not belong to OP either. But she’s living there, mooching off her brothers income like a leech. She’s 20, have her future and college exams ahead. But if you guys are advicing so hard for her to still stay there and become engrossed in these matrimonial cases, so be it, would love to see karma play out with this “homewrecker” OP
Lets talk law to you illiterates. DV act goes easy on SILs who are not staying in joint families. There are cases where their names are struck off just because they dont live at the same address.
But hey, again, don’t listen to me, what do I know, fuck around and find out 🙂
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Uyes all woman are doing such things now-a-days.
my wife deserted me and filed false cases against my family when i met with a life threatening accident. i was bedridden for 3-5 months. Unemployed for 10 months. Even though it was a love marriage, now its clear to me it was never about love. I was just fulfilling her wishes and she was nice to me, the day some bad thing happened, i became nothing for her.
Being a young women you should raise voice against breed of greedy generation of a particular gender and be careful that you dont end up becoming one such person. Good luck.
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UPut yourself in some bad situation… then test… she will probably say i am glad I figured out before marriage that you were such a loser… etc … if she stays by your side.. then congratulations
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Bcontact Deepak Bharadwaj and hire lawyer through her reference because random lawyer will just extort money from you and your mom.
You can file counter harassment case against SIL’s brother.
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ENot a lawyer
OP if she has gone to police then MAKE SURE YOUR FAMILY AND ESPECIALLY YOUR BROTHER THAT THE MARRIAGE IS OVER
First get th fir copy, ask th cops what all charges have been filed against you.
Its better to engage a lawyer who is from that specific police station locality. He/she will have contact in police and could be helpful in case.
If the flat is under your mom’s name then inform your brother to leave the flat and mom should live in it.
There is nothing you can do for false allegations. It will be dealt in court which would definitely take couple of years.
REMEMBER NEVER ALLOW THAT WOMEN TO VE BACK AT YOUR HOME. NEVER.
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R1. Do not visit the police station in person.
2. If an Fir has been lodged move an application for anticipatory bail first.
3. Move an application for quashing of FIR thereafter.In my personal experience this is the most effective remedy and this is how I’ve helped multiple clients.
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UI am an advocate practicing in Delhi.
The remedy and strategy depends upon what you and your brother wants. We can have a quick call if you want.
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ZAsk your brother to go underground maybe leave India for sometime. I know it is hard but it’s an easy route to escape. The other is legal path but will take years and who knows what will happen?
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CGoing out of India is not really possible for us financially and also that will just be a temporary escape from this one day we will have to face this so why not face it now and end as early as possible right? Also like you said she is making my whole family go through this and her family is so relaxed putting stories status and celebrating bdays and everything and here we are, can’t even distract out mind for a minute from this
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ZMy apologies for assuming that you can move abroad. I hope you can come out of this situation and all your problems get resolved.
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U498 is misused and when a lady files physical mental abuse case family is doomed. But these days not much happens without proofs.
One thing is sure mental stress for ur family loss of time and money
Make sure all the property’s are on your moms name or check with lawyer becuse there is some rule for inherited property.
Police and lawyers use this cases to mint money from boys family if they r crooked
Stay strong face the society its very common these days dont take it personally or let it effect you
I know its easy to say but stay strong united proove that you and your mom where not in pune when she Claims if that lies burst everything will fall in place ask your brother to transfer money to ur account or moms accout keep all property papers gold etc at safe place -
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AAll i can do is offer my best wishes. It’s a horrendous situation. You will need a legal representation who isnt out there to fleece you
My cousin’s wife walked away as well just because of her idiotic tantrums. And almost after a year reached out through a lawyer for mutual consent separation. The first thing their lawyer discussed with our lawyer was to figure out strategies to drag the case. Fortunately out lawyer is a friend and he told them to go eff themselves.
I would think you would need to respond to police that all allegations are categorically false, she left on her own and tell them your side of the story. File for anticipatory bail and then to quash their complaint.
Wish this was a country with rule of law to give you better advise.
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AThey have just started the process. Mutual consent means they get to keep their stuff and we keep ours. The only point of contention is that we want to make sure my cousin is able to meet his daughter regularly. My cousin has no assets to his own name so there isnt much to hand out anyways. Everything is owned by parents. Including the business which pays him some monthly salary.
It’s a mess tbh. And they are rank idiots. There are several LIC policies for her, recurring deposits and what not. We had an agent communicate the same to her and idiots are least bothered in maintaining policies/deposits which can only be cashed by her. This whole process is a punishment.
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VDude do an Uno reverse
If your friends SIL harass you more ask her to get in touch with her brother explain the situation and if he doesn’t listen file a case of harrassment on him.
She will compromise for her brother’s sake
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