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RRapidvani8945
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April 5, 2025 at 5:29 pmHey guys ..
So let me give uh the context like what happens
So me and boyfriend started dating almost a year ago..
Everything seems very good and nice to me.. and thn like when we starting meeting frequently he told me about his past ..
So basically ik his past his ex gf..
Now what happens randomly a clip of his and his ex girlfriend got viral by his bestfriend (his bestfriend did this to him bcz they had fight at gym so he stole my boyfriend private videos and pics)out of anger jealousy…and leaked…idk tbh..
So we guys are in college he got immense hate and whatsoever
Everyone around us or basically around me said leave him ..
And what not..
Now his ex girlfriend basically cheated on him so and so…for context
And also it’s been like 7-8 months since there video got viral.. everything seems to be alright..
So out of no where her family members got to know about her sex tape ..
And they filed case against him..
And case was posco act :- basically case for rape in india..
Now thing is : he’s already in depression bcz of this thing..
Now thiss freaking case which cause him jail or death penalty for what nothing..
What should I do now??
He’s underground now bcz of the case ..
Idk what to do..
He’s innocent…..TLdr: My(21f) boyfriend (20M) gonna arrested due to his some personal videos and pics with his ex.. what should I do now????
Location: haryana
Also guys my english is not so good as of its not my language..
Also what I can do for him now??
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AAlokmaster722
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April 5, 2025 at 5:41 pmWhy were the vids still with him? Weird -
SSilentbro7278
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April 5, 2025 at 5:41 pmTry for anticipatory bail and an amicable solution between parties if chargesheet has not been filed yet , if both parties were minors then JJ act will apply and it will be easier for him to get bail , try collecting evidences for his innocence -
SSmartsanjay9259
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April 5, 2025 at 5:43 pmUse chatgpt next time, my mind can’t process your grammar-
SSaishark876
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April 5, 2025 at 6:31 pmEk chatgpt word kya seekh har jgha use karna zaruri hai ? padha to jaa rha hai kya likha hai
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QQuickvishal2267
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April 5, 2025 at 5:46 pmGood darwin would be happy.-
IIndiangargi2466
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April 7, 2025 at 1:49 amWhat? How does darwin come into this?
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EEpichero8193
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April 5, 2025 at 5:47 pmLol if the girl who with his video was leaked and shxt was minor he’s fked and it’s good 😊 i recommend you stay tf away from him and this shxt, MAYBE what he told was not the truth? And IF UT WAS TRUTH WHICH I HOPE IT IS, I don’t think anything will change and fking a girl/guy willingly and intentionally knowingly etc that’s fked up when it’s not gonna be marriage thingy. All of this story you just told here is genuinely fked up…-
LLakshayowl134
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April 5, 2025 at 5:51 pmSuch women are idiot, imagine she is posting here asking to protect a culprit who should be on life imprisonment.-
EEpichero8193
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April 5, 2025 at 5:52 pmExactly 💯 lol
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BBrighttiger5926
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April 5, 2025 at 5:47 pmLawyer here- was her ex under 18 when they did xxx? If she was underage than posco applies if she was 18+ than posco doesn’t apply and therefore he will be alright if they can prove mutual consent-
LLakshayowl134
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April 5, 2025 at 5:53 pmProbably she is below 16 or even 18, she said Ex must have happened much before.
I don’t think the daughter will accept a mutual consent, in front of the court, since her family will pressurise her not to.-
BBrighttiger5926
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April 5, 2025 at 6:06 pmVideo can prove if she gave consent or not.
Although video is not allowed without consent either, but his lawyer can try to prove consent.
Only issue being if she was 16,17 than even her consent is no consent ans he will go to jail 100% you can’t do anything about it what he did is considered rape if she was under 18
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EExpertarushi9899
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April 5, 2025 at 5:51 pmHope he gets caught and put in prison, not safe for society. -
DDesiguru2127
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April 5, 2025 at 5:51 pmAsk him to hire a good lawyer,
For additional help you may contact me. -
MMegaroopa5283
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April 5, 2025 at 5:59 pmThis “phone getting stollen” excuse is the lousiest one in the book-
LLuckywolf3883
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April 5, 2025 at 6:14 pmNo srsly, this tells me he probably sent his friend the video for fun but he circulated around-
LLakshayowl134
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April 5, 2025 at 6:30 pmNow friend of OPs boyfriend and OPs boyfriend will have a good jail time,
I don’t know why some women have such taste over women dude, looks etne zyada important hogye hai ke log apni life bhul gaye hai-
LLuckywolf3883
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April 5, 2025 at 7:12 pmSahi galat ka fark hi ni pata chalra
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CCleversapan9841
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April 6, 2025 at 1:05 amIf this is the case, may someone enlarge OP’s bf’s donut hole in prison.
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AAlphashivam6548
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April 6, 2025 at 4:40 amAnd the gym part is also pretty common, I’m not dismissing the guy but yeah it’s a common trope to the T. -
NNavyabear944
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April 6, 2025 at 1:51 pmYeah. He is sharing videos. And OP, yours are shared as well.
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SSmartstar6771
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April 5, 2025 at 6:02 pmSay good bye to him -
LLuckywolf3883
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April 5, 2025 at 6:12 pmPOCSO? so he was involved with underage? Then he deserves it and idk but i don’t buy this story, his best friend STOLE the videos from his phone? Do you really believe that? And why did he have those videos After they broke up?Maybe she cheated, maybe she did not, it’s not an excuse for her sex tape being circulated without her consent, idk why you bought up her cheating here? As if it’s a justification? it IS sexual harassment, no he’s not innocent. And yes her parents should have filed that case. Idk why you’re expecting a woman’s sex tape being circulated around college and the man responsible for it should be left free? He does not seem to be as innocent as you think he is. Also,not a lawyer but i don’t think he’ll get death penalty for that. In this country, you don’t get that for raping a toddler
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EEpichero9082
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April 5, 2025 at 6:13 pmThat guy doesn’t sound like a bestfriend -
NNehaguy446
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April 5, 2025 at 6:17 pmI can read this. Sorry -
CCoolhero1657
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April 5, 2025 at 6:22 pmYou are still justifying this pos. May be he will make videos of you and when you become ex, you will file casesI am still amazed by the audacity to defend him.
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VViratdude124
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April 5, 2025 at 6:32 pmTo any practicing lawyers here, i have a question, since according to op this happened in the past and since the bf is 21 now, if the boy himself was underage then does that change the circumstances for pocso act? Im merely asking out of curiosity and to know the nuance better, please enlighten me about the same-
EExpertarushi9899
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April 5, 2025 at 6:52 pmit doesnt’ change the fact, that he made cp and distributed it. Jailtime for sure -
RRapidzoya2150
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April 6, 2025 at 3:58 amIt won’t change circumstances for application of pocso act, but it would also invite Juvenile justice act. The act that governs how “children in conflict with law” (the legal term for under 18 criminals) are treated. That basically means no jail, no handcuffs, no police custody in police station, child detention centers, and early bail and very less term of punishment. -
RRapidzoya2150
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April 6, 2025 at 3:59 amIt won’t change circumstances for application of pocso act, but it would also invite Juvenile justice act. The act that governs how “children in conflict with law” (the legal term for under 18 criminals) are treated. That basically means no jail, no handcuffs, no police custody in police station, child detention centers, and early bail and very less term of punishment.
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TTusharowl944
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April 5, 2025 at 6:39 pmFirstly, if they were adults at the time, POCSO wouldn’t apply. You’ll need to hire a lawyer to clear his name.His best friend could be jailed for this, if pursued correctly.
Honestly, kids these days don’t understand the repercussions of their actions. His best friend leaked such footage for revenge, and your boyfriend kept these videos on his unsecured phone.
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PPropanther8623
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April 5, 2025 at 6:42 pmForget lawyers, ask him to go and cry in front of her parents and beg for mercy. -
BBravevignesh4918
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April 5, 2025 at 6:49 pmEven if the sex was on mutual consent.Why the hell did he record the video and why did he still keep on to the video after he stared dating you. If she was a minor during the act your boyfriend is fucked up..and a friendly advice to you stay sway from him . What if the videos wer you two were involved.i hope you find to your senses -
SSwiftmanoj1392
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April 5, 2025 at 7:09 pmAb video banaoge aur rakhoge phone mein toh yeh hona hi hai -
NNiharikastar410
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April 5, 2025 at 7:14 pmSelling kidneys/home to save life is worth it..
Or be gone -
SShashibro751
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April 5, 2025 at 8:05 pmHave Patience! Healyourselfup and you do exactly the same your boyfriend did “ going under the ground “. That’s best for everybody ig 😬😂 -
PPrimenamit1320
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April 6, 2025 at 12:28 amWas he also a minor at that time? Otherwise it’s a crime and he’s not innocent.. -
PPoonamwolf550
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April 6, 2025 at 1:49 amI highly suggest him to get the CCTV photoages of the fight b/w him and his friend when he’s taking out the videos.Surrender to the police while getting the anticipatory bail order on health or any relevant grounds.
Give deposition that those videos was in phone and leaked by him (his estranged friend). They had consensual acts and show proofs of dating.
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SSupersapna5115
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April 6, 2025 at 2:02 amAbey saali -
RRajdude41
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April 6, 2025 at 2:18 amSweetie he is fucked up.. there is no way out of this.
And u cant do anything buz ur out of context.. -
SSunitarider829
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April 6, 2025 at 2:38 amDekho i am bot a lawyer or something but he is a dumb and did all the mistake he could do first he stored the private pics and the bigger one which anyone can reach and other thing he didnt manage to stop him so all this things happen bcs of him only -
VVikramrider800
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April 6, 2025 at 3:00 ambreakup -
MMightysmriti490
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April 6, 2025 at 3:56 amHave you considered the psychological trauma your boyfriend has put his ex through? -
LLakshayfalcon658
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April 6, 2025 at 4:55 amYour bf deserves all the beating and torture if his ex was a minor at the time of recording -
YYuvrajbear643
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April 6, 2025 at 5:16 amBehen, bhaag or peeche mud ke bhi mat dekhna. And pocso means he has potentially abused a girl below 18 years of age. -
AAvinashhawk475
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April 6, 2025 at 5:31 amI am disgusted with the butchering of the English Language on the post.As for the case, I hope whoever is the genuine victim gets justice.
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UUshawolf393
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April 6, 2025 at 6:48 amWhy did he still have those videos post the breakup lmao?? -
MMiteshlion613
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April 6, 2025 at 6:56 amYo Yo Yo everything was alright until I saw POCSO. Seriously your boyfriend’s ex is a minor?? HE WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A MINOR. A VIDEO OF A MINOR GOT RELEASED?? This is a very serious issue. As far as I know, Although, whatever that had happened between is with both of their consent, the law still takes it as a sexual abuse against children. Also in addition there is the circulation of CP getting added to it. Multiple sections can be filed.I am unsure of the bail, but one can still argue the case on humanitarian grounds such as intentional relationships etc. Consult your Lawyer.
The best thing to do, go and consult with the family and the girl’s family lawyer to not to get it into court. Although there is only a slim chance this can happen, still try it.
Advice for you… Do you think a person is having a relationship with a minor is innocent? Consider rethinking.
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SShubhamowl68
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April 6, 2025 at 5:28 pmI think this guy himself might be a minor at that time.
He is getting phucked up because of a bad company, lesson for life !
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SSuperrajiv4314
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April 6, 2025 at 7:08 amBoys always getting into some shit -
BBraveguru602
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April 6, 2025 at 7:24 amPadhai likhaai pe dhyan dedo aur english bhi sudhar jayegi… -
SSuperdude4762
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April 6, 2025 at 7:51 amYe kya english hai bhai.. Sar dard karne laga.. -
LLuckyknight3745
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April 6, 2025 at 8:33 amWait ? POSCO ?? Was his gf underage at the time?? If she was … he deserves it. Also I doubt your choice in men OP. -
RRapidvani8945
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April 6, 2025 at 9:00 amGuys, calm down for a second.
Yes, I wrote all that when I was under a lot of stress, and I was drunk too — so no, I didn’t care about how my English sounded back then. That’s not the point.Right now, I’m speaking up because I know that guy is innocent — he always was, and he still is.
It was my boyfriend’s best friend who did this to him — behind his back, without him knowing a thing.
That video? It’s from two years ago.
It was never even on my boyfriend’s phone.
He only found out when everything had already happened — when his so-called best friend had already crossed the line.I’m not here to entertain anyone’s useless opinions. I’m here because someone’s life is at stake.
When all this actually happened, my boyfriend was the only one who stood by that girl.
She was there too — she wasn’t alone.And now, her family is pressuring her to go forward with this — to do something that could destroy an innocent person’s life.
I’m a girl too. I get it. I really do.
But filing a fake case is not justice — it’s just plain wrong. It could ruin someone’s future forever.And to the people here who are talking without knowing a single thing — please, just stop. If you don’t know the facts, stay quiet.
To those who have actually helped — thank you so much♥️If anyone has a real, logical solution — please help me. I genuinely need it right now.
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RRapidvani8945
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April 6, 2025 at 9:01 amGuys, calm down for a second.
Yes, I wrote all that when I was under a lot of stress, and I was drunk too — so no, I didn’t care about how my English sounded back then. That’s not the point.Right now, I’m speaking up because I know that guy is innocent — he always was, and he still is.
It was my boyfriend’s best friend who did this to him — behind his back, without him knowing a thing.
That video? It’s from two years ago.
It was never even on my boyfriend’s phone.
He only found out when everything had already happened — when his so-called best friend had already crossed the line.I’m not here to entertain anyone’s useless opinions. I’m here because someone’s life is at stake.
When all this actually happened, my boyfriend was the only one who stood by that girl.
She was there too — she wasn’t alone.And now, her family is pressuring her to go forward with this — to do something that could destroy an innocent person’s life.
I’m a girl too. I get it. I really do.
But filing a fake case is not justice — it’s just plain wrong. It could ruin someone’s future forever.And to the people here who are talking without knowing a single thing — please, just stop. If you don’t know the facts, stay quiet.
To those who have actually helped — thank you so much.If anyone has a real, logical solution — please help me. I genuinely need it right now.
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VVisheshwolf54
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April 6, 2025 at 9:02 amyou guys are made in heaven bro . please save my brother from this mess. get back with the girl -
RRupalilion336
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April 6, 2025 at 9:04 amLet him go to the jail 😒 he sexually exploited a minor and top of that made video and circulated to his friends ( that gym fight story is a lie he obviously lied to you he must’ve sent those videos to his friends to brang about fcking a girl ) adios -
PPrimedude9581
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April 6, 2025 at 9:06 amWhy did he even have those videos ??? How do u even know that he and his friends didn’t try to blackmail her into something. He is a creep and you are stupid for supporting him. He is clearly making excuses. Be honest with yourself and support a fellow women. He is completely in the wrong for having those videos in the first place after they broke up. And how did his friend know all his passwords ??… just move on -
SSohanpanda904
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April 6, 2025 at 9:33 amsab padhne ke baad aise lag rha gangadhar hi shaktiman hai 🫣 -
AAlphadhruv9625
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April 6, 2025 at 9:50 amUnrelated but why do they call it POSCO? Isn’t it POCSO? -
DDesipanda1506
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April 6, 2025 at 10:45 amRight now your bf’s best option is to get a really good lawyer. Posco act is way above Reddit discussion . -
MMegaakshita9961
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April 6, 2025 at 11:23 amAccording to POCSO children under 18 cannot consent for sex.Also his friend “stole” his phone and “leaked” the video. Excuse as old as camera phones have been in hold of horny teens.
Also something that was shot two years ago. How was it so easily accessible? He has it pinned or what? Rewatches every now and then? Galleries these days are full of images…lol.
He doesn’t have a lock on his phone? No face id etc?
He didn’t store an incriminating video in a private folder?Why weren’t you ever able to access it or be aware of it? If it is THAT EASY to access?
This doesn’t add up. You and that poor girl have fallen for a shit guy. 20-21 isn’t that smart age either. Hit 25 and then you will wake up.
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SSwiftrutuja1353
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April 6, 2025 at 1:15 pmIf you are really 21 f, I would suggest you to worry about your future years and not his !! I am very Sorry to say this but this would be the best decision for you from my perspective, I have a younger sister who is exactly of your age and I would have told her the same. -
MMegastar5187
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April 6, 2025 at 4:53 pmArey Didi,Innocent? POCSO case hai Behan. And the intimate moments were recorded! So innocent toh nahi hai. The best approach would be to sort it out outside the court.
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BBrightdivyansh5635
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April 6, 2025 at 5:07 pmsori for u -
AAaravdude593
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April 6, 2025 at 8:23 pmNALA minor’s consent doesn’t count.
He is a rapist.
He can drag down his friend for circulation, but he is done if the case is filed.
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