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UHello
I’m F23 from delhi.I’m planning to fully move out of my parents home and i would like to know the necessary documents i need to take with me so i can rent a place, pay bills, buy a car and all.
I couldn’t figure out the right sub for this and i think lawyers would have the best knowledge in this because i wont have the option of going back once i leave.
I’m planning to move to another state once i leave.
If you have any other related advice for me, I’d gladly appreciate that also. Thanks
Currently the documents i have with me are:
Real Aadhar card hard copy
Real PAN Card hard copy
Birth certificate
All certificates from my schooling till 12th (most of them atleast) -
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BI bet you’d be knowing all the necessary documentation all by yourself but Daughters can also claim a share of ancestral property btw.
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UAgar mujhe pataa hota then i wouldn’t waste time and energy asking for random strangers help.
I know that
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UMostly I’d proof chahiye hota hai, whenever I have rented they need an id proof to check with police for any priors.
To get a job you need to show I guess your qualifications get those as well. Or have them your digilocker.
Bank copies if you have any assets in your name their papers. If u wanna leave them behind to its different thing.
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UYes, old and new ATM/ debit/ credit cards, all old and new chequebook and passbooks, any documents given by the bank to you like for a loan or something
+ voters ID and ration card if you, your caste certificate if you have, Drivers license etc etc
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UI am from general category… is there a certificate for that? My father keeps all our docs , so I’ll have to figure out a way to ask him for them, and then what, i get them photocopied or something. ?
I have my bank card , but only have the form the against who opened my account gave me , nothing else. Didn’t get check book by choice. I use net banking..
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UCheck at your brand if they issued you a chequebook, of no then great. If yes, tell them to deactivate (I guess that’s what they call it) those cheques.
I’ve heard about the caste certificate but I don’t know who all have it and who don’t. I don’t have one. No certificate is there for general category people.
Keep the originals with you in a safe place. Keep scanned copies SAVED in your phone and email/ email drive.
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Myou need personal identifications, your educational qualifications, work experience, bank account documents, passport etc
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UBank account docs me kya aata hai? I have my card and the form that the agent who opened my act gave me.
Identity qualification k liye to aadhar card use hota hai na? Is there something else that I’m missing or don’t know about ?
Work experience as in resume, i get it .
Educational qualifications me school certificates right?
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LBank documents mein bank passbook and chequebook aata hai, but if ur account is PAN linked, you should be able to obtain them again. If your bank account is not linked with your parent’s accounts, then I’d suggest using the same bank and changing address to new location. If you are an old client, it will be easier than opening a new account in a new bank.
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DAdhaar card, pan card,passport, previous employment records, current employment records, marksheets and educational certificates, any important medical files, birth certificate.
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UImportant medical file me kya aata hai? I have had a few illnesses including Covid but i think my dad has all those files… are they truly necessary?
I don’t wish to raise suspicion but if they are absolutely necessary I’ll figure out a way to get them
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Ualong with the documents you should inform the local police station in writing you are leaving your home out of your own free will and you don’t want to be with your parents, because there is a chance they may file a missing complaint.
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Uas per canismajoris reddit user.
As this is a “family matter,” the police can be reluctant and avoidant in offering assistance.It might be helpful to approach local NGOs for material support, as navigating these types of situations can be daunting. Even better, consider contacting a lawyer who can help you approach this matter in a more robust manner.
To address your query, the following steps are usually taken in such matters:
1. An order under the Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, 2005, specifically the Protection of Women from Domestic Violence order.
2. An injunction, also known as a restraining order, under the Criminal Procedure Code, 1973.
If these options fail, you might consider obtaining a civil injunction under Section 94 of the Code of Civil Procedure, 1908.
Collect all the necessary pieces of evidence to satisfy the court’s attention. This will not only help you obtain an order but also ensure its permanence. Since this involves restricting someone else’s freedom, the court requires specific and clear proof that such measures are necessary, not just temporarily but permanently.
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UThe local police station is not in my vicinity. And i really can’t do that..
Although i do plan to leave a note that indicates I’ve left. My phone number was bought by my dad and is kinda linked to his phone number plan from Airtel, do you think he’ll be able to suspend that or something? Because if he does then i won’t be able to use my Aadhar or bank.. since that’s also connected to it
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UThe simcard should be the least of your concerns, you’ll have your entire family/caste behind you to get you back. being young they’ll easily coerce you by saying you’re mentally ill or something. first contact a lawyer near your place and get it done legally. leaving a note and running away won’t work, you won’t be able to leave your area before they catch you and bring you back.
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UWhy are u moving out you dont even have a degree how will u survive have u thought about that? Are u being pressurised by anyone to leave
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UDo u have any recs for safe areas? I’m not moving out recently, unless i have enough money. And im looking for a location to go to. It has to be another state because all the areas near Delhi are quite expensive and horribly unsafe.
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UTry Bangalore way away from delhi also u can find a decent job and quite safe and as long as u respect local language u wont have a problem
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UBangalore was my first choice. But as someone who’s kind of cut off from real world, i heavily reply on the info shared by people online and my analysis of its truth.
And Bangalore seems really expensive for someone who’s not into nightlife, clubbing, or city savvy.
I just want a safe area with 24/7 electricity and no rowdy daylight , nighttime criminals.
Besides, my income source is not yet finalised so i would like to keep my monthly expenses as low as possible…
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UVillage area would be your best bet then but girl i really want to know why u want to leave house?
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UWhy village area? Even some cities barely have proper electricity, the last thing id wanna step in is a village. Especially with all the misogyny
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UNot all villages have that issues btw there might be some but i live in village too and except for some days when there is maintenance at the grid i never faced electricity issues my point here is u r going to run away from home without degree it will be difficult to survive without a job too
Get a degree or get a job in bpo atleast then move out
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HI guess you either have a job or a decent bank balance to sustain. Given that think of all documents you needed for your job or for opening the bank account
PAN
Aadhaar
Passport
Degree certificate
Birth Certificate
Voter idTo rent in any decent locality you would need to show source of income (capability to pay rent for the leased term) – so job appt or HR letter at some point
If you have bank accounts then go to bank and make sure you have the sole cheque book for your account
If you have properties in your name then physical copies of those documents can come in handy at a later time.
Also note if you are taking jewelry or cash with you then have proof of ownership because not the first time that parents sue / file cases on daughters for theft and running away from home with jewelry to gain control on you. If no proof then better leave them be at home and use funds only from bank accounts with your legal ownership.
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UAcha, thanks for the last point. I had no idea that was a thing. Obviously possible but still quite chaotic.
I don’t have any jewels i plan to take. Only cash and money online.
My Aadhar card number is under my dad’s name.. linked in an Airtel plan, do u think he can suspend that? I will take the sim though…
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UAcha, thanks for the last point. I had no idea that was a thing. Obviously possible but still quite chaotic.
I don’t have any jewels i plan to take. Only cash and money online.
My Aadhar card number is under my dad’s name.. linked in an Airtel plan, do u think he can suspend that? I will take the sim though…
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